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What makes it good?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What makes someone good or bad in bed?

It's all of course a perception, one person may think you're fantastic and another perhaps wouldn't agree.

You may be super confident in bed so think your incredible, but your partner may not!

You can do the same things, behave in the same way with 2 people, great for one but not the other.

Fact is we all like different things, but mostly in my mind for it to be good you need a connection and chemistry, a genuine desire to satisfy each other. Trust, imagination and an ability to kiss to the point of no return!

So I wonder the following???

In a NSA world is that always there?

Is everyone only going for great?

Does it really need to be?

Is good sex just down to luck?

Or are we having sex for the sake of sex??

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"

What makes someone good or bad in bed?

It's all of course a perception, one person may think you're fantastic and another perhaps wouldn't agree.

You may be super confident in bed so think your incredible, but your partner may not!

You can do the same things, behave in the same way with 2 people, great for one but not the other.

Fact is we all like different things, but mostly in my mind for it to be good you need a connection and chemistry, a genuine desire to satisfy each other. Trust, imagination and an ability to kiss to the point of no return!

So I wonder the following???

In a NSA world is that always there?

Is everyone only going for great?

Does it really need to be?

Is good sex just down to luck?

Or are we having sex for the sake of sex??

"
sex with the same man would never be the same for and for me because as you say we're all unique and what you might do sexually may vary from what I would do.

How can you go for only great because of you've never been with the person you don't know they are great.

And I never have sex just for the sake of it there has to be a click both in personality and in attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have sex for the sake of it like to build up the chemistry first & oh boy there's one building up to nearly explosive

There's a lot of folk on here that totally think that they are fabtastic at sex you just need to read the verifications they leave people.

Saying how satisfied they left someone surely the meet they had are supposed to leave them the verification saying if they had been satisfied with you or not,?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

isn't it ment to be about mutual satisfaction?

I've left veris saying how satisfied the person was because only us two know how satisfied they were and I've also been left veris from them saying how satisfied they left me.

I think the fact repeats are being asked for says it all.

As for people thinking they are great at sex yes I imagine many do for me I just know how to have a great time and how to please my playmates.

And I fully agree the slow sensual flirt build ups are great

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

When everyone wants to meet for plain and simple fun

No drink, no ulterior motives and no drama

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"When everyone wants to meet for plain and simple fun

No drink, no ulterior motives and no drama

"

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire


"Never have sex for the sake of it like to build up the chemistry first & oh boy there's one building up to nearly explosive

There's a lot of folk on here that totally think that they are fabtastic at sex you just need to read the verifications they leave people.

Saying how satisfied they left someone surely the meet they had are supposed to leave them the verification saying if they had been satisfied with you or not,? "

I agree a bit with this however would you ever leave someone a verification saying the were average in bed and a shit ride? Even if you did then I don't think they would display it! Lol

My thinking is that what works for one person might not work for others so use the verifications for reference and to make sure they are real, reliable and roughly what your looking for but better to try for yourself!

I always think the biggest thing that makes someone good is effort! Not lying there like a sack of spuds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

confidence trust and communication

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"confidence trust and communication"
totally spot on in all aspects

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"confidence trust and communicationtotally spot on in all aspects "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fact is we all like different things, but mostly in my mind for it to be good you need a connection and chemistry, a genuine desire to satisfy each other. Trust, imagination and an ability to kiss to the point of no return!"

Agree with all of this. Someone that can satisfy your appetite but with the imagination to keep you on your toes is what would class as great.

I take verifications with a pinch of salt and can usually tell very early on if I'd have a connection and urge to play.

I've been really lucky on here and have probably had better sex because of the nsa aspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mix it up every single time, I hit different spots, I like feedback, I try things, I listen to what the other person enjoys, doesn't enjoy and then I just do my thing.

I rarely dom, most women aren't into that, the ones that are get a different experience.

Never the same twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never have sex for the sake of it like to build up the chemistry first & oh boy there's one building up to nearly explosive

There's a lot of folk on here that totally think that they are fabtastic at sex you just need to read the verifications they leave people.

Saying how satisfied they left someone surely the meet they had are supposed to leave them the verification saying if they had been satisfied with you or not,?

I agree a bit with this however would you ever leave someone a verification saying the were average in bed and a shit ride? Even if you did then I don't think they would display it! Lol

My thinking is that what works for one person might not work for others so use the verifications for reference and to make sure they are real, reliable and roughly what your looking for but better to try for yourself!

I always think the biggest thing that makes someone good is effort! Not lying there like a sack of spuds! "

That wasn't the point I was trying to make

The point I was trying to make is people who leave verifications all about the other person being satisfied rather than about them feeling satisfied maybe

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