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girls vote should I delete my fab account or not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After all lady's I have a great social life off this site and absolutely no success on fab. So what's your opinion be as harsh or as nice as you want. But I would prefer your honest opinion.??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your own answer tells you what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol that's your choice to make. We ladies are not your mother holding your hand for you. Just seems your seeking a sympthay fuck, and tbh you won't get it, really grinds my gears guy's on here moaning 'time to call it a day' this site is a waste of time blah blah blah. This site is what you make of it and put the effort in and you could be having lots of fun and meets. But naturally if all you men you seek women to use like a kleenex you expect any response? It's a two way street not a cattle market to get your jollys off as and when you require.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol that's your choice to make. We ladies are not your mother holding your hand for you. Just seems your seeking a sympthay fuck, and tbh you won't get it, really grinds my gears guy's on here moaning 'time to call it a day' this site is a waste of time blah blah blah. This site is what you make of it and put the effort in and you could be having lots of fun and meets. But naturally if all you men you seek women to use like a kleenex you expect any response? It's a two way street not a cattle market to get your jollys off as and when you require. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Go on lady's. I really want to know your thoughts on this. remember the truth is what I'm asking ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having read your profile I don't think many of us meet your requirements so if you're having a blast in your non fab social life....go for it. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your own answer tells you what to do "

Took the words right out of my mouth.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Oh dear a me and all the "ladys" post im sure it wont be seen through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you were to email me I would hit delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol that's your choice to make. We ladies are not your mother holding your hand for you. Just seems your seeking a sympthay fuck, and tbh you won't get it, really grinds my gears guy's on here moaning 'time to call it a day' this site is a waste of time blah blah blah. This site is what you make of it and put the effort in and you could be having lots of fun and meets. But naturally if all you men you seek women to use like a kleenex you expect any response? It's a two way street not a cattle market to get your jollys off as and when you require. "

I didn't read anything in his profile indicating that's what he is after...thought it was honest, if a bit random lol in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is kinda interesting please continue to tell me what you think. I really don't mind harsh words I fkn love the truth x

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By *cdc_seanMan
over a year ago

Bathgate

I would say most folk couldn't be bothered to read all the text on your profile. Too much packed together with no paragraphs.

Shorten it and make it easier to read I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol that's your choice to make. We ladies are not your mother holding your hand for you. Just seems your seeking a sympthay fuck, and tbh you won't get it, really grinds my gears guy's on here moaning 'time to call it a day' this site is a waste of time blah blah blah. This site is what you make of it and put the effort in and you could be having lots of fun and meets. But naturally if all you men you seek women to use like a kleenex you expect any response? It's a two way street not a cattle market to get your jollys off as and when you require.

I didn't read anything in his profile indicating that's what he is after...thought it was honest, if a bit random lol in a good way."
okay he has been a member 6 week's and already wanting to be told stay or go, it was generally a I've been on fab for about a year and a half now and it's the same same bam different burbbery imo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been a member for more than 6 weeks. Figure 8. Anyway it's interesting reading the responses I didn't expect to see what I'm seeing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol that's your choice to make. We ladies are not your mother holding your hand for you. Just seems your seeking a sympthay fuck, and tbh you won't get it, really grinds my gears guy's on here moaning 'time to call it a day' this site is a waste of time blah blah blah. This site is what you make of it and put the effort in and you could be having lots of fun and meets. But naturally if all you men you seek women to use like a kleenex you expect any response? It's a two way street not a cattle market to get your jollys off as and when you require.

I didn't read anything in his profile indicating that's what he is after...thought it was honest, if a bit random lol in a good way. okay he has been a member 6 week's and already wanting to be told stay or go, it was generally a I've been on fab for about a year and a half now and it's the same same bam different burbbery imo. "

Still didnt see anything in his profile stating what you indicated is all...and lets be honest here theres more winging females with 'im leaving' ' this site is rubbish' status line etc than you can shake a stick at lol its not gender specific.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of grammar/structure. The part about what you smoke. And the fact it reeks of you being far too full of yourself and a bit of a prat. Confirmed by the writing of this post. Harsh enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been a member for more than 6 weeks. Figure 8. Anyway it's interesting reading the responses I didn't expect to see what I'm seeing lol "
shite jobby, with 'this profile' it has been 6 week's. -_-

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Perfectly harsh thankyou for your honest opinion ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol that's your choice to make. We ladies are not your mother holding your hand for you. Just seems your seeking a sympthay fuck, and tbh you won't get it, really grinds my gears guy's on here moaning 'time to call it a day' this site is a waste of time blah blah blah. This site is what you make of it and put the effort in and you could be having lots of fun and meets. But naturally if all you men you seek women to use like a kleenex you expect any response? It's a two way street not a cattle market to get your jollys off as and when you require.

I didn't read anything in his profile indicating that's what he is after...thought it was honest, if a bit random lol in a good way. okay he has been a member 6 week's and already wanting to be told stay or go, it was generally a I've been on fab for about a year and a half now and it's the same same bam different burbbery imo.

Still didnt see anything in his profile stating what you indicated is all...and lets be honest here theres more winging females with 'im leaving' ' this site is rubbish' status line etc than you can shake a stick at lol its not gender specific."
no the judgement were made when he made the form post greeting to be told stay or go. What has it got to with any other fab member whom stas or goes just like wit whom you choose to meet it's the account holders choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I closed my account a few months ago and reopened it this is probably where the confusion is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol that's your choice to make. We ladies are not your mother holding your hand for you. Just seems your seeking a sympthay fuck, and tbh you won't get it, really grinds my gears guy's on here moaning 'time to call it a day' this site is a waste of time blah blah blah. This site is what you make of it and put the effort in and you could be having lots of fun and meets. But naturally if all you men you seek women to use like a kleenex you expect any response? It's a two way street not a cattle market to get your jollys off as and when you require.

I didn't read anything in his profile indicating that's what he is after...thought it was honest, if a bit random lol in a good way. okay he has been a member 6 week's and already wanting to be told stay or go, it was generally a I've been on fab for about a year and a half now and it's the same same bam different burbbery imo.

Still didnt see anything in his profile stating what you indicated is all...and lets be honest here theres more winging females with 'im leaving' ' this site is rubbish' status line etc than you can shake a stick at lol its not gender specific. no the judgement were made when he made the form post greeting to be told stay or go. What has it got to with any other fab member whom stas or goes just like wit whom you choose to meet it's the account holders choice. "

Typing not your strong point? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair point lol

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"I would say most folk couldn't be bothered to read all the text on your profile. Too much packed together with no paragraphs.

Shorten it and make it easier to read I'd say. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say most folk couldn't be bothered to read all the text on your profile. Too much packed together with no paragraphs.

Shorten it and make it easier to read I'd say. "

That's at least constructive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only been here 6 weeks. Hardly anytime to see what's what.

Your call if you leave, believe me no one begs anyone to stay...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I won't deny it's a good point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You are right. I'm aware no one will begg me to stay. After all it is a forum and I have never met anyone from the site. To make an impression that would make them begg.

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate


"Lack of grammar/structure. The part about what you smoke. And the fact it reeks of you being far too full of yourself and a bit of a prat. Confirmed by the writing of this post. Harsh enough? "

I agree xx oh and the bit bout being into sport or diy to show your an independent woman?? I don't get that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else got an opinion on this? I wont judge my decision on this thread. But would like to hear others opinions ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A shit you got me there ?? I will try dig my self out of that. Hear goes. I like a self confident woman that has interests far beyond reality tv. And on that point far beyond diy. Did that just dig me deeper lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A shit you got me there ?? I will try dig my self out of that. Hear goes. I like a self confident woman that has interests far beyond reality tv. And on that point far beyond diy. Did that just dig me deeper lol"

I fixed my toilet the other night. The valve had broken and I'm removing some cupboards in the kitchen to get access to the chimney next week but I do like a bit of Real housewives of Beverly Hills.

Anyway you might as well go if you get plenty of action in the vanilla world because this site is obviously for people that can't pull in a pub

Don't let the door hit you on the way out

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I am a self confident strong woman... Way out your age range but if you mailed me I would delete it without a thought

Plus I prefer men confident enough to make their own mind up without having to ask total strangers on a forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A shit you got me there ?? I will try dig my self out of that. Hear goes. I like a self confident woman that has interests far beyond reality tv. And on that point far beyond diy. Did that just dig me deeper lol

I fixed my toilet the other night. The valve had broken and I'm removing some cupboards in the kitchen to get access to the chimney next week but I do like a bit of Real housewives of Beverly Hills.

Anyway you might as well go if you get plenty of action in the vanilla world because this site is obviously for people that can't pull in a pub

Don't let the door hit you on the way out "
don't hit him on the fanny on the way out more like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After all lady's I have a great social life off this site and absolutely no success on fab. So what's your opinion be as harsh or as nice as you want. But I would prefer your honest opinion.?? "

Yes... Delete it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

(this site is for people who can't pull in a pub) ? What the fk did you say. I think you should maybe think that out. I don't mind the harsh comments going my way.after all I did say so in my post. But that's kinda directed at every member and definitely not true. Bad chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou straight to the point ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(this site is for people who can't pull in a pub) ? What the fk did you say. I think you should maybe think that out. I don't mind the harsh comments going my way.after all I did say so in my post. But that's kinda directed at every member and definitely not true. Bad chat "
fab fem was clearly being sarcastic , she would have zero problem's pulling in a convent nevermind anywhere else.

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By *ootlover456Man
over a year ago

Paisley


" fab fem was clearly being sarcastic , she would have zero problem's pulling in a convent nevermind anywhere else. "

that is pretty much true

so whit am I missing here.

stay .. go ... who cares. make your choice friend. you can possibly need help with this. ye wont get the pity fuck by asking. too many others do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm having a whip round for a leaving card.....anyone wanting to donate ? Hope he doesn't just leave suddenly....

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By *ootlover456Man
over a year ago

Paisley

urgh put me down for £1 and 5p for the bag to put the card in. damn 5p bags. ooh how I grudge that 5p.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"urgh put me down for £1 and 5p for the bag to put the card in. damn 5p bags. ooh how I grudge that 5p. "
I am a cheap skate so can you sign my name and put some lippy on and kiss the card for me Mr foot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He might just retreat to the wild with his mushrooms

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

Oh dear I've had to contribute to loads of leaving pressies at work - some for people who have only been there a few weeks - now on Fab too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man up and make your own decisions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear I've had to contribute to loads of leaving pressies at work - some for people who have only been there a few weeks - now on Fab too?"
Mr foot will stick your name doon to

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By *ootlover456Man
over a year ago

Paisley


"urgh put me down for £1 and 5p for the bag to put the card in. damn 5p bags. ooh how I grudge that 5p. I am a cheap skate so can you sign my name and put some lippy on and kiss the card for me Mr foot "

naw. ye can kiss it yersel lol .. im enough o a weird guy without runnin boot in lipstick kissing hings going this is fae miss figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"urgh put me down for £1 and 5p for the bag to put the card in. damn 5p bags. ooh how I grudge that 5p. I am a cheap skate so can you sign my name and put some lippy on and kiss the card for me Mr foot

naw. ye can kiss it yersel lol .. im enough o a weird guy without runnin boot in lipstick kissing hings going this is fae miss figure "
hay, haud the bus I only wanted it on you to kiss the card not to be stoating about the town with it

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By *ootlover456Man
over a year ago

Paisley


"urgh put me down for £1 and 5p for the bag to put the card in. damn 5p bags. ooh how I grudge that 5p. I am a cheap skate so can you sign my name and put some lippy on and kiss the card for me Mr foot

naw. ye can kiss it yersel lol .. im enough o a weird guy without runnin boot in lipstick kissing hings going this is fae miss figure hay, haud the bus I only wanted it on you to kiss the card not to be stoating about the town with it "

aye but if im daeing one thing I migt as well dae the rest saves me putting mair oan later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"urgh put me down for £1 and 5p for the bag to put the card in. damn 5p bags. ooh how I grudge that 5p. I am a cheap skate so can you sign my name and put some lippy on and kiss the card for me Mr foot

naw. ye can kiss it yersel lol .. im enough o a weird guy without runnin boot in lipstick kissing hings going this is fae miss figure hay, haud the bus I only wanted it on you to kiss the card not to be stoating about the town with it

aye but if im daeing one thing I migt as well dae the rest saves me putting mair oan later"
so in other word's you secretly loves it. that to match your cat suit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like most of you got past the first two lines, good on you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that was interesting. So my feelings about my experiences on fab over the time I have been a member.if anyone is interested. I will try keep it short. and in no way is a full description.

I have had lovely open minded chat with a few girls. Pretty kinky at times. And very open at times. More often than not I feel like I'm trying to make conversation. Maybe this is just not for me I rarely feel like I'm trying when at a party or some face to face social situation.

I feel fab has a pretty uneven gender balance which in some cases can bring out an unhealthy side to males normal judgment on who they want to meet.

I also feel that a small and I mean very small amount of girls I have spoken to are affected by this. In a way I find impossible to explain.

Maybe someone else could explain if they are aware of what I see.

So swinging yes I like it. But fab was definitely not made for guys like me. Or maybe I never really worked out how to embrace it. I know its great for loads of you.

So where from her I'm not sure I think it would be in my best interest to avoid on line swinging until I can see past the smoke.

One thing I think may be a major disadvantage for me is.

When I'm or someone is trying to strike up a wee chat. I cant see there facial expressions hand movement's and body language.

So I think it's been an amazing lesson for me to realize I love real interaction face to face all the lovely wee mannerisms people make. Not saying I didn't know I loved them already. But realising I don't get that on line.

A realisation I'm glad I had. The web ain't for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that was interesting. So my feelings about my experiences on fab over the time I have been a member.if anyone is interested. I will try keep it short. and in no way is a full description.

I have had lovely open minded chat with a few girls. Pretty kinky at times. And very open at times. More often than not I feel like I'm trying to make conversation. Maybe this is just not for me I rarely feel like I'm trying when at a party or some face to face social situation.

I feel fab has a pretty uneven gender balance which in some cases can bring out an unhealthy side to males normal judgment on who they want to meet.

I also feel that a small and I mean very small amount of girls I have spoken to are affected by this. In a way I find impossible to explain.

Maybe someone else could explain if they are aware of what I see.

So swinging yes I like it. But fab was definitely not made for guys like me. Or maybe I never really worked out how to embrace it. I know its great for loads of you.

So where from her I'm not sure I think it would be in my best interest to avoid on line swinging until I can see past the smoke.

One thing I think may be a major disadvantage for me is.

When I'm or someone is trying to strike up a wee chat. I cant see there facial expressions hand movement's and body language.

So I think it's been an amazing lesson for me to realize I love real interaction face to face all the lovely wee mannerisms people make. Not saying I didn't know I loved them already. But realising I don't get that on line.

A realisation I'm glad I had. The web ain't for me "
pitty you didn't attend social meetings etc plenty for facial expression mannerisms to be read. Take it easy chief happy non 'swinging'

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By *yrshiremischiefMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

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By *ootlover456Man
over a year ago

Paisley

she is right if you attended the social gatherings it may be better / more comfortable for you .might be better to try that before leaving.

either way I wish you well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she is right if you attended the social gatherings it may be better / more comfortable for you .might be better to try that before leaving.

either way I wish you well. "
Ahem! What am I the cat's mother! She has a handle to her jugs. back in the cage foot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(this site is for people who can't pull in a pub) ? What the fk did you say. I think you should maybe think that out. I don't mind the harsh comments going my way.after all I did say so in my post. But that's kinda directed at every member and definitely not true. Bad chat fab fem was clearly being sarcastic , she would have zero problem's pulling in a convent nevermind anywhere else. "

Figure 8 and Footlover are right I was being sarcastic. It wasn't actually hard to realise that but if you struggle with online chat then I guess you wouldn't have realised. Thanks for the compliment, embarrassed much

I don't see the point in this thread. You asked for women's opinions and brutal honesty.

So what now it feels a bit like and awkward silence and embarrasing stale mate because your Still here. What are we going to do with your whip round? Do you want footlover to donate it to the poor single guys of fab.

Well anyway if your staying I guess we had all better start getting along...............................how's the weather up your way? Raining here

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

So he's still here?

OP, if you're genuine and sincere, hopefully you've learned something about yourself, life in general, women, and Fab. Although I see your profile text is still as it was, so that doesn't bode well. I took one look at it and decided not to bother, a mass of words and not a single paragraph break, and not much punctuation either!

On the other hand, if asking for help and advice was really just you having a moan about having been here for 6 weeks and not yet had a meet, well hopefully you've learned that in general, Fab women don't have much time for whingers and moaners. It's not a particularly attractive quality.

You say you've been here before, so if you go, we'll no doubt see you again. Admin really must get that swing door sorted!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bet is he's already back with another profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He got the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My bet is he's already back with another profile."

Mine too. I'm hanging on to his goodbye card for next time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww I feel bad now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww I feel bad now "

Don't tell fibs

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