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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just noticed so many genuine men have come off here. men just out number women on here so much. think it puts people off. sad sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little lot patience is needed on here, but stick it out and reap the rewards

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By *inglecuckoldMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

think its the natural way of things ,its mostly a sex site, think men want it more in general

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A little lot patience is needed on here, but stick it out and reap the rewards "
Plenty rewards if you make the effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"think its the natural way of things ,its mostly a sex site, think men want it more in general "
eh dont know about that . plenty horny women can match men in that department

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think its the natural way of things ,its mostly a sex site, think men want it more in general eh dont know about that . plenty horny women can match men in that department"

Don't think anyone could question you on that

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By *inglecuckoldMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I meant in a more general way,there always going to be more guys looking for sex.

me ex showed me the msgs she got on a vanilla date site...guys do look for it more

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By *ighlander34Man
over a year ago

skye

It is frustrating when you don't get given a chance to show how genuine you are because of the amount of idiots on here, that can.... in some cases ruin it for others.

Seems the only way is to get along to socials or events.....which is top of the to-do list.

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By *inglecuckoldMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

yeah definitely a more social approach helps, to much cyber, but it has its good sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just noticed so many genuine men have come off here. men just out number women on here so much. think it puts people off. sad sunday "

Us genuine guys are hard to come by.

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By *inkyman looking for funMan
over a year ago

bathgate


"just noticed so many genuine men have come off here. men just out number women on here so much. think it puts people off. sad sunday

Us genuine guys are hard to come by. "

Well said Sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think its the natural way of things ,its mostly a sex site, think men want it more in general eh dont know about that . plenty horny women can match men in that department"

Especially if they have been subject to an emotionless and bad sex relationship

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By *abrobbieMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Single guys on here get a rough time of it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just noticed so many genuine men have come off here. men just out number women on here so much. think it puts people off. sad sunday

Us genuine guys are hard to come by. "

That's so true Iain...but you do stand out. There are lots of lovely, genuine and respectful guys on fab and msgs can get lost in the host of mail from the "eejits". I hate to think they have to give up...such a loss to the site.

My gentlemen friends on here are just that. Kind, supportive, valued friends and over the years thats been well proved. You personally are always there for me and just this week showed me the true friendship there has always been between us. You so deserve that cherry scone!!!

I count myself lucky every day that i found my own bestie from the westie....always there. Reliable and heartwarmingly supportive even when im dopey. My Bothy who nearly slipped through the net but i caught him eventually and...mmmmm!

Dont give up gents! Us girls aren't as daft as we look. We'll find ye!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just noticed so many genuine men have come off here. men just out number women on here so much. think it puts people off. sad sunday

Us genuine guys are hard to come by.

That's so true Iain...but you do stand out. There are lots of lovely, genuine and respectful guys on fab and msgs can get lost in the host of mail from the "eejits". I hate to think they have to give up...such a loss to the site.

My gentlemen friends on here are just that. Kind, supportive, valued friends and over the years thats been well proved. You personally are always there for me and just this week showed me the true friendship there has always been between us. You so deserve that cherry scone!!!

I count myself lucky every day that i found my own bestie from the westie....always there. Reliable and heartwarmingly supportive even when im dopey. My Bothy who nearly slipped through the net but i caught him eventually and...mmmmm!

Dont give up gents! Us girls aren't as daft as we look. We'll find ye!!! "

Wow thank you hunni such lovely words and I live for the day I get my cherry scone.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just noticed so many genuine men have come off here. men just out number women on here so much. think it puts people off. sad sunday

Us genuine guys are hard to come by.

That's so true Iain...but you do stand out. There are lots of lovely, genuine and respectful guys on fab and msgs can get lost in the host of mail from the "eejits". I hate to think they have to give up...such a loss to the site.

My gentlemen friends on here are just that. Kind, supportive, valued friends and over the years thats been well proved. You personally are always there for me and just this week showed me the true friendship there has always been between us. You so deserve that cherry scone!!!

I count myself lucky every day that i found my own bestie from the westie....always there. Reliable and heartwarmingly supportive even when im dopey. My Bothy who nearly slipped through the net but i caught him eventually and...mmmmm!

Dont give up gents! Us girls aren't as daft as we look. We'll find ye!!! "

Sweet thing, you couldn't be as daft as you look

Ducks and runs for cover really fast

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Depends on your interpretation of genuine plenty seem genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on your interpretation of genuine plenty seem genuine "

Ain't that so true mate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some genuine looking ones are actually nuts wrapped in chocolate peel at them & boom the nut is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some genuine looking ones are actually nuts wrapped in chocolate peel at them & boom the nut is there "

Everyone's a fruit and nut cake....

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"just noticed so many genuine men have come off here. men just out number women on here so much. think it puts people off. sad sunday

Us genuine guys are hard to come by. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some genuine looking ones are actually nuts wrapped in chocolate peel at them & boom the nut is there

Everyone's a fruit and nut cake.... "

Lol

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By *ighlander34Man
over a year ago

skye


"Some genuine looking ones are actually nuts wrapped in chocolate peel at them & boom the nut is there "

Both male and female!

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By *urray MintMan
over a year ago

Brewtoon


"Some genuine looking ones are actually nuts wrapped in chocolate peel at them & boom the nut is there

Everyone's a fruit and nut cake.... "

Very true ! Lol

Everybody is just playing the game ! Some are better than others , you could argue that the most genuine guys on here come straight out and ask for a ride !

Whilst us sneaky non genuine game playing ,fun loving ........ Guys are false as ! The end goal is the same .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some genuine looking ones are actually nuts wrapped in chocolate peel at them & boom the nut is there

Both male and female! "

Definitely

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

both genders have to sift through lots of profiles to find the ones that appeal, share a sexual connection and may lead to fun being had.

maintain your self worth and don't lose your standards, you will shine.

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By *ighlander34Man
over a year ago

skye


"both genders have to sift through lots of profiles to find the ones that appeal, share a sexual connection and may lead to fun being had.

maintain your self worth and don't lose your standards, you will shine."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a truer word spoken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got to go with the flow if a guy is genuine he will stay on here and work at getting a meet because that's what it takes put in the work and reap the rewards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worthwhile is ever achieved easily.

And being genuine is in the belief of the beholder and it has to work both ways, something often forgotten in the chase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get a vicious circle of too many guys being aggressive in their approach to women. And this leads a lot of woman putting up the defences which results in messages from even respectful guys being lost in the flood and getting deleted.

It can get disheartening but males need to remember that women can get dozens of messages a day. Your thoughtful crafted messages can get drowned out by a maelstrom of "fancy a fuck, doll?".

We just need to accept and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it can be disheartening for 'genuine' single guys on here at times, but the ones who make the effort and have a good attitude don't go unnoticed. There are plenty who do well for themselves with meets & getting known.

Lx

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


" Sweet thing, you couldn't be as daft as you look "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its funny how everyone is genuine, right up til the point they don't turn up. Im pretty sure I know some 100% grade A arseholes on here who have the word genuine in their profile.

Perhaps people should stop using that hideous Meme of a word now, because it means fuck all. You just saw it used in a phrase on someones profile on some site and hey presto, just like the Sydney Uni disclaimer its all over the fucking shop like it adds weight to your profile.

You might as well make up a word, like "melthemy" and use it instead.

"Where are all the melthmy people, I'm sick of timewasters!"

"I'm a melthemy guy looking to meet other melthemy people"

"All the non melthemy people are spoiling it. It means all us melthemy people can't get a break"

Because then at least people would look at your profile and wonder what the fuck "Melthemy" means. Instead of Genuine, which everybody knows means a total lack of imagination or fuck-giving.

You want to prove you're better than the others? Get to socials or clubs, let people see you can make an effort more than bashing one out over a keyboard. And take that stupid non-adjective off your profiles.

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