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By *976scott OP   Man
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Looking for some advice and both positive and Negative stories about working with someone your having a relationship with!

Ive been seeing someone on and off for a few months but she's looking for something I'm not! My worry is that if I end it, there is the work issue and awkwardness to worry about!

Conversely if we become "Serious" I will have to still see her every day!

Not sure what to do! Any advice appreciated!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It's a no no from me, employment and sex don't work

but good luck if you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing to do is chat with her if you have not already done that,

Explain the situation don't just be with her to avoid the awkwardness its not fair on you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a golden rule NEVER SHIT WHERE YOU EAT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been in this situation more than once, I wouldn't recommend it. I have been in awkward positions and yet I still manage to find my way back in to them. As long as you set out the rules from the start, no strings, nothing after, etc!!! You need to trust the other party also..... TRUST is Key!!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Looking for some advice and both positive and Negative stories about working with someone your having a relationship with!

Ive been seeing someone on and off for a few months but she's looking for something I'm not! My worry is that if I end it, there is the work issue and awkwardness to worry about!

Conversely if we become "Serious" I will have to still see her every day!

Not sure what to do! Any advice appreciated!

"
If she is looking for something your not then walk away its that simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a golden rule NEVER SHIT WHERE YOU EAT"

I prefer...Never get your honey, where you make your money.

Waaaaaay too dangerous..

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By *976scott OP   Man
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Don't know if I'm just greedy!

I think sometimes I would like the vanilla normal life! Then the wee devil on my shoulder starts talking in the other ear

The thing is she is really nice and laid back but suppose I just want the best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a golden rule NEVER SHIT WHERE YOU EAT

I prefer...Never get your honey, where you make your money.

Waaaaaay too dangerous.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know if I'm just greedy!

I think sometimes I would like the vanilla normal life! Then the wee devil on my shoulder starts talking in the other ear

The thing is she is really nice and laid back but suppose I just want the best of both worlds "
at least you're saying that's what you want here . Maybe she would go for it if you shared things with her regarding your lifestyle. Suppose that's the part that would make it difficult to go back to a vanilla life for me .

I'd personally say that work relationships tend not to work for the most but like everything else you won't know if you Don't try it or let her know how you feel xx

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate

Not for me I'm afraid. Done it in the past and definitely not worth it xx keep work and fun/relationship separate.

Good luck with whatever you decide tho. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest opinion....

Work is somewhere I would go to escape...if she is there as well there is no hiding lol

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By *riction addictionMan
over a year ago

bathgate

Never dip your pen in company ink

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