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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

a question i keep asking myself

trying to arrange a party not our first but its been a while since last one

now it seems to me that its getting harder to arrange these parties not just we have had timewasters in past it just seems to be more difficult to find fun people that are looking for fun at a house party

does anyone else think this is so

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By *ast and modifiedCouple
over a year ago

near glasgow


"a question i keep asking myself

trying to arrange a party not our first but its been a while since last one

now it seems to me that its getting harder to arrange these parties not just we have had timewasters in past it just seems to be more difficult to find fun people that are looking for fun at a house party

does anyone else think this is so

"
what you have got to remember,not every swinger is into house parties.many like to be discreet about there personal life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we understand this as this not our first party we search in interests for adult parties so if you have that down then we consider and read full profile if we dont think its right for you we wont invite but if we do we then invite and a simple not for us would be very nice

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By *lay_N_cum2Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere in Scotland

yes we find the same then as there are some many socials on the go ppl tend to to them. however most of the ppl we have ask have alrady made othere plans.

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

why do single guys dont get asked to go to partys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do single guys dont get asked to go to partys "

Quite a lot of them do get asked.

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By *roopyMan
over a year ago

East Kilbride


"why do single guys dont get asked to go to partys "

Usually cause most of the single guys ( me incluided) cant go cause their wives wont let them, lol

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

I am going to the virgin meet on friday tho mite open the door for me lol

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By *tsallaboutthefunCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"why do single guys dont get asked to go to partys "
we've been to parties where there's been single guys there (the only time i entertain them)... first ever single guy i was actually with was at pw party & let me say what a very good party it was so dont b shy in coming forward people, great hosts we have here! x x

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

hes was a lucky guy then to get you lol

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By *tsallaboutthefunCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"hes was a lucky guy then to get you lol"
... lol cheers huni, my other half tells me the same all the time! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like parties and have been too a couple this pair have held .Enjoy the idea of meeting new people at them and catching up with old friends

J & Z

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why do single guys dont get asked to go to partys "

the single guy place as you will understand is always the first place to go within 10 mins of party being put up had 30 messages all wanting invites

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

thats just my luck to late again

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By *lgernonMan
over a year ago

cupar

I'm not a party ir club person really - if I dont know the folk I dont really feel comfortable.

However, I have friends who love the party scene and it seems to be more that groups of established aquaintances come together every so often. This, as opposed to inviting random people like a social.

Guess you just gotta get to know folk. Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a so called house party recently and was left feeling horrible the hosts made no effort what so ever to make us feel welcome. Must admit this has put me off going to them.

Think we will stick with clubs but for a wee while longer but once I finish the spare room party will be at mines, least I know my guests will be made to feel welcomed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the one thing we do is try and make everyone very welcome come in make yourself at home introduce you around as the other half gets you your drinks chat

the verifications show that everyon that has showen up in the past have a great night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That wasnt a dig towards you guys im sure you have some great parties.

I have been involved in the swinging scene for a few years and had never had that type of treatment, its a shame that because of what has happened I have been put off going to parties.

Anyone whether friends, family or strangers would be treated the same in my house.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its ok did not take it as a dig at us just how we like to treat our guests its how we would like to be treated as well such a pity some out there dont get it right with hosting and this puts really nice people off parties xxx

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By *reeningtomMan
over a year ago

Angus

sounds like you are taking good care of your guests. personally I have never been to a party as I have never been free on any of the dates. i do live in hope though lol.....

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