FabSwingers.com forum: married men versus married wumen

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Under the married men banner posted few days ago, it appears there is room for the fairer sex to get their _iews heard as to why they aren't persecuted on here like a married man. I've had few private txt on the subject. Is it worth opening it up to the house?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married when I joined here met folk was always up front.

Which I think it's fair to be honest I'm now divorced.

I don't judge people for it why should I it's like pot kettle black.

But for girls or guy's who are married playing away without partners consent to say that they are in a happy marriage but always looking for meets

Can't be that happy you need to find someone else to fill your needs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've found that ladies want attention rather than love. Old Man simply not delivering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found that ladies want attention rather than love. Old Man simply not delivering"

Does that not mean that they aren't happy in the bedroom department?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can only go by my experience. They love hubby but want more. He either not interested in sex or not delivering what lady wants.i tend I not to get involved. If they are there to play im happy to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found that ladies want attention rather than love. Old Man simply not delivering"
not always the case where its for attention there can be lots of different factors its not always black & white i have always been honest about been.married without consent lots understand but iv had my fair share of nasty abuse over my time on fab over my honesty but its like if i lied saying i was single id get shot down for been a liar have to agree wats was said if any married person is on here playing away without consent there not 100% happy in the marriage be it communication life struggles or sexually sometimes its good hust to be yourself and have some me time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found that ladies want attention rather than love. Old Man simply not deliveringnot always the case where its for attention there can be lots of different factors its not always black & white i have always been honest about been.married without consent lots understand but iv had my fair share of nasty abuse over my time on fab over my honesty but its like if i lied saying i was single id get shot down for been a liar have to agree wats was said if any married person is on here playing away without consent there not 100% happy in the marriage be it communication life struggles or sexually sometimes its good hust to be yourself and have some me time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone assumes a married partner is able bodied. Every one has needs without spilling their life story to obtain them. Everyone is so judgemental in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree no.one should have to spill details of why there here its only when the judgmental cast there nasty _iews at me so if it makes married guys feel better us fems get judged too

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Not once has anyone ever given me abuse on here for being married so I must have been lucky .

As for peoples reasons why they are here I think thats up to the individuals to tell those people that matter if asked (ie the people they are planning on meeting)no one else matters .

Im a married woman on here with full consent and many of my friends who have actually met my husband will confirm that.

Why im here is between me and my husband and the people I meet but make no mistake im very much in love with my husband despite the situation we find ourselfs in in or relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are talking about mostly married ppl here without consent which is a whole diff ball game

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That was my point. They in love with hubby. But when it's a guy he is automatically cheating as discussed on previous forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And as iv said iv been told im cheating and called some words i coukdnt even post on here tbh

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"That was my point. They in love with hubby. But when it's a guy he is automatically cheating as discussed on previous forum"
This is what i understood the post be be about the acceptance of married women aganist married men whether with or without consent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That was my point. They in love with hubby. But when it's a guy he is automatically cheating as discussed on previous forum"

No I was a cheat it went as far as the guy I met a few times looked me up on Facebook found my hubby & mailed my profile to him from here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That was my point. They in love with hubby. But when it's a guy he is automatically cheating as discussed on previous forum

No I was a cheat it went as far as the guy I met a few times looked me up on Facebook found my hubby & mailed my profile to him from here "
thats shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That was my point. They in love with hubby. But when it's a guy he is automatically cheating as discussed on previous forum

No I was a cheat it went as far as the guy I met a few times looked me up on Facebook found my hubby & mailed my profile to him from here thats shocking

Did me a favour though I got away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's Incredible.... Why you don't give info away. u simply don't know who you dealing with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found that ladies want attention rather than love. Old Man simply not delivering"
is that why you play away,cant deliver to your wife or is it that you dont just satisfy her any longer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's Incredible.... Why you don't give info away. u simply don't know who you dealing with"

I started here thought I could trust people but hey Ho I've learned my lesson on more than one occasion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hypothetically. If a partner was wheelchair bound or limited body movement, do you think it wd be a consensual matter to go on a swinger or similar site to obtain sexual needs in a controlled and agreed environment

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"That's Incredible.... Why you don't give info away. u simply don't know who you dealing with

I started here thought I could trust people but hey Ho I've learned my lesson on more than one occasion

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I think that was the case for us all at one point sadly not anymroe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hypothetically. If a partner was wheelchair bound or limited body movement, do you think it wd be a consensual matter to go on a swinger or similar site to obtain sexual needs in a controlled and agreed environment"

Still cheating for female or male for sickness & health & all that jazz unless partner agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im single salt n sugar

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im single salt n sugar"
Since when,now watch what you say here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all know its cheating but i think the point was really aimed at do married fems get same grief as married women or am i wrong ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think whats being asked is are married women more accepted than married men maybe the Op will confirm that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all know its cheating but i think the point was really aimed at do married fems get same grief as married women or am i wrong ?"
Not on the forums as such but in ones mind,dirty cow cheating on her man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That was the question wifie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meant married fems then married guys lol ooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all know its cheating but i think the point was really aimed at do married fems get same grief as married women or am i wrong ?Not on the forums as such but in ones mind,dirty cow cheating on her man

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excuse me ?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just think cheating wife is fantasy territory for lot of guys.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"That was the question wifie."
ah ok i thought you were asking if married women were accepted more than married men on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are they

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Are they"
Id say yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are they"
going by my own personal experience i wouldnt say we are accepted anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance."
its not that guys are treated unfairly its that fems are given the sympathy vote cmon they are female and cant be in the wrong

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who From. Male or female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who From. Male or female"
males

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance.its not that guys are treated unfairly its that fems are given the sympathy vote cmon they are female and cant be in the wrong i really do.have to disagree there yes theres alot of guys who dont mind but as i said earlier i get lots of grief and nasty messages coz im married"
no excuse for the nasty msgs but a guy puts up wife not giving sex so came here would be met with disdain a woman puts same post up replys would be ... what an ass your hubby must be I would delight in pleasuring you all day every day seen it plenty times and sure Iwill see Iit plenty more

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance.its not that guys are treated unfairly its that fems are given the sympathy vote cmon they are female and cant be in the wrong i really do.have to disagree there yes theres alot of guys who dont mind but as i said earlier i get lots of grief and nasty messages coz im marriedno excuse for the nasty msgs but a guy puts up wife not giving sex so came here would be met with disdain a woman puts same post up replys would be ... what an ass your hubby must be I would delight in pleasuring you all day every day seen it plenty times and sure Iwill see Iit plenty more"
Totally agree and seen it many times hence I find it hrd to believe that fem is getting so much abusive messages over being married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance.its not that guys are treated unfairly its that fems are given the sympathy vote cmon they are female and cant be in the wrong i really do.have to disagree there yes theres alot of guys who dont mind but as i said earlier i get lots of grief and nasty messages coz im marriedno excuse for the nasty msgs but a guy puts up wife not giving sex so came here would be met with disdain a woman puts same post up replys would be ... what an ass your hubby must be I would delight in pleasuring you all day every day seen it plenty times and sure Iwill see Iit plenty moreTotally agree and seen it many times hence I find it hrd to believe that fem is getting so much abusive messages over being married

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fab isnt only forums alot happens and gets said thru random messages so you can believe " that fem " or not iv got into this thread open and honest and iv no need to lie so ill repeat some guys understand but there are nasty ones out there too

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance.its not that guys are treated unfairly its that fems are given the sympathy vote cmon they are female and cant be in the wrong i really do.have to disagree there yes theres alot of guys who dont mind but as i said earlier i get lots of grief and nasty messages coz im marriedno excuse for the nasty msgs but a guy puts up wife not giving sex so came here would be met with disdain a woman puts same post up replys would be ... what an ass your hubby must be I would delight in pleasuring you all day every day seen it plenty times and sure Iwill see Iit plenty moreTotally agree and seen it many times hence I find it hrd to believe that fem is getting so much abusive messages over being married

fab isnt only forums alot happens and gets said thru random messages so you can believe " that fem " or not iv got into this thread open and honest and iv no need to lie so ill repeat some guys understand but there are nasty ones out there too "
I didnt say your wernt getting abuse I said I just find it hard to believe .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance.its not that guys are treated unfairly its that fems are given the sympathy vote cmon they are female and cant be in the wrong i really do.have to disagree there yes theres alot of guys who dont mind but as i said earlier i get lots of grief and nasty messages coz im marriedno excuse for the nasty msgs but a guy puts up wife not giving sex so came here would be met with disdain a woman puts same post up replys would be ... what an ass your hubby must be I would delight in pleasuring you all day every day seen it plenty times and sure Iwill see Iit plenty moreTotally agree and seen it many times hence I find it hrd to believe that fem is getting so much abusive messages over being married

fab isnt only forums alot happens and gets said thru random messages so you can believe " that fem " or not iv got into this thread open and honest and iv no need to lie so ill repeat some guys understand but there are nasty ones out there too I didnt say your wernt getting abuse I said I just find it hard to believe .

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can I just say , when guys say aww it would be a delight pleasuring you blah blah blah .. Is all basically bullshit they are just trying to get there balls empty ...

wow Sunnis being controversial

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Even reading on here I think guys are unfairly treated compared to ladies in the same circumstance.its not that guys are treated unfairly its that fems are given the sympathy vote cmon they are female and cant be in the wrong i really do.have to disagree there yes theres alot of guys who dont mind but as i said earlier i get lots of grief and nasty messages coz im marriedno excuse for the nasty msgs but a guy puts up wife not giving sex so came here would be met with disdain a woman puts same post up replys would be ... what an ass your hubby must be I would delight in pleasuring you all day every day seen it plenty times and sure Iwill see Iit plenty moreTotally agree and seen it many times hence I find it hrd to believe that fem is getting so much abusive messages over being married

fab isnt only forums alot happens and gets said thru random messages so you can believe " that fem " or not iv got into this thread open and honest and iv no need to lie so ill repeat some guys understand but there are nasty ones out there too I didnt say your wernt getting abuse I said I just find it hard to believe .

can I just say , when guys say aww it would be a delight pleasuring you blah blah blah .. Is all basically bullshit they are just trying to get there balls empty ...

wow Sunnis being controversial

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yes for many this might be true but dont under estimate us women we know how to use men to our own advantage too when we want to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol ... Hail hail sister xox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes for many this might be true but dont under estimate us women we know how to use men to our own advantage too when we want to lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"yes for many this might be true but dont under estimate us women we know how to use men to our own advantage too when we want to lol

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it's true isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great how someone takes over a thread lol

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Great how someone takes over a thread lol"

Seems to be a two horse race to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great how someone takes over a thread lol

Seems to be a two horse race to be fair. "
lol do you think

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The biggest thing I have come to appreciate on these sites is leave others to do as they wish. If you aren't interested in what they do, what they seek and leave them be, it is a better place for all.

The treatment of men versus women is truly laughable on here at times, but hey, if people pander to the vagina, they will likely reap what they sow.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Great how someone takes over a thread lol

Seems to be a two horse race to be fair. lol do you think"

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The biggest thing I have come to appreciate on these sites is leave others to do as they wish. If you aren't interested in what they do, what they seek and leave them be, it is a better place for all.

The treatment of men versus women is truly laughable on here at times, but hey, if people pander to the vagina, they will likely reap what they sow."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you on that i was a guilty party on that and its a case of accepting the person not the situation

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

The treatment of men versus women is truly laughable on here at times, but hey, if people pander to the vagina, they will likely reap what they sow."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the question is ... Do married men playing without consent get more grief for doing so than married women doing the same thing

Big fat yes!!!!!

Happens on everything on here if a single guy asks a silly question he will get shot down

If a chick asks the same question folk will fall over themselves to post

It's the way the land is on here

Going back to married guys playing away i always said no married guys... Met a guy a few times with jas became really friendly then 1 morning I got a call from his wife.... Not a nice situation to be in

Now.... I take everything a guy tells me with a huge pinch if salt it's up to me wether to meet him or not

Auds x

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"If the question is ... Do married men playing without consent get more grief for doing so than married women doing the same thing

Big fat yes!!!!!

Happens on everything on here if a single guy asks a silly question he will get shot down

If a chick asks the same question folk will fall over themselves to post

It's the way the land is on here

Now.... I take everything a guy tells me with a huge pinch if salt it's up to me wether to meet him or not

Auds x"

Couldn't agree more Auds. (I would normally respond in more detail but I'm full ofvthe cold and my head is mince!!!!!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree with auds point about the pinch of salt. Except its the lady I use it with. I simply don't ask personal questions. Then you won't have to decipher the answer. They tell me they single that's how I treat the situation. I just hope hubby doesn't asks the question !!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"If the question is ... Do married men playing without consent get more grief for doing so than married women doing the same thing

Big fat yes!!!!!

Happens on everythiu ng on here if a single guy asks a silly question he will get shot down

If a chick asks the same question folk will fall over themselves to post

It's the way the land is on here

Now.... I take everything a guy tells me with a huge pinch if salt it's up to me wether to meet him or not

Auds x"
do you mean the guy told you he was single Auds then you found out he was married by the call from his wife?

If so the same thing happend to me only difference is he wasn't married but very much attateched to his gf who was pregnant to him at the time

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I really don't get the fascination with people's marital status and who knows what etc.

I'm single, Mr is married. We won't discuss it with anyone further than that. If people have a problem with it, then they don't message or play with us, which is entirely their choice to do so.

Each to their own, we don't need people' life stories. As I've said before, no one knows what goes on behind closed doors, and we don't judge anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really don't get the fascination with people's marital status and who knows what etc.

I'm single, Mr is married. We won't discuss it with anyone further than that. If people have a problem with it, then they don't message or play with us, which is entirely their choice to do so.

Each to their own, we don't need people' life stories. As I've said before, no one knows what goes on behind closed doors, and we don't judge anyone."

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

There is definately a big difference married men and married women.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"There is definately a big difference married men and married women.

You only need to look at all the female profiles that say no married/attached guys yet I bet that I could count on my one hand and have fingers left on the number of male profiles that won't meet an attached female. "
so true I've lost count of the amount of couples who have contacted me wanting to meet and have the no married guys in block caps all over their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started here attached...broke up now single...

I was upfront about it...never got any abuse or got blocked...since being single I have been blocked a number of times...maybe it's better being attached and honest about it...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"There is definately a big difference married men and married women.

You only need to look at all the female profiles that say no married/attached guys yet I bet that I could count on my one hand and have fingers left on the number of male profiles that won't meet an attached female. "
knotch a finger up for me I dont play party to cheats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for sex, not to impose morality. I really don't care about an unknowing husband, it's a selfish _iew to take I know but that's a part of me I accept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the question is ... Do married men playing without consent get more grief for doing so than married women doing the same thing

Big fat yes!!!!!

Happens on everythiu ng on here if a single guy asks a silly question he will get shot down

If a chick asks the same question folk will fall over themselves to post

It's the way the land is on here

Now.... I take everything a guy tells me with a huge pinch if salt it's up to me wether to meet him or not

Auds xdo you mean the guy told you he was single Auds then you found out he was married by the call from his wife?

If so the same thing happend to me only difference is he wasn't married but very much attateched to his gf who was pregnant to him at the time

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yip he assured us he was single and this is after a cpl of yrs meeting up when he was over here

We were totally gutted he lied that long to us

So now I just don't ask

I'm here for sex not a life story

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"I'm here for sex, not to impose morality. I really don't care about an unknowing husband, it's a selfish _iew to take I know but that's a part of me I accept."

I don't think it's selfish at all, surely that's the point of the site?

We're here for sex with fun, like minded people, not interested in drama

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

The point alot of folk seem to miss is its not the marital status its the deception that causes problems if you wanna cheat fine do it with those that are willing to accept it be honest for those who wish no part of a cheats life this will fall on deaf ears why .... cheats dont care about anyone apart from themselves the amount of times ive heard he/she is honest with me I dont care if he/she lies to their wife cmon get real

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I'm not saying that. And if someone on here's playing with their partners knowledge it's rather unfair to automatically call them a cheat. Not everyone is in the same boat.

My point was that if you don't want to play with someone that's married, then don't. No ones being forced to. If people are being honest about it, as we are, then you have the choice to avoid.

Unfortunately not everyone is honest, and how can you really know for sure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The point alot of folk seem to miss is its not the marital status its the deception that causes problems if you wanna cheat fine do it with those that are willing to accept it be honest for those who wish no part of a cheats life this will fall on deaf ears why .... cheats dont care about anyone apart from themselves the amount of times ive heard he/she is honest with me I dont care if he/she lies to their wife cmon get real"
think its unfair to say all cheats are selfish but i respect your honesty in saying married ppl arnt for you its personal preference

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been reading back through all the comments. It's a subject that will split many. It's also very clear that the world is still a very judgemental place. Something I believe is installed in you during your up bringing. I used to be tunnel vision in my _iews but now a lot more open minded. I wouldn't close off an avenue simply because a profile is changed on meeting the person or couple from their online description. Meet them, make up your own mind if you want to meet them again. Whether its my initial post about it being a lady getting more leeway than a guy, I think the varied opinion tells me it's simply down to the individuals principles. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bi's get the best of both worlds xx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

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"The point alot of folk seem to miss is its not the marital status its the deception that causes problems if you wanna cheat fine do it with those that are willing to accept it be honest for those who wish no part of a cheats life this will fall on deaf ears why .... cheats dont care about anyone apart from themselves the amount of times ive heard he/she is honest with me I dont care if he/she lies to their wife cmon get realthink its unfair to say all cheats are selfish but i respect your honesty in saying married ppl arnt for you its personal preference "
im fine with married people as long as all partys know whats going on

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

"That was my point. They in love with hubby. But when it's a guy he is automatically cheating as discussed on previous forum

No I was a cheat it went as far as the guy I met a few times looked me up on Facebook found my hubby & mailed my profile to him from here "

FFS...... Scary.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

A lot of the angst on these types of threads is when people are asked to justify why they don't meet people in relationships who are playing without their loved ones knowledge. If people just got on with and searched for people who will play them, life may be easier for them in the context of swinging.

There are people for all on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The point alot of folk seem to miss is its not the marital status its the deception that causes problems if you wanna cheat fine do it with those that are willing to accept it be honest for those who wish no part of a cheats life this will fall on deaf ears why .... cheats dont care about anyone apart from themselves the amount of times ive heard he/she is honest with me I dont care if he/she lies to their wife cmon get realthink its unfair to say all cheats are selfish but i respect your honesty in saying married ppl arnt for you its personal preference im fine with married people as long as all partys know whats going on

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fair enuff ill correct myself just married without consent isnt your choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your probably rite turboboost. .. Should I announce my arrival from the closet?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

If you wont meet married or attatched thats fine if you will thats also fine it all about personal choice at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wonder how many married go to cj's n pose as other. By all accounts it's popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder how many married go to cj's n pose as other. By all accounts it's popular. "

At cj's no one is judged if married or not everyone is there for adult fun

as I said in the beginning I was married when I joined I'm not anymore but I wouldn't judge people who are married as it's calling pot kettle black

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I wonder how many married go to cj's n pose as other. By all accounts it's popular. "
Have you established if attatched /married women are treated differently to married men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago I was a married woman. I joined a different adult site. I was honest to say I was married but I wanted some excitement. I ended up becoming the other woman to someone else and if honest it's been the role I'm most comfortable in. Clearly defibed boundaries. Less mind games or over thinking. However it's lonely. Now I'm here as a single woman and I'd probably avoid married men now. Not because I've anything against them but because I need to learn the rules of being something else.

I do think on here people make far too many assumptions and as a result there are prejudices. No one knows the extent of anyone's life outside of fab. In my mind it's how it should stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many years ago I was a married woman. I joined a different adult site. I was honest to say I was married but I wanted some excitement. I ended up becoming the other woman to someone else and if honest it's been the role I'm most comfortable in. Clearly defibed boundaries. Less mind games or over thinking. However it's lonely. Now I'm here as a single woman and I'd probably avoid married men now. Not because I've anything against them but because I need to learn the rules of being something else.

I do think on here people make far too many assumptions and as a result there are prejudices. No one knows the extent of anyone's life outside of fab. In my mind it's how it should stay "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day

We are all on a sex site

Who are we to judge anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bingo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wonder how many married go to cj's n pose as other. By all accounts it's popular. Have you established if attatched /married women are treated differently to married men ?"

yes. Absolutely, no doubt about it. The fairer sex get away with murder by fluttering the eye lashes. This forum discussion proves it. .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder how many married go to cj's n pose as other. By all accounts it's popular. Have you established if attatched /married women are treated differently to married men ?

yes. Absolutely, no doubt about it. The fairer sex get away with murder by fluttering the eye lashes. This forum discussion proves it. .....

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really ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I wonder how many married go to cj's n pose as other. By all accounts it's popular. Have you established if attatched /married women are treated differently to married men ?

yes. Absolutely, no doubt about it. The fairer sex get away with murder by fluttering the eye lashes. This forum discussion proves it. .....

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Not suure about this post proving it but over all women to have an earsier time of it on here than males .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you read through the opinions you Can draw your own conclusions. ..I believe. Married lady on here gets an easier Time than a married guy both looking for same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you read through the opinions you Can draw your own conclusions. ..I believe. Married lady on here gets an easier Time than a married guy both looking for same thing. "
i must remember n post a few of the insults i get then

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"At the end of the day

We are all on a sex site

Who are we to judge anyone?"
for me its about a connection of sorts I make no bones about it I JUDGE lots say they dont hell plenty on these forums decry im not here to judge....... yet block me as they have judged me unworthy of their time and thats fine I just wish at times I read less of the I dont judge simple facts we all judge

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"At the end of the day

We are all on a sex site

Who are we to judge anyone?for me its about a connection of sorts I make no bones about it I JUDGE lots say they dont hell plenty on these forums decry im not here to judge....... yet block me as they have judged me unworthy of their time and thats fine I just wish at times I read less of the I dont judge simple facts we all judge "

In the terms of weighing up whether you are interested in someone from their profile, photos and messages, then yes we do all judge whether that person meets our requirements.

But in the case of "oh they're married so they must be cheating", no, we don't think like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wouldn't like to see abuse you may receive wifie. I wd never abuse anyone simply by not agreeing with them. I we'd simply move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a married guy,I don't want a divorce but I do want to experiment a bit and just have fun,wife is not as sexual as me so rather than ditch her and the kids I play solo and have discreet nsa fun

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"I'm a married guy,I don't want a divorce but I do want to experiment a bit and just have fun,wife is not as sexual as me so rather than ditch her and the kids I play solo and have discreet nsa fun "
to satify my curiosity and I understand if you wish not to answer why not tell your wife gain approval if she knows you are a far more sexual creature ? That way no one needs ditched

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a married guy,I don't want a divorce but I do want to experiment a bit and just have fun,wife is not as sexual as me so rather than ditch her and the kids I play solo and have discreet nsa fun "

have you asked her if you can play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a married guy,I don't want a divorce but I do want to experiment a bit and just have fun,wife is not as sexual as me so rather than ditch her and the kids I play solo and have discreet nsa fun

have you asked her if you can play? "

Probably not by the comment he doesn't want to ditch her

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By *eonardo Da VinciMan
over a year ago

manchester

"I'm a married guy,I don't want a divorce but I do want to experiment a bit and just have fun,wife is not as sexual as me so rather than ditch her and the kids I play solo and have discreet nsa fun "

Fair play to you fella. Just make sure you use protection and get checked regularly. Stay safe and protect your family.

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