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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good evening all,

I'm in a wee quandary and wondered if anyone had experienced this. A good few years ago I met a guy from fab for a regular sexy meet. It was great fun, the next time even better and they only got better. As months went on we gained a level of trust to experiment unconditionally and the most amazing sub/Dom relationship developed. It became very extreme in many ways but ultimately all I wanted was for his appraisal.

A year ago we had to part ways and since then I have enjoyed several vanilla meets but there's a void for me. My sub screams out but I can't imagine going through that journey again. Will it pass? I'm a sexual woman but feel unless it's a proper sub/Dom relationship I can't be bothered with the effort I hope I'm not alone with these feelings.

L xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes both sides require to put in effort, if you cant be "bothered" I am sure the other person will pick up on this

things do get easier as time goes on, only you will know what you truly want.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Good evening all,

I'm in a wee quandary and wondered if anyone had experienced this. A good few years ago I met a guy from fab for a regular sexy meet. It was great fun, the next time even better and they only got better. As months went on we gained a level of trust to experiment unconditionally and the most amazing sub/Dom relationship developed. It became very extreme in many ways but ultimately all I wanted was for his appraisal.

A year ago we had to part ways and since then I have enjoyed several vanilla meets but there's a void for me. My sub screams out but I can't imagine going through that journey again. Will it pass? I'm a sexual woman but feel unless it's a proper sub/Dom relationship I can't be bothered with the effort I hope I'm not alone with these feelings.

L xx"
coming out of any relationship id imagine takes time to get used to and im sure there are fellings of never being able to trust someone again the way you did with your dom,but give it time and the healing process might just surprise you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes both sides require to put in effort, if you cant be "bothered" I am sure the other person will pick up on this

things do get easier as time goes on, only you will know what you truly want.

."

You're right, 'bothered' wasn't the cleverest term to use. I would hate for anyone to feel that with me or indeed about me. Maybe being brave enough to search for it again is more what I mean

I guess only my efforts and my trust will get me there x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"coming out of any relationship id imagine takes time to get used to and im sure there are fellings of never being able to trust someone again the way you did with your dom,but give it time and the healing process might just surprise you "

Thank you Time can often be our best friend x

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