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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Since you first joined fab ?

Mine certainly have and I find myself just going with the flow with regards to meets...ie not always keeping social meets strictly social and thats because ive spent a fair bit of time chatting and getting to know my meets first and we all have busy lives so once in a while its good to just be spontaneous especially if you've already gotten on exceptionally well before meeting .

so In what way have your principles changed since you first joined ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

should read have your principles changed since you first joined lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've become more open to possibilities now. And far more aware of the importance of keeping my antics private.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I think I've become more open to possibilities now. And far more aware of the importance of keeping my antics private.

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I know what you mean about possibilities is so good to try new things you never thought you would .

My swinging activites are always private until veris are exchanged xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have always been open minded sexually, I have always declared my true sexuality and never tried to hide it. Fuck that.

My principles have changed, I joined having been brought up to respect women and I stay true to that but, not all women. The way some behave in swinging and how they go about it, is a disgrace to other women.

It's a good question, I will ponder on it more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very much a go with the flow sort . Mood can be a massive factor and will determine how rigid my principles are

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I have always been open minded sexually, I have always declared my true sexuality and never tried to hide it. Fuck that.

My principles have changed, I joined having been brought up to respect women and I stay true to that but, not all women. The way some behave in swinging and how they go about it, is a disgrace to other women.

It's a good question, I will ponder on it more

"

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Going with the flow is certainly a good way to go.

An added bonus being that you often don't know where it'll flow to!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Going with the flow is certainly a good way to go.

An added bonus being that you often don't know where it'll flow to!

"
Indeed and that the fun element

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect and trust have diminished and I'm sad they've needed to

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By *lba couple1Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Go with the flow and live dangerous, every night is different. Life is to short xxxx it's all in the vipe

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By *lba couple1Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

But still play safe xxxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think its a case of people change times change and we all got to do what suits our needs at the time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its a case of people change times change and we all got to do what suits our needs at the time xx "

How very apt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say they have yes

Going back to the married guy post

When we 1 St joined we had all these rules lol looking back they were silly as they didn't last very long lol

Rules have changed but our principles havnt as ours was always respect each others decision when it comes to this site and so nope that's not changed

Good question tho jacs x

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By *lba couple1Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Rules are made to be broken , but rules are made to be changed, same thing or different, depends on the day or the person xx

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

As life and experience change so does principles and opinions....it's a journey

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By *lba couple1Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

It's strange that you don't change so much , been 8 years, only met couples, don't. Meet single males, have met the odd single male but still sticking with original profile , not much changes but older and wiser xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As life and experience change so does principles and opinions....it's a journey "

So true...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"As life and experience change so does principles and opinions....it's a journey "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if I had any to begin with, but I helped an old lady across the road yesterday

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

When I think back to when I first started

out on here I had lists as long as your arms of things id never do but things do change and Ive done pretty much all I set out to do on here and also many i said id never do lol with one or two exceptions Ive still to do and looking forward to them

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Maybe changed isnt the right word alot of my principles have been re-enforced due to the site as well as affirmation of how self absorbed alot of folk can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since becoming a couple our principles have changed to adapt to each other. He has had to change a lot as he would have met smokers before, but we don't now for example. I am stronger principled than he is but it works well as a package as there are things I would have been unsure of doing before, that we now do. For example large group fun. That would have bothered me before, but with him beside me it is possible and we have indeed done this.

I'm less shy for sure though because of him.

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

I would say in the two years or so I have changed!

Not proud to say it but when I first joined I would have shagged just about any female who showed an interest!

Now I'm quite enjoying the social side of swinging and have had the pleasure of meeting some great people who I would now class as friends!

Fab has it's faults but there are lots of genuine people on here you just need to meet the right ones

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Going with the flow is certainly a good way to go.

An added bonus being that you often don't know where it'll flow to!

Indeed and that the fun element "

Absolutely, and intriguing too!!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

I would suggest there's a difference between principles and rules.

But neither need to be set in tablets of stone, and often life experiences lead to changes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would suggest there's a difference between principles and rules.

But neither need to be set in tablets of stone, and often life experiences lead to changes."

Absolutely right. Our principles haven't changed in the year and half we've been on here but our willingness to open up to new things, specifically playing on a first meet, have. That didn't really work out for the most part, so we've gone back to social meets first and the quality of our meets has gone way back up again so I guess that'll stay unless in exceptional circumstances.

I think as long as you don't try and alter who you are or your own principles in the pursuit of just getting a blowjob or a shag then you'll get a huge amount out of Fab and it'll never become mundane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My attitude has changed. In the almost 10 years I've been here my idea of the site hasn't but my feelings toward people in General has, my tolerance levels for people has definitely changed

The older I get the harder it becomes to get meets and rely more in social meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the difference between princapales and rules ?? X

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