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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok who else went to the uniform nite to find out it was not on?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how u mean it wasnt on chef?? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone was talking about it, sure it was still going ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the uniform party was not cancelled guys!

someone called the venue tonight and told them it was a fetish party and the venue told tracy that the party was not going to be allowed in the venue

at the last minute sioux got another venue and everyone moved to there, we put a sign on the door informing everyone of the new venue plus a few peeps waited for around an hour to tell everyone that the venue had changed

at first the venue said they would tell people where to go but they never did plus we have now heard they took the sign down off the door

the bottom line is only fab members who had said they were going knew the venue, this means that one of our fellow fab members has phoned the venue and done the dirty on tracy, and everyone else at the party, not to mention every fab member on this site!

shame on them!

tracy is a genuine girl with a heart of gold, she organised this party so everyone could have a great night

she went to the time and effort never mind expense of organising this only for a fellow swinger and fab member to do this, hope they are happy because they have not only tried to waste a good night tonight but they have jepordised any future social night's being organised here in the forums

who in there right mind would organise one now knowing it could be wasted by assholes!

oh and whoever it is and yeah they will be reading this.. do not think you wasted the night becasue rhe party went on, yeah not with everyone but it still went ahead, sorry we missed you chef's, tracy was looking for you guys

a very annoyed and pissed off alastair and michelle

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

jesus guys another jeopardised nite what the hell do ppl get out of doing such a thing to spoil ppls fun time and effort put into orgnising these nites hang your head in shame whoever you are .

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By *cottishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

near irvine, ayrshire

it now makes sense where another site nominated a couple to arrange the socials n everyone looked forward to them as they were only every few months never were any spoiled by wasters who are just out to spoil n bitch !!

hope u all had a ball in the end up xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yet another social sabotaged by anonymous assholes...is this behaviour common in socials throughout the rest of uk or is there 1 or more persons just spoiling the scottish nights?

hope the night wasnt totally spoiled for those who were going.

jason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that is so bad..hope the person

who done this there next shit's a hedge hog

how bad can someone be 2 do that

they r just scum..pleasurer hun im

so soz hun this had happen xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hell..its getn to the stage where your gonna be scared to mention anything anywhere on here????

who would be so bad to do such a thing,,,total tossers gggrrr

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

auds ur no gonna know who to trust now

2 weather whos honest enuff with the

details...someone must have given

details out..they r just as bad as the

person who done it..scummy bassa xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's time that the exact venue isn't given out till the very last minute.... By text message.... A general location can be given but the exact one maybe 30 mins before hand.

S.

Ps, who ever did this is a scum bag and in time, like the last one that did the same, you WILL get found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea steve but its a bad day u cant

trust ppl ur gonna be mixing with

i cant believe they done this..im so

angry as u said steve..the last person

was found out so heres hoping this scum

is found out xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah steve thats what jas was sayn tonight...like they do in the footballers weddings lol give a postcode so folk can book hotels but excat venue by txt half hr before it starts ?

terrible you have to do these things tho,,,scum ggrrrr

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont know who Tracey is or her username but she did not deserve to have some twatbag do that! Hope she finds out who the lowlife is, and that it wont put her off arranging these awesome sounding events for the genuine fabswingers members.

P & G xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks for all the messages guys

we're still really pissed off, we cannot believe that somebody from here, one of us has done this!!!!

spoke to tracy and she's fine, she says thanks for the support, she will be on later to post her thoughts

xxxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Glad you guys r still having a good nite despite whats happend xxxxx

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By *omma46Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

frankly im pissed off that some narrow minded arsehole, set out to sabotage traceys, nite it was a brilliant night despite the efforts of some anonymous person.

tracey ur one in a million babe, love u to bits, for ur sincerity and good nature

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged Tracey privately regarding this, I do hope she sees it and hope it helps, please tell her to check mail. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom line is and ban me if u like after 2 nite i really cldnt give a shit .this site belongs 2 noone people went to the bother of travel costume and hotels we as individuals have a rite to organise and if its stepping on the soc4al organisers toes by doing this then so be it u do not own this site.warning tn all trust no one on here cause some just cant handle the fact that its just not all about them.thanx 2 all that made it a fab nite and made gd money for charity and as for u who thought ud ruin it happy daze xxx t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a shame, another spoilt nite.

similar to the other lady who is now out of pocket financially.

maybe there should be rules set:

1 minimum length of time on site.

2 verified or at least known by a regular.

3 last minute notification of venue.

hope the people who did go, had a great night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can only express the same as all of you about last nite , the person / persons who did this, are complete an utter scum . but im so sorry chef that we missed you as _b430 an i went round to the venue an waited to make sure we got all the folk that had gone to it . im so sorry you missed it an meeting up with us all .

tracy hun yer nite was fantasitc an yes anyone can do nites its jist a shame that others feel the need to report to venues arranged an be a complete fkn ass holes about folk off having fun .

glad we got some cash for the homeless unit , an well done for all yer hard work bbz .

end of ..... fantastic nite so up yours who ever ya are ..........

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

wat the night was sabotaged never even noticed it was such a brilliant time but seriously it is ridiculous that someone could do this to a fellow fabber

well done to tracey and the rest who made the night go with a swing for those that managed to get there and a big sorry to those who never managed to find out where we went ty once again t for making the best out of a bad lot

and happy swingin xxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are truely sadened by what has happened , hope the night was still a great one .

This shows how some folk are masters at hideing thier true colours under a facia of lies and deciept.

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By *alakMan
over a year ago

Milan

What happened is a huge a shame and may the responsible be plagued with pain and impotence for the rest of his life.

Tracey and MIchelle and Alastair (who I don't know) you have all my sympathy and my respect for sorting out the night in an emergency.

We should not let scumbags waste our socials. We should go on with them, because here there are loads of Fab honest people who share a passion. Still, some measures have to be taken IMHO. Opening it to regulars only risks to create nights where everyone already knows each other... the location given 30 min in advance sounds actually much better.

Still, it's very sad that a single arsehole spoiled the fun of a hundred genuine guys.

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By *lba couple1Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

trac honey, dont let this get u down, we all love you, you find people in life who for some reason believe if they are not having fun then nobody should, we just have to hope that they are few. keep on doing what ur doing and ignore these idiots xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tracy, Firstly I am sorry for my rant, but we where extremely peed at the time.

Secondly we would like to thank you for your hard work in organising the social in the first place.

Glad to hear that it went well in the end anyway. Maybe next time we should have provided our mobile number so if nothing else lesson learnt.

Keep us in mind for the next one, ms chef needs to christen her uniform

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats awful. How someone can do that when you go to so much hard work to arrange these things! Glad you's managed to salvage a good night out of it though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happened is a huge a shame and may the responsible be plagued with pain and impotence for the rest of his life.

Tracey and MIchelle and Alastair (who I don't know) you have all my sympathy and my respect for sorting out the night in an emergency.

We should not let scumbags waste our socials. We should go on with them, because here there are loads of Fab honest people who share a passion. Still, some measures have to be taken IMHO. Opening it to regulars only risks to create nights where everyone already knows each other... the location given 30 min in advance sounds actually much better.

Still, it's very sad that a single arsehole spoiled the fun of a hundred genuine guys."

it was all down to tracy and sioux for finding a last minute replacement xxx

sioux to the rescue!!! xxxx

we agree the best solution is probably to text the venue to the peeps who are going 20 minutes prior to the start time

OR

the best solution is informing the venue that it is indeed a swingers social evening, so that if anyone calls the venue then so what? the main problem there is finding a venue that will not batten down the hatches when they think you are bringing a sex fulled orgy to their doorstep!

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By *alakMan
over a year ago

Milan

well done tracey and sioux then!!! A snog for both of you lol xxxxx

Michelle, I am not sure about declaring the swinging nature of the night... it's possible that nearly everyone will think of an orgy and deny the venue... and some scumbag could call up and convince the owner there is going to be public sex or kinky stuff going on.

In the end "socials" should just be like regular nights out where people sharing a hobby get to know each other, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well done tracey and sioux then!!! A snog for both of you lol xxxxx

Michelle, I am not sure about declaring the swinging nature of the night... it's possible that nearly everyone will think of an orgy and deny the venue... and some scumbag could call up and convince the owner there is going to be public sex or kinky stuff going on.

In the end "socials" should just be like regular nights out where people sharing a hobby get to know each other, right?"

yeah but unfotunatly venues do not see them as regular nights and we are always going to be under the threat of scumbags trying to waste it, think the idea of not giving out the venue details until the night of the social may be the best solution

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

But even 30 mins gives idiots time to contact venue and sabotage a nite its really difficult one to get around i think .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that disclose an event organised on here, in my eyes do not have the right to be a member/s of FAB.

The amount of effort it takes to organise events, the work that is done in the background is never seen, let alone the effort and sometimes the expense that attendees go to like arranging babysitters/hotels etc...

I hope the person that leaked this meet are very proud of themselves....

Paddy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh ffs!!!!!! y y y y y???????

glad the night went ahead and everyone had a ball and i agree anyone should be able to organise what they want to, its the ppls choice whether or not they attend.

t xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all i can say is im saddened but not completely surprised

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By *egs4uWoman
over a year ago

somewhere around

I will never understand why an individual/individuals feel the need too spoil someone elses night, its so nasty and childish.

Tracy hunni i had a fantastic time, thanks for all your hard work. Was lovely too catch up with old friends and make some new ones. Well done too everyone who was there for making it such a laugh and giggle and raising money for such a good cause.

foxi

xxx

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

This is terrible how could anyone do this.Im so glad u all had a great nite,And i hope who ever did this gets found out

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By *omma46Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

Tracey am fully in aggreement with everyone else, you managed to pull it off, without- the evening being wasted, and it wasnt sorry for the peeps, that didnt make it to the night, I had the best time ive ever had, and not forgetting the very worthy cause, that you held the social for. Like I said to one of ur guests last night, people can't wait to stick the knife in, through petty jealousy, despite what happened, i am sure I can speak for all of us there- the night was a good nite had by all- tracey ur a lovely lass, don't let this sour things for you xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got the call to divert to new location due to some fantastic person opting to spoil other peoples great work and planning and it kinda just makes folks that bit more determined to make the night a fun filled success, which it very much was, thank you to all for making it happen!!

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya durty low life scum sucking tunt.

On a very high note as Kola said earlier yer plan to scupper the night failed, yes we moved venue and some folk missed the move but those that did make the new venue had a cracking night and apart from a few less folks it was great fun. A huge thanks to tracy for organising the night and for super sioux the location finder. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read what happened which is utter pants. Having organised a social before we know how much hard work goes into arranging it as do others who have organised socials. It not only saddens me but totally and utterly PISSES ME OFF that someone had the gall to do this.

Hey ho you live and learn. Not sure what the way forward is. Can't see texting over 100/200 people 30 minutes prior to the event is in reality easily done!!! lol

However I am of the opinion that these events should definitely continue, let us hold our heads up high and say feck em!!! What goes around comes around and doubly so I hope on this occasion!

Well done Tracey and Sioux for finding another venue so quickly though and pleased you guys had a great evening raising money for charity as well.

Lesley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to hear that someone would be sad and spiteful enough to spoil peoples night specialy as people were dressed up in city centre its hard enough in scotland trying to get events on and i have to admire the organisers that wanted to put something a wee bit diffirent on hope the person responsible for this realises that all theyve done is spoil for everyone on the site not just the organisers of the social night it just puts people off whats gonna happen at the next social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cannot believe some idiot has done this again what kind of kick do people get of doing this some sickos out there especially when charities are involved xx

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By *utieguyMan
over a year ago

motherwell

why on earth does someone do such a pathetic thing!!!! Can folk not allow others to enjoy themselves, or is this the type of enjoyment that an individual gets

sad day when we need to keep venue a secret to the last minute but looks like it seems the best way until we get rid of the losers. It be great to find out who done it, but the rat is prob back in the sewers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree with Lesley, txting everyone 30mins before is slightly unrealistic plus if someone wants to sabbotage it 30mins is still enough time to do so, but not enough time to find another venue!!

sad but true there are some very sad individuals who get off on this and we are probably adding to this as they will be sitting reading all the comments and no-doubt getting off on that too ..... best plan is to prob ignore it now a great nite was had so they didnt win ....

t xxxx

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

I couldn't believe my eyes/ears last night when I heard all this was going down and that yet again we had someone attempting to sabotage a social.

I was speaking to another member about it last night as they have a social coming up and I said that we find venues who are aware that the parties are for an adult site and altho there will be some fun and games going on there will be nothing of any sexual nature happening. If the venue don't like it from the outset then we don't book there.

Like GandL said, I can't imagine that texting a couple of hundred people the venue will be in any way easy, or cost effective?

I have no idea what the solution is for this but hopefully the person is found out. I hope that they are pretty pleased with themselves ... cos karma is a BITCH!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tracy we are so angry that someone did this to you bbz after all the hard work you put into it. May all there meets be timewasters. Genuine fab ppl spend well earned money to attend socials, tkts, travel, hotels etc and it is completely unacceptable that ppl think they have the rite to do this. I was glad to hear that the event went ahead and all that managed to attend had a great time.

Just a thought maybe venue details should not be given out at all, all attending should meet elsewhere 1st then move to venue. Also if ppl attending are going to be late should let organisor know, and they can txt when they are in area and get exact venue details. Long may the socials and the many ppl who organise them carry on because we enjoy them. And a few last words to the sabators remember what goes around comes around and you will get your just deserves.

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

oh deary me. we didnt realise this sort of thing was going on and worrying that it wasnt the first time.

really sorry for the organisors and a big well done to our wee pal sioux for rescuing the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gordons i understand what you are saying with your suggestion re meeting somewhere before the venue but i dont think thats a good idea ......the venues for socials are private venues where ppl can attend without bumping into family members or friends etc and many ppl wouldnt want to meet in a central bar in say edin/glas/fife incase they bump into folk they know..... also alot of the time ppl attending do so in say a 2hr period (between say 7.30-9.30) so the organiser would have a hell of alot of txting to do.

T xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah Trac I know, I just trying to come up with some kind of resolution, I only know that it is a shame that ppl spend time organising just for someone to come along and muck it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooh im with u there mrs g ...... xxxxxx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

To add my tuppence worth to this....

To the lowdown scum of the earth shitbag that done their best to ruin the night, your plan failed. In fact, moving to the new venue brought us all closer together, gave us a brilliant laugh in parading the streets in our costumes, and we ended up having a thoroughly fantastic night despite your scheming.

So in all, up ye ya twat!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya peeps.

I just wanted to thank Tracy for organising what turned out to be a great night. Everyone who got there had a brilliant laugh and the idiot who tried to stop us having fun FAILED miserably! haha. We had a BLAST!

Thanks to all who went and made the night a good-un!

Jx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To add my tuppence worth to this....

To the lowdown scum of the earth shitbag that done their best to ruin the night, your plan failed. In fact, moving to the new venue brought us all closer together, gave us a brilliant laugh in parading the streets in our costumes, and we ended up having a thoroughly fantastic night despite your scheming.

So in all, up ye ya twat!!!!!!!!"

oh in full agreement there windaeeeeeee

an folks it wasnt really down to me it was a friends bar so was him an his staff that are owed the thanks for helping us all out so a big big thanks to the lads of the pub xxxxxx

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By *omma46Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

Sioux well done to both you and tracey, i had the best laugh ive had in ages, a thoroughly enjoyable night had by one and all

FOR THE RECORD THE PERSON WHO ATTEMPTED

SABOTAGE- U FAILED MISERABLY!!!

as shy as i am, even i let me hair down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you did that tomma yer a great wee mover hehe xxx

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Just to add my wee bit to this too, who ever it was that tried to spoil the night; you failed!

Thanks to Tracy for a great night and the birthday cake too xxx

Had an excellent time at the social and afterwards too

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

PS

Sitting in a retail park car park just now waiting to go to my next party

Can't spoil a good weekend because of one sad person who doesn't like seeing others having fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you lot talking about? What happened? Did something go wrong last night?

I had a fantastic time last night and only heard about all this shite this morning! lol

Thanks Tracy, for organising a very successful night! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh deary me. we didnt realise this sort of thing was going on and worrying that it wasnt the first time.

really sorry for the organisors and a big well done to our wee pal sioux for rescuing the night"

ta much thomas n tracy but really wasnt me saved the nite was the pub an thier staff so big thanks to all of them for helping out xxxxx

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

just shows the true sprit of the genuine folks on here !!! well done guys at not letting such a self centred,sad, low life spoil things for you all !!!

they are that stupid they dont realise they WILL get found out !

no idea how to minimise this from happening again. if ppl want to boot boot in they will find a way to try .only way to over come these cowards is to carry on regarless which you did !!! see yous at the next nite i hope hgz temp and bunk xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We weren't there but what kind of twat tries to screw up peoples fun for no reason? more to be pitied than scollded.... naw lets boot their arse lol

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By *ountrypairCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

we never made it there but congrats sioux n p4u for sticking to it and having a good nite. hope whoever is responsible is outed as the shallow twats they are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done Tracey and Suiwan, This started as a disaster but ended up a fab night.

Thanks once again to all who helped to organise last night, and to all the other fab people there for making us so welcome.

Tina and Tom xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We weren't there but what kind of twat tries to screw up peoples fun for no reason? ......."

A jealous one perhaps.

Someone who didn't get an invite

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!


"We weren't there but what kind of twat tries to screw up peoples fun for no reason? .......

A jealous one perhaps.

Someone who didn't get an invite"

Only people who had paid to go to the social would have known the details of the venue. Unless someone blabbed about where it was ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's taken for granted that there are a number of single guys posing as couples on Fab. Perhaps a 'fake' couple asked for and got an invite. The single guy posing as that couple gets details of the venue but obviously can't attend 'cos he doesn't have another half to bring.

Since he can't go to the party he tries to ensure nobody can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were there last night. Glad that disaster turned into triumph over those who would waste other peoples

enjoyment. However, we doubt we'll go to another social because someone there told members of the bar staff that we were from a swingers site. Couldn't believe it after what had happened beforehand.

Does no one know the meaning of discretion? Quite of us work and socilalise in Glasgow city centre week in, week out. I don't like the thought of being out with friends or work colleagues one day and having a member of bar staff letting slip that we attended a swingers party.

Made quite a few friends in the time we have been on this site, but, we do have jobs and private lives that we like to keep private. I just wish people would be able to hold their water, and not let drink get the better of them and blab to anyone who about who we all are, and why we're there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know where your coming from JJ but at all the socials we gave been to, although there had never been any play at the venue from all the snogging and groping going on the bar staff would soon click anyway!!

Only way to endure your privacy is not to go local socials.

We have been to a Fife social at a bar near us and Jo has since been there for works related parties since with no comeback. Bar staff are too busy to remember folk, goodness, they must see thousands of different punters over the weekend.

You will be fine!

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the bar staff made a point of letting me know that he had been told. Thought it was great, and was going to join himself so he "could get free shags, don't care how old they are."

I think you're right. Just don't go. But I think the point is being missed here. Would it be ok for me to go to socials in Edinburgh, Dundee, or Aberdeen, and let slip when i'm pissed that I'm at a swingers doo to the bar staff and locals just because I don't come from there?

In my job, I travel quite a bit through Scotland. The fact it was local isn't the point, discretion is. How many people would like their friends, family, and work colleagues to know what they get up to in their private time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To add my tuppence worth to this....

To the lowdown scum of the earth shitbag that done their best to ruin the night, your plan failed. In fact, moving to the new venue brought us all closer together, gave us a brilliant laugh in parading the streets in our costumes, and we ended up having a thoroughly fantastic night despite your scheming.

So in all, up ye ya twat!!!!!!!!

oh in full agreement there windaeeeeeee

an folks it wasnt really down to me it was a friends bar so was him an his staff that are owed the thanks for helping us all out so a big big thanks to the lads of the pub xxxxxx "

Just a Wee idea if people are Orginisein the nexted one in Glasgow why not re Use this Bar ? And So Sorry to hear that sum scumbag done that to u hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the bar staff made a point of letting me know that he had been told. Thought it was great, and was going to join himself so he "could get free shags, don't care how old they are."

I think you're right. Just don't go. But I think the point is being missed here. Would it be ok for me to go to socials in Edinburgh, Dundee, or Aberdeen, and let slip when i'm pissed that I'm at a swingers doo to the bar staff and locals just because I don't come from there?

In my job, I travel quite a bit through Scotland. The fact it was local isn't the point, discretion is. How many people would like their friends, family, and work colleagues to know what they get up to in their private time?"

Discretion/ personal security / situational awareness

Its great trying to avoid slipping up, or just brushing off questions, regarding type of socials you attend.

I ended up not going so I missed anthor great party, hopefully future socials wont be disrupted.

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By *omma46Man
over a year ago

GLASGOW

as regards discretion, i would never tell bar staff, why i was in their, all that matters is im happy to buy some beer, and have a good time, with like minded pals, its nobodys business to know, unless we were having sex in the toilets, with each other, or whatever of course, nobody was though. As regards discretion, i would never ever run off at the mouth, about who my pals were EVER.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read this and its a fecking disgrace! The only silver lining is that the party went ahead as planned and that all involved had a great time.

I do believe in karma and whoever did this...shit will fall upon them!

I think it is narrow minded of any venue owners as its not as if the venues are booked to hold a mass orgy..anyways..

An idea could be to tell the venues in question that it is 'a singles meet for a dating site' technically thats not a lie and many events are organsied by a dating site in venues in Glasgow already. It also gives the organisers a premise from which to defend and or argue their point should anyone try this sort of pathetic shit again.

Sickened to hear of this i really am. I mean ffs..you would think people having a laugh and sex at the end of a good night was a bad thing!!!!!

vol

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets hope we find out who it was that done this. I know we can't name and shame but word of mouth is a great thing. The ppl/person involved will soon realise they've seriously fucked up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about your social Pleasurer xxxx and its good all was not lost when the venue was moved .It beggars belief why people sabotage these socials...but as someone has already mentioned,its not surprisingly this can happen,and dare say puts other forthcoming socials on alert.

However ......my interpretation of swinging is discretion play a big part..ive been on this site for almost 3 and half years....and to be fair there isnt much of that.

Keep Smiling Tracy xxxx

Buboo xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the upside, at least whoever did this only phoned the venue. They could just as easily have phoned the News of the World

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant really add anything more that hasnt been said already about the person/ persons involved in this sabotage!

utter disgrace

but what a fantastic community we have here..

every one sticking together and helping our fellow fabbers in a crisis! and not just socials either.

what a great sense of community and spirit...

we could defo take them on the beaches !!!(world war 2 quote, for the young uns)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so its fine to call the venue and ruin peoples nites i think not also why would a fellow swinger report to the news of the world when it could bring attension to their door the fact is it was a fellow swinger who did this and will also be reading every post thats put up its just a shame they cant enjoy what we have as a community here its a fantastic way to meet people im just guessing there time on fab has went downhill maye lost some attension along the way all i can say to them is you need help to smile live a little put your bad experiences to one side and FUCKIN GROW UP xxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"On the upside, at least whoever did this only phoned the venue. They could just as easily have phoned the News of the World "

If news of world or whoever wanted to do an expose article they wouldnt have to work too hard to find details of any socials as all you need do is have profile and put your name down for any social advertised on forums and they pay money and away they go.Dont recolect seeing any socials stipulating for verified people only, dunno as after all socials are good way for newbies to get introduced.

I think maybe its time for myself and the other social organisers to get together and try and find a way forward with future socials .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we doubt we'll go to another social because someone there told members of the bar staff that we were from a swingers site. Couldn't believe it after what had happened beforehand.

Does no one know the meaning of discretion? Quite of us work and socilalise in Glasgow city centre week in, week out. I don't like the thought of being out with friends or work colleagues one day and having a member of bar staff letting slip that we attended a swingers party."

That's the main reason we don't go to the bg socials. There's always someone opens there big mouth and tells vanilla staff it's a swing site social night or, as has happened in the past, a few ppl don't know how to behave in public and the venue bans future bookings because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what could the News of The World do if they turned up at a social?

Who exactly are they exposing?

Just 100 or so people going into a venue in either fancy dress or dressed smart or sexy and having a good time?

Ok, may see a few people going round and snogging folk.... but aint that just a normal Saturday night these days?

Unless they took pictures of everyone, mailed every profile and obtained face pics and found out whos profile was who etc then not much of a story to be honest.

S.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on a gd note we raised three hundred and twenty three pounds and fifty three pence so will pop over next week to the homless and give them a treat some peoples gonna be smiling through this xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And what could the News of The World do if they turned up at a social?

Who exactly are they exposing?

Just 100 or so people going into a venue in either fancy dress or dressed smart or sexy and having a good time?

Ok, may see a few people going round and snogging folk.... but aint that just a normal Saturday night these days?

Unless they took pictures of everyone, mailed every profile and obtained face pics and found out whos profile was who etc then not much of a story to be honest.

S."

It doesn't have to be 'much' of a story. All it needs is something they can hang the word 'pervert' around the neck of (like Perverts Invade Glasgow Pub), print it in a large enough font and sell lots of papers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And what could the News of The World do if they turned up at a social?

Who exactly are they exposing?

Just 100 or so people going into a venue in either fancy dress or dressed smart or sexy and having a good time?

Ok, may see a few people going round and snogging folk.... but aint that just a normal Saturday night these days?

Unless they took pictures of everyone, mailed every profile and obtained face pics and found out whos profile was who etc then not much of a story to be honest.

S.

It doesn't have to be 'much' of a story. All it needs is something they can hang the word 'pervert' around the neck of (like Perverts Invade Glasgow Pub), print it in a large enough font and sell lots of papers."

You seem to be the one who brings up the news of the world a lot , i dunno about anyone else but i suspect you may have connections with the said newspaper, but merely my opinion.

As has previously been said , what are they going to report on ?

The word 'Pervert' sells newspapers to the type of people who like to hear about perverted stuff , so who cares what goes in a newspaper that, lets face it has a reputation for reporting rubbish and sensationalising the smallest fact , as for reporters themselves they are well known for getting stories in less than fair ways.

So let the 'Puritanical' , 'News of the World' go to a social as a verified fab member who paid their money the same as everyone else , he/she might find they have a great night out but alas can only report that their swingers social was no different to any other saturday club night out.

ce la vie

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

nice one perfect that was part of whole nite well apart from me being a pervert (only kidding dont kill me)hope the people enjoy whatever happens with it and keep up the good work hope to see you all again real soon

takes less muscles to smile than it does to frown so lets see those happy faces

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Tracy fantastic amout of money made well done hun xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bloody good show chaps n chapesses , an to add it all up we all got a fantastic nite out doing it , so happy days xxxxxxx an me n tracy won 2 of the cutest barmen lol hehe cudnt of been better lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

well done to Tracy and all attendees. Pat on the bum to all those involved xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It doesn't have to be 'much' of a story. All it needs is something they can hang the word 'pervert' around the neck of (like Perverts Invade Glasgow Pub), print it in a large enough font and sell lots of papers.

You seem to be the one who brings up the news of the world a lot , i dunno about anyone else but i suspect you may have connections with the said newspaper, but merely my opinion.

................

"

I have no connection with that or any other newspaper. I could just as easily have mentioned the Sunday Mail.

I can't be the only person here who remembers the damage both papers did by infiltrating and exposing the Ayrshire coast party scene all those years ago.

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