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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I wrong to ask for a face pic when arranging a meet?...I like to be attracted to a woman before I meet up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope your not wrong to ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks...I had something partially arranged and when I asked the answer was"never".....wonder who'd be that desperate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks...I had something partially arranged and when I asked the answer was"never".....wonder who'd be that desperate lol"

A male probably lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Thanks...I had something partially arranged and when I asked the answer was"never".....wonder who'd be that desperate lol"
No you wernt wrong to ask but why make arrangements before finding out if there was an attraction ?

And yes some people on here would meet without seeing a photo first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If arranging a meet id def say you wernt wrong to ask

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

nope, you were not wrong to ask...

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were chatting and getting on well when she brought it up,that's when I asked regarding a pic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We naively didn't once and it was as bad as bad can be thankfully it was a meet with four couples

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We were chatting and getting on well when she brought it up,that's when I asked regarding a pic x"
oh well if your planning on doing meets i think its always best to ask for a photo fairly on in the convo .

1. it lets you see who your chatting to

2.lets you both see if there is an attraction there to take things further

good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted a similar post last week. With some your wasting your time totally. Makes you wonder who your actually chatting to.could even be pic collectors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I wrong to ask for a face pic when arranging a meet?...I like to be attracted to a woman before I meet up."
no you are not wrong but you should always provide one of your own with your request

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's only fair x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the chance haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't there are a few mingers on here who think they are hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a few!!!!!!. .... lol soz girls... feel free to have a pop back. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few hundred LOL... thanks for getting me mobed with mingers messaging me lol... beauty is in the eyes of the beholder... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hose handler, nice slippers u get them frpm santa!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I wrong to ask for a face pic when arranging a meet?...I like to be attracted to a woman before I meet up."

wouldn't meet anyone without seeing them 1st!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol. I was forced to change my pic due to criticism from a female re my original pic. Thot I we'd go safe. ... lol. I always send face pic with first txt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so you arrange a meet, don't get a picture ... how do you know who your meeting, or are you supposed to just randomly ask strangers ... oi misses are your the one im here to bang .... .... its just weird not to exchange pictures.

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By *ckleticklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Just a few!!!!!!. .... lol soz girls... feel free to have a pop back. ..."

Oi fairy boy! Watch it, some of us are mingtastic! :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met once without seeing a pic,because of her job. She was nice but not really my cup of tea. If you know what I mean. Now of I don't get a face pic back I just plainly refuse as I always send one. Each to there own I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never meet someone I hadn't seen a picture of or seen on cam

I always suggest exchanging face pictures fairly early in conversation if getting on well and a meet seemed likely to ensure an attraction both ways and save wasting anyone's time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont send my face pic over on demand yet many expect one on the 2nd message to see who their chatting to, I reply out of manners but clearly say I'm looking for female Iv had loads messages just this week asking if id like to chat and attach pic, I reply by saying your the wrong gender and we are not meeting so you don't need my face. Am I wrong not to splash my face all over fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wont send my face pic over on demand yet many expect one on the 2nd message to see who their chatting to, I reply out of manners but clearly say I'm looking for female Iv had loads messages just this week asking if id like to chat and attach pic, I reply by saying your the wrong gender and we are not meeting so you don't need my face. Am I wrong not to splash my face all over fab? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you meet someone you've never seen... Fair enough not having pics on your profile but everyone should have one to send privately.. My job is as important to me as anyone else's job is to them,I still send my face pic..i take it they are fake and not worth the bother if they won't send their's or claim not to have any...works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I wrong to ask for a face pic when arranging a meet?...I like to be attracted to a woman before I meet up.no you are not wrong but you should always provide one of your own with your request"

This I agree with whole heartedly. If someone asks me for a face pic I refuse until they send one, or make it available on their pics. Equally, if I'm asking I'll always add one to the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wont send my face pic over on demand yet many expect one on the 2nd message to see who their chatting to, I reply out of manners but clearly say I'm looking for female Iv had loads messages just this week asking if id like to chat and attach pic, I reply by saying your the wrong gender and we are not meeting so you don't need my face. Am I wrong not to splash my face all over fab?

Nope "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you are ickles. I'm sure you are... besides., I'm far too handsome to bare my finer qualities. ... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a bit of a touchy subject.

Personally, we would never meet anyone without having seen a face pic of some sort, just our personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always a bit of a touchy subject.

Personally, we would never meet anyone without having seen a face pic of some sort, just our personal preference "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always a bit of a touchy subject.

Personally, we would never meet anyone without having seen a face pic of some sort, just our personal preference "

Agreed but one of the reasons we insist on a Social meet first with no pressure is just in case the face pic we are sent isn't the actual person who shows-up (it has happened)

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By *ornyscot77Man
over a year ago

aberdeenshire

Would always want to exchange face pics after chatting a while, I would ask if they want to swap and offer to send first but if her answer was "never" then alarm bells would ring!

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Make sure the photos are recent ones! Been caught out twice meeting women who sent photos that were years old. One lady explained that her out of focus shot was 15 years old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh been caught out twice myself with being sent years old pics. Was sent one and met she then told me it was her daughter!!!!

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By *andyman1963Man
over a year ago

inverness

Seems to me that a picture is that just a picture. I personally hate putting anything personal into the web as once in it is amazing just who can get it. Just try a quick google of your fab name and see what results you get.

If your having a meet with someone you have not seen then surely you should agree that if either side is not as described then you can walk away without any bad feelings. Best to meet some where away from your home first just incase it upsets either party.

I may mean a waste of time but even a pic is no guarentee maybe a quick skype would be beter. I can't believe a woman used her dauhhters picture.

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By *andyman1963Man
over a year ago

inverness

Have to add that fab is better than most sites in the way they secure your info unlike other sites. So maybe the example of using your fab name was a poor example sorry fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people are far nicer in person than their photos imply too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I wrong to ask for a face pic when arranging a meet?...I like to be attracted to a woman before I meet up."

face pic could be of anyone

why not simply cam2cam first you will find an instant like or dislike and I am sure you would cam if 2 or 3 months chat prior to meet

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Id never meet without a face pic ever. If iv the balls to have them in my private i expect the same back. See this aw i dont have face pics on here is alot of bull. Seriously in this day and age everyone has access to take a wee selfie. Even crap phones have cameras. And as for the job thing i dont agree either. Why join if it bothered you that much. Iv met very high standing people who have pics. To me there hiding something so the chat stops! pure and simple. You learn on here quickly xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree, we would never agree to meet without seeing a face pic. We broke our rule once and let's just say it's now a set in stone rule!!! Monsters are real!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more. Now no face pic,no meet. Am never being caught out like that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only will I never meet without one but I also want to see it early, as in second or third message. What is the point in hours or even days of messages if you'll ultimately find out you're not attracted to them? As is entirely your right of course, I'm not asking anyone to do anything I'm not prepared to do myself.

It verges on comical how many folk on here seem to almost be offended that you dare so much as ask to see a face pic. It's my belief those people either aren't who they claim to be or that they themselves consider themselves unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not only will I never meet without one but I also want to see it early, as in second or third message. What is the point in hours or even days of messages if you'll ultimately find out you're not attracted to them? As is entirely your right of course, I'm not asking anyone to do anything I'm not prepared to do myself.

It verges on comical how many folk on here seem to almost be offended that you dare so much as ask to see a face pic. It's my belief those people either aren't who they claim to be or that they themselves consider themselves unattractive."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met ppl who havent shown a facepic(though it is rare)...not had many unpleasant surprises in my 8 years here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wont send my face pic over on demand yet many expect one on the 2nd message to see who their chatting to, I reply out of manners but clearly say I'm looking for female Iv had loads messages just this week asking if id like to chat and attach pic, I reply by saying your the wrong gender and we are not meeting so you don't need my face. Am I wrong not to splash my face all over fab?

Nope "

Again some guys still expect a face pic when you clearly say your not meeting them... i only reply out of manners ! Should I show them my face cause I reply? Or should I ignore them and be called ignorant? Us woman cant win. !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol. I was forced to change my pic due to criticism from a female re my original pic. Thot I we'd go safe. ... lol. I always send face pic with first txt. "

Glad to see your still wearing them and you didnt send me a face pic :-0 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not only will I never meet without one but I also want to see it early, as in second or third message. What is the point in hours or even days of messages if you'll ultimately find out you're not attracted to them? As is entirely your right of course, I'm not asking anyone to do anything I'm not prepared to do myself.

It verges on comical how many folk on here seem to almost be offended that you dare so much as ask to see a face pic. It's my belief those people either aren't who they claim to be or that they themselves consider themselves unattractive."

We dont have face pics on here and dont plan to either. We have bugger all to hide and do not consider ourselves unattractive. Have your own rules by all means bit accept others have theirs too without jumping to unfounded assumptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And do you meet people without having ever seeing their face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And do you meet people without having ever seeing their face?"

No we woulndnt but we also wouldnt demand that they send a face pic, if your truly serious about the possibility of a meet then skype is better for us....no out of date, flattering light pics ...you see each other as you are.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Done it once...seen a pic of her and she was a stunner....met up seen him and holly Molly it wasn't good....great sociable night but went no further .....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well yeah skype is fair enough too, I was speaking I'm the sense of expecting a meet without ever seeing what the person looks like.

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

We never show or exchange face pics. Neither do we ask for any. We don't take offence at being asked, but got blocked recently for saying such. xxx Ho hum, such is choice. Love N Lust xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And do you meet without knowing what people look like?

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Yes, we always insist the ladies talk on the phone first, generally have established we like the idea of each other. It usually works out well socially, and if someone decides not to take it further then fair enough. sometimes that's us, on occasion it might b the other party. Discretion is a must. No face pics from us. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well fair enough, at least you're not being hypocritical. Personally I just don't want to waste my time or anyone elses, I'm here for sex after all, not socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not only will I never meet without one but I also want to see it early, as in second or third message. What is the point in hours or even days of messages if you'll ultimately find out you're not attracted to them? As is entirely your right of course, I'm not asking anyone to do anything I'm not prepared to do myself.

It verges on comical how many folk on here seem to almost be offended that you dare so much as ask to see a face pic. It's my belief those people either aren't who they claim to be or that they themselves consider themselves unattractive.

We dont have face pics on here and dont plan to either. We have bugger all to hide and do not consider ourselves unattractive. Have your own rules by all means bit accept others have theirs too without jumping to unfounded assumptions. "

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By *inkyman looking for funMan
over a year ago

bathgate


"Not only will I never meet without one but I also want to see it early, as in second or third message. What is the point in hours or even days of messages if you'll ultimately find out you're not attracted to them? As is entirely your right of course, I'm not asking anyone to do anything I'm not prepared to do myself.

It verges on comical how many folk on here seem to almost be offended that you dare so much as ask to see a face pic. It's my belief those people either aren't who they claim to be or that they themselves consider themselves unattractive.

We dont have face pics on here and dont plan to either. We have bugger all to hide and do not consider ourselves unattractive. Have your own rules by all means bit accept others have theirs too without jumping to unfounded assumptions. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And do you meet people without having ever seeing their face?

No we woulndnt but we also wouldnt demand that they send a face pic, if your truly serious about the possibility of a meet then skype is better for us....no out of date, flattering light pics ...you see each other as you are."

I agree with you at least if you see each other on skype you know the ACTUAL person your meeting and not someone who is 10yr older or 10 stone heavier than their pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spoken to loads of women who don't want to swap pics, either attached and don't want to get caught or fake profiles with a sad man behind it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've spoken to loads of women who don't want to swap pics, either attached and don't want to get caught or fake profiles with a sad man behind it "

Surely if they don't want to swap pics or want to show their face on cam then they have no intensions of meeting you ? If a meet is discussed then there shouldn't be any problem seeing each others face pics or meeting on cam first !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I wrong to ask for a face pic when arranging a meet?...I like to be attracted to a woman before I meet up."

Not at all! We do have standards on here, always nice to see the Mantel Piece before poking the fire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never meet without face / body pics being exchanged

Our free time is limited so not gonna chance it

Or social meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always send face pics with the first message, and ask for same in return. Saves hours, days, weeks of chatting before you realise there's no attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't send them but their general pics give a good idea as to what they look like.

You are not wrong to ask for one, but some people just don't send them. We do like to see who we are meeting but normally we have met them at a social night anyway and just need a reminder as we both have awful memories.

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