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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it really that bad??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when im about!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only when im about!

True

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Is it really that bad??

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bad in what way ?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think it is better than say a year ago, more variety in threads.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

And less drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me i guess it is what it is. When it's good it's very good and when it's bad it's horrid. A bit like life...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"For me i guess it is what it is. When it's good it's very good and when it's bad it's horrid. A bit like life..."

That's very fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it really that bad??

bad in what way ?"

People are always saying how bad the forum is as in cliques, fluff threads and people jumping on the op over a simple question they ask

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"For me i guess it is what it is. When it's good it's very good and when it's bad it's horrid. A bit like life..."
so true and when its bad i tend to stay clear as much as i can makes for very cringworthy reading at times.

Then there are other times where is really good fun

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Is it really that bad??

bad in what way ?

People are always saying how bad the forum is as in cliques, fluff threads and people jumping on the op over a simple question they ask"
yeah i know what you mean .

on some posts im left asking myself if some would speak to people face to face like they do on the forums and im thinking probably not

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Is it really that bad??

bad in what way ?

People are always saying how bad the forum is as in cliques, fluff threads and people jumping on the op over a simple question they ask"

It's no different from the other forums for that, it happens usually depending who posts male or female or who follows who with the thumbs

it can be unwelcoming

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it really that bad??

bad in what way ?

People are always saying how bad the forum is as in cliques, fluff threads and people jumping on the op over a simple question they askyeah i know what you mean .

on some posts im left asking myself if some would speak to people face to face like they do on the forums and im thinking probably not

Of course not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a person who most know has been vocal about cliques and slap on the back forum posts

I agree with _iew

Getting alot better with more posters rather than the same 4/5 people posting and less jumping on new posters

Auds

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I've always steered clear of threads that don't interest me rather than start a row. That's often meant I've been very quiet for weeks at a time.

But as has been said, it's life. We can't ALL get on with each other ALL of the time.

There will be disagreements from time to time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a person who most know has been vocal about cliques and slap on the back forum posts

I agree with _iew

Getting alot better with more posters rather than the same 4/5 people posting and less jumping on new posters

Auds"

How often do you start threads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really that bad??

bad in what way ?

People are always saying how bad the forum is as in cliques, fluff threads and people jumping on the op over a simple question they ask"
Lets face it people put stuff on the forum to get folks advice,but when the advice they get isnt what they want or hope to hear,they dont like it,unfortunately thats life.if folk dont like ot then dont post.

And as for cliques?if you dont stick your tuppenceworth in then yeah it cam appear like a clique

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By *exy SwingMan
over a year ago

the sticks

As a noob this place rocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I want to know something

I'm not a lets have a giggle about fav colours kinda chick or have no interest on anyone's plans for the weekend

But if I genuinely want to know something il start a post

I'm doing good at not posting on posts that do my head in lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whenever I want to know something

I'm not a lets have a giggle about fav colours kinda chick or have no interest on anyone's plans for the weekend

But if I genuinely want to know something il start a post

I'm doing good at not posting on posts that do my head in lol"

You've never struck me as a fluff poster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fluffy forumite who's part of the clique I do believe but I don't actually care

I make clear my opinion on the stuff that I feel matters to me .

It's good fun at times . Some don't want that or like it that's their choice . I think they have definitely attracted more people lately too xx

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I'd say it's better than it's been for a while.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't find it as fun as it used to be but then I do like my fluff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's still fluff just not most post

And I think if you havnt posted before there's enough different people posting that they don't feel intimidated

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By *one IdolMan
over a year ago

your imagination

I think the forums are generally like the pub , theres always gonna be more conversation and banter between the regulars than the occasional pint punters .... and a general piss take of the jakeys

the Scotland forum is much the same as the others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally I think the forum is good if I need advice. At times it reads cringey and bitchy. Can be nasty the odd time. However iv laughed a lot at some of the topics and answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the forum. Its like a little bit of Scotland on my phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a newbie ive been made to feel welcome

. I've found its eejits asking stupid question and poor wee me posts that are ripped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't find it as fun as it used to be but then I do like my fluff "

I like your fluff too!

But, I can do serious also. Its when things get nasty, personal and disrespectful I hate it. In fact on Saturday night I went into a corner and

. We all have feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it only gets nasty when folks egos get booted

lol

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I stayed away and in the other forums for quite a while...

But agree with a lot of others.. lots of new posters and more variety .... so I browse and post a bit more again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I stayed away and in the other forums for quite a while...

But agree with a lot of others.. lots of new posters and more variety .... so I browse and post a bit more again

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about feckin time too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't find it as fun as it used to be but then I do like my fluff

I like your fluff too!

But, I can do serious also. Its when things get nasty, personal and disrespectful I hate it. In fact on Saturday night I went into a corner and

. We all have feelings.

There's always one looking to cause upset

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I stayed away and in the other forums for quite a while...

But agree with a lot of others.. lots of new posters and more variety .... so I browse and post a bit more again

Glad your back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, it's horrible, its a travesty, it's awful ..... Ohhh the forum, now it's ok ... Isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the forum. Although sometimes some people would argue black was white.

I tend to try keep to the fun/light hearted ones.

This is my fun time I've got enough going on in my life without coming on fab for an argument

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Love the forum. Although sometimes some people would argue black was white.

I tend to try keep to the fun/light hearted ones.

This is my fun time I've got enough going on in my life without coming on fab for an argument

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Im the exact same too much shit in the real world to expect it on here too .

And like jinty felt on Saturday ive been there a few times too and it aint nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love the forum. Although sometimes some people would argue black was white.

I tend to try keep to the fun/light hearted ones.

This is my fun time I've got enough going on in my life without coming on fab for an argument

Im the exact same too much shit in the real world to expect it on here too .

And like jinty felt on Saturday ive been there a few times too and it aint nice

Yeah it's not nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really that bad??

I dont think so but every now and again someone comes in throws a hand grenade then leaves the rest of us to sort and occasionally get a short ban lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on the site a longer than most and have seen many people come an go especially here in the Forum

I've seen it a lot more clique than it is now

Threads tend to be more interesting now

Yes we still get topics that are going to be explosive and should be jumped on and closed a lot earlier than when the moderators finally do

Personally not into kiss, shag or avoid threads also as a club door steward I avoid threads that involve, religion, politics and football as these subjects are a powder keg in this part of the woods

Newbies asking questions.... They're not daft questions, how did you find your way around the site or swinging scene in general. You don't get if you don't ask

Experienced forumites too embarrassed to ask in case the clique put them down, be yourself if you don't know ask fcku the arsewipes

Anyway I think I've said more than I intended

In recap the forum is going through a resurge at present and as more newbies come in the better it becomes

Just drop the baggage and be yourself in here stop hiding behind your keyboard

We are after all in here for the same thing and it is fun so make use of the forum as that's what it's here for

Enjoy

Rok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on the site a longer than most and have seen many people come an go especially here in the Forum

I've seen it a lot more clique than it is now

Threads tend to be more interesting now

Yes we still get topics that are going to be explosive and should be jumped on and closed a lot earlier than when the moderators finally do

Personally not into kiss, shag or avoid threads also as a club door steward I avoid threads that involve, religion, politics and football as these subjects are a powder keg in this part of the woods

Newbies asking questions.... They're not daft questions, how did you find your way around the site or swinging scene in general. You don't get if you don't ask

Experienced forumites too embarrassed to ask in case the clique put them down, be yourself if you don't know ask fcku the arsewipes

Anyway I think I've said more than I intended

In recap the forum is going through a resurge at present and as more newbies come in the better it becomes

Just drop the baggage and be yourself in here stop hiding behind your keyboard

We are after all in here for the same thing and it is fun so make use of the forum as that's what it's here for

Enjoy

Rok"

Well said that man!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

It's nice to see some of the 'older' faces returning too

(I didn't mean old as in age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on the site a longer than most and have seen many people come an go especially here in the Forum

I've seen it a lot more clique than it is now

Threads tend to be more interesting now

Yes we still get topics that are going to be explosive and should be jumped on and closed a lot earlier than when the moderators finally do

Personally not into kiss, shag or avoid threads also as a club door steward I avoid threads that involve, religion, politics and football as these subjects are a powder keg in this part of the woods

Newbies asking questions.... They're not daft questions, how did you find your way around the site or swinging scene in general. You don't get if you don't ask

Experienced forumites too embarrassed to ask in case the clique put them down, be yourself if you don't know ask fcku the arsewipes

Anyway I think I've said more than I intended

In recap the forum is going through a resurge at present and as more newbies come in the better it becomes

Just drop the baggage and be yourself in here stop hiding behind your keyboard

We are after all in here for the same thing and it is fun so make use of the forum as that's what it's here for

Enjoy

Rok

Well said that man!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I've been on the site a longer than most and have seen many people come an go especially here in the Forum

I've seen it a lot more clique than it is now

Threads tend to be more interesting now

Yes we still get topics that are going to be explosive and should be jumped on and closed a lot earlier than when the moderators finally do

Personally not into kiss, shag or avoid threads also as a club door steward I avoid threads that involve, religion, politics and football as these subjects are a powder keg in this part of the woods

Newbies asking questions.... They're not daft questions, how did you find your way around the site or swinging scene in general. You don't get if you don't ask

Experienced forumites too embarrassed to ask in case the clique put them down, be yourself if you don't know ask fcku the arsewipes

Anyway I think I've said more than I intended

In recap the forum is going through a resurge at present and as more newbies come in the better it becomes

Just drop the baggage and be yourself in here stop hiding behind your keyboard

We are after all in here for the same thing and it is fun so make use of the forum as that's what it's here for

Enjoy

Rok"

good post

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I've been on the site a longer than most and have seen many people come an go especially here in the Forum

I've seen it a lot more clique than it is now

Threads tend to be more interesting now

Yes we still get topics that are going to be explosive and should be jumped on and closed a lot earlier than when the moderators finally do

Personally not into kiss, shag or avoid threads also as a club door steward I avoid threads that involve, religion, politics and football as these subjects are a powder keg in this part of the woods

Newbies asking questions.... They're not daft questions, how did you find your way around the site or swinging scene in general. You don't get if you don't ask

Experienced forumites too embarrassed to ask in case the clique put them down, be yourself if you don't know ask fcku the arsewipes

Anyway I think I've said more than I intended

In recap the forum is going through a resurge at present and as more newbies come in the better it becomes

Just drop the baggage and be yourself in here stop hiding behind your keyboard

We are after all in here for the same thing and it is fun so make use of the forum as that's what it's here for

Enjoy

Rok"
spot on Rok about always being yourself and you always have been.

I'm sure having known me for years ul agree i am too on these forums always flirty always happy to chat to anyone on here so all is good

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By *ighlander34Man
over a year ago

skye

I personally find the other forums a lot more inviting and more fun!

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By *ighlander34Man
over a year ago

skye

"I personally find the other forums a lot more inviting and more fun!

Not that I'm saying the Scotland forums aren't! Thought I'd better make that clear! Hee hee.

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

"I personally find the other forums a lot more inviting and more fun!

Not that I'm saying the Scotland forums aren't! Thought I'd better make that clear! Hee hee.

Any in particular?

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By *ighlander34Man
over a year ago

skye

"I personally find the other forums a lot more inviting and more fun!

Not that I'm saying the Scotland forums aren't! Thought I'd better make that clear! Hee hee.

Any in particular?"

The Welsh are a crazy and fun bunch!

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By *ndy_w91Man
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

2 hot guys looking for a girl to join. (MMF bi)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try meet today

This is a weird forum post to post that in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try meet today

This is a weird forum post to post that in

Sorry Auds, couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the forum it makes me chuckle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the bad bits are bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"2 hot guys looking for a girl to join. (MMF bi)"

Eh??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better than the USA forums that thing is dead

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think it has improved a lot over the last few months...

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I think it has improved a lot over the last few months..."

...... since the Referendum?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I think it has improved a lot over the last few months...

...... since the Referendum?"

That subject was educating and I mostly liked the debate... the silly tit for tat and bashing the Yes/No voters became an utter bore and playground shit...

but overall, it was ok

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

there is a much wider range of topics, more posters and it feels more welcoming to new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree _iew

I think the Scottish forum is now totally open to everyone

Any topic no bitching and a lot more friendly

Auds x

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

If only we could hold a vote and get rid of the religious bigotry threads, poorly disguised as being about football.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's actually quite friendly now. Don't get me wrong it's been a bit dead about a week ago but seems to have picked up

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

It's definitely much better than it was.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"If only we could hold a vote and get rid of the religious bigotry threads, poorly disguised as being about football."

it horrid and I steer clear of all that nonsense..

best to report them and nip any in the bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't like threads _nny

Don't look

Simple

Bit like the referendum posts

You like or you don't

Simple

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"If only we could hold a vote and get rid of the religious bigotry threads, poorly disguised as being about football."

No, leave them. They're great for the block list

Anything that shows someone's true character is great. It's why I'm not a fan of giving advice on what people should change about their profile. I remember reading someone asking for advice in the past and his profile was pretty scary reading but after all the advice he was given on what to say, what pics to remove etc it just looked like a normal run of the mill profile when I don't think that was even close to an accurate reflection if the original profile was anything to go by.

Anyway, that was a bit of a derail lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"If only we could hold a vote and get rid of the religious bigotry threads, poorly disguised as being about football.

No, leave them. They're great for the block list

Anyway, that was a bit of a derail lol"

was it the picture of a decaying corpse of an elderly relative in a rocking chair I had in the background of the picture with me peeking through the shower curtain... and my profile asking for shower fun that gave it away ...

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If only we could hold a vote and get rid of the religious bigotry threads, poorly disguised as being about football.

No, leave them. They're great for the block list

There is that benefit I suppose.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"If only we could hold a vote and get rid of the religious bigotry threads, poorly disguised as being about football.

No, leave them. They're great for the block list

Anyway, that was a bit of a derail lol

And that was it after all the amendments

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"If only we could hold a vote and get rid of the religious bigotry threads, poorly disguised as being about football.

No, leave them. They're great for the block list

Anyway, that was a bit of a derail lol

And that was it after all the amendments

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Defo better lately

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