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i believe this needs said......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this an ADULT site ?...are we all ADULTS???....

Is there really a need to say hello to EVERYONE in chat? should we be made to feel rude or ignorant because we miss someone out in our greetings?

Its my belief that this site is becomeing more like i creshe everyday...we/i didnt expect to have my hand held or baby stepped through the site when we/i joined..we/i just got on with it.

You make your own luck on a site like this...not everyone will like you or talk to you.

And most importantly of all....you should not expect people to do so..its also not your god given right to get a reply from people if you send them mail wink them or send a freinds invite.

in summary....can we move the site away from playground stamping of feet and waving arms around cos ""that person does not talk to me""

MR BEEZ (MIKE)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do as I and many others do, say one hi to all, I usually say hugs and kisses to all and only say hi to individuals coming into chat after me. Xx

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Totally agree with you Mike and folk need to get out more if they take things so personally on here!

Folk should try going into a packed pub and saying hi to all the strangers in there and see how many hellos they get back.

Chat isn't "Cheers Bar" and isn't somehwere where "Everybody Knows Your Name" but I do like the first few lines of the theme tune -

"Makin' your way in the world today

Takes everything you've got

Taking a break from all your worries

Sure would help a lot

Wouldn't you like to get away?"

To me, and probably lots more too, the Chatroom is a place to get away from all your everyday worries, etc, etc so folk would be best to treat it like it is meant to be i.e. FUN!

Right that's me off my soapbox and got that tune stuck in my head now for the rest of today!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say going into chat can be a mare at times having to say hi n bye to all n sundry, hardly gives any time for a real chat with others! So am going to follow laine's way of doing it and say one hi to all and one bye to all, so if i don't say hi when you come into the room don't worry i'll still chat if you want, its not cos am being ignorant just feel its defo getting out of hand!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think everyones covered it for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good post Mike and BB too...

S.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mike..thank you, thank you, thank you, for some words of reason and common sense!!!

I find myself shaking my head when people moan that someone or anyone or person X has not said hello/bye/how you doing etc

The chat can go fast..greetings can be missed, people entering or leaving can be missed..or bluntly some people may not want to speak to others...

Its an adult chat and its refreshing for someone to highlight that very fact

Vol

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to admit that it is becoming worse, i see where mike is coming from when people moan because they dont get an instant reply to a hello and even point out that no one said hello to them.

I generally say hi to people when i come in to the room. But when i leave i say cheerio with a smile and then just leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine most people start off at the same place, 'not knowing many people, if any' and over time they build up their network and welcome others into it. You will get back what you put into it. Best always keep your feet on the ground as your profile grows, give something back to newbies the same way as others gave it to you.

Never take it too seriously, it should be fun.

and if people accidently miss you, copy pieces of your profile, look at your cam accidently.. best not reacting, ignore it,

if you don't, then it's a creche.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or when someone gets more kisses wtf

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"or when someone gets more kisses wtf "

Aye but the number of kisses I give depends on how well I know them Pleasurer! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Or is it because sometimes my fingers are stickier than at other times? Who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BB and here i thought you never wanked on cam clean your hands after you cum ffs then no sticky fingers always works for me xxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"BB and here i thought you never wanked on cam clean your hands after you cum ffs then no sticky fingers always works for me xxxxxxxxxxxx"

You know what they say though Pleasurer - If ya cant beat them, join them!

Where's a tongue in cheek smiley when you need one? But then again, someone once pointed out to me that it could look like you have something else in your mouth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are we still talking aboot this

YAWNSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

Buboo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awwww i wish atleast some will say hi to me when i come in the scotland room lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"awwww i wish atleast some will say hi to me when i come in the scotland room lol "

Will make the effort next time

I try to say hi to everyone but end of saying ello to individuals its a guilt thing of oh feck i never said helo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think people are looking at the hello in chat part of my post...the main body was meant to be the fact that people feel that others owe them a meet or a shag ect just cos they have been a member of a swinging site for 5 hours...correct me if im wrong but swinging is a lifestyle not a fad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very good hun way to go

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By *lackbird186Man
over a year ago

west glasgow

it does remind you of the "waltons" tv show form years ago when it was "night johnboy night sue ellen" ect. when you enter a chat say hi all but dont list ecvery sod in the room then there would be no chat other than hey you missed me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat is what it is, made up of various people who almost prefer to,,chat more than anything, good stuff.

I joined a swingers site to swing and meet other swingers,very much a lifestyle choice and nine years on i can easily say i prefer swinging to online - chatting,lol, woo im gonna be popular next time i go in,,not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love and Let Live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said lol i come in room to and sometimes dont even say hi it easyer it a scarey place at times

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By *utieguyMan
over a year ago

motherwell

hi all and bye all with couple of kisses from me - leaves no one out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"awwww i wish atleast some will say hi to me when i come in the scotland room lol "

ffs richy m8 ......you been hanging about round me to much m8 .........lol

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By *ountrypairCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

lol i agreee we should all be conserving ink so yiz are allowed 1 x each fi now on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great post and I for one don't count the hi's or the kisses after life is too short and for living so lets all get on with it and have a fabby time xxxx Gonna follow Laines advice xxxxxxxxxx share them xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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