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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My last meet seemed to be going rather well, but the girl eventually got put off by the fact that I didn't come, after a good while.

I don't really climax from just sex, so I just keep going - I think she got the impression that I didn't like her or something.

Is a man not cumming off-putting for women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had the same experience, I think a lot of women think that the guy has to cum. personally I'm happy with them coming and me not, obviously I'd like too though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah can be very off putting it's like riding an exercise bike & your peddling but going nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'After a good while' what are we talking about here? Minutes, hours, all day??

I think anyone would be unimpressed if all you did was shag them non stop. Don't get me wrong I like a good seeing to but too much of the same thing can get a bit boring, if not a tad sore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah can be very off putting it's like riding an exercise bike & your peddling but going nowhere "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god I can last a decent time and be ready to go again soon after I don't think I would love the idea of not coming myself

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By *ckleticklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah, id feel a bit deflated in that situation.Id take it a little personally I think. Besides, the guy cumming is one of my favourite bits, the harder and noisier the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely if we can have an equal outlook on things that'd help?

some women dont cum from a standard penetration fuck..so its about using what other methods might get them orgasmed

men can be the same

I dont like hearing someones taken it personally as if they werent attractive enough etc...

it seems its ok for women to have a myriad of reasons for not cumming..but not men, as we arent seen as sexually complex, which in itself is a pile of shite.

lots of us are psychosexual beings...sometimes we need a little bit more to get to our 'end result'

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Non stop shagging is not a good idea if it aint happening take a break and chill .

start up the foreplay again and hopefully it will happen .

I have been with some men who just dont cum and its not put me off meeting them at all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens. When it does acknowledge it , tell her, both of you laugh about it, stop, and just chill out together for a while. Talk, touch, stroke etc. and when the time is right start again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, id feel a bit deflated in that situation.Id take it a little personally I think. Besides, the guy cumming is one of my favourite bits, the harder and noisier the better"

Adds that to your file

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip

I'd take it personally

Only ever happened with the 1 guy so met again and the same thing so put it down to him and not me lol

Auds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 pumps and yepee the thickly bit.

A night to remember I would say

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Think this has happened to most guys at some point!

There is only so much pumping away you can do before you have to just accept the fact it's not happening!

I'm my experience it's not down to who you are with!

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