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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Do you think its possible to Be trusted and not judged for being on a sex site. Iv just been pure judged. Asking if my concious would be clear!! Ps(not that im going in a relationship lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your conscious clear about what? Your single why wouldn't it be

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Do you think its possible to Be trusted and not judged for being on a sex site. Iv just been pure judged. Asking if my concious would be clear!! Ps(not that im going in a relationship lol "
This post needs more clarification

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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Exactly. But he meant as if i was untrustworthy as im on here and going to clubs lol. X

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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Like say you met someone and it got serious hes trying to say because im on here i cant be trusted if i got in a relationship which is rubbish x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Like say you met someone and it got serious hes trying to say because im on here i cant be trusted if i got in a relationship which is rubbish x"
so you've met someone but still on here ?

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Is he on here too?

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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Iv met someone off here. He just said he would never trust me x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Iv met someone off here. He just said he would never trust me x"
ok so it it just swinging or more?

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Iv met someone off here. He just said he would never trust me x"

They clearly have double standards. I'd consider it lucky they have said this at the outset and then end it with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him cool

You wouldn't trust him either and you can just keep it a sex thing

If he wants more he has to deal with his insecurities

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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah i just was asking a hypothetical quwstion. Is it possible to be trusted if your on a site thats all x

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow


"Tell him cool

You wouldn't trust him either and you can just keep it a sex thing

If he wants more he has to deal with his insecurities "

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Yeah i just was asking a hypothetical quwstion. Is it possible to be trusted if your on a site thats all x "

It depends on what you mean though as there are different circumstances, i.e. if they aren't on the site and you are or if you agree to be 'exclusive' together and they leave the site etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah i just was asking a hypothetical quwstion. Is it possible to be trusted if your on a site thats all x "

I am sure that you will work it out.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Yeah i just was asking a hypothetical quwstion. Is it possible to be trusted if your on a site thats all x "
your heading is confusing with what your saying then lol

But id say it would be very difficult to trust someone on a swinging site and if you were getting serious then id say leave and let the relationship develop without outside influances getting in the way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell him cool

You wouldn't trust him either and you can just keep it a sex thing

If he wants more he has to deal with his insecurities "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id agree with jacs

if a relationship is formed on here the best thing to do is both leave and work on the exclusive relationship

then if and when you feel ready to return you can

gives you a fighting chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id agree with jacs

if a relationship is formed on here the best thing to do is both leave and work on the exclusive relationship

then if and when you feel ready to return you can

gives you a fighting chance "

I agree with this comment

However the original question is quite clouded

Did you meet the guy on here........... Yes then follow above advice

Did you meet him in the vanilla world......... Yes, staying on a swinging site whilst in this relationship makes you in his eyes and that of many in here no better than cheating scum

Ask majority of other "singles" playing away on here

Not one to judge but unfortunately in this world that's the way many see it especially the vanilla world

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By *parkle-BangerCouple
over a year ago

wigtownshire

I think swingers are more honest and open with what they want than say people that have relationships they are the ones that sneek behind partners backs and have affairs so if there is no trust then not worth having a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id agree with jacs

if a relationship is formed on here the best thing to do is both leave and work on the exclusive relationship

then if and when you feel ready to return you can

gives you a fighting chance "

agree but also think there is more trust in a swinging relationship as no one needs to hide anything or do anything behind the others back as its all cards on the table as such plus if someone really liked someone n wants to play with them then it's easily done with other half being there?

Geek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree but also think there is more trust in a swinging relationship as no one needs to hide anything or do anything behind the others back as its all cards on the table as such plus if someone really liked someone n wants to play with them then it's easily done with other half being there?

Geek

totally agree with this! Absolutely more trust and honesty in a relationship that has come from Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only everyone realised this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If only everyone realised this..."

this

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Truat has nothing to do with swinging though its an individual thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Truat has nothing to do with swinging though its an individual thing "
agree well if it's ment to say trust

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Truat has nothing to do with swinging though its an individual thing agree well if it's ment to say trust "
pmsl no glecks n phone not a good combo for spelling yup was trust

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Id agree with jacs

if a relationship is formed on here the best thing to do is both leave and work on the exclusive relationship

then if and when you feel ready to return you can

gives you a fighting chance

agree but also think there is more trust in a swinging relationship as no one needs to hide anything or do anything behind the others back as its all cards on the table as such plus if someone really liked someone n wants to play with them then it's easily done with other half being there?

Geek "

over many years I have met a good few people who don't know what their other half gets upto. Mostly secretly Bi or playing away and hiding under secret profiles...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 19/11/14 16:25:09]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why you would trust someone from fab less than someone from vanilla land. It's all about insecurities...

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

Are you saying trust not to have sex with someone else, or trust not to fall in love with someone else, or are they referring to STD risk? I think most guys will have sex with someone they find attractive if the opportunity arises - trying to control someone else probably just reflects their own insecurities. Sounds like you need a frank and open discussion with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am on here and married with my wife's knowledge. It took a while but now she has a regular F Buddy and I get to have fun. If that's possible on here although I do go to CO'S with here approval

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a slut..but a loyal one

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over a year ago

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