FabSwingers.com forum: Do you consider sleeping over with someone part of swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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First off would you , do you or have you slept (ie went to sleep) overnight with someone , whilst on a meet through fab ?

Have you planned it to be that way or has it just happened that way? Or won't you do it at all .

What's your thoughts ? Positives and negatives regarding this

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Pinched this from the lounge

First off would you , do you or have you slept (ie went to sleep) overnight with someone , whilst on a meet through fab ?

Have you planned it to be that way or has it just happened that way? Or won't you do it at all .

What's your thoughts ? Positives and negatives regarding this

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I prefer overnight meets to just shag and go meets but it always depends on the circumstances of the meet and I dont mind either to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never done it but I will be at the Xmas social will get back to you if he's still alive or the other way about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both have as singles back in the day, but we haven't with a couple. We will be at Christmas social though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pinched this from the lounge

First off would you , do you or have you slept (ie went to sleep) overnight with someone , whilst on a meet through fab ?

Have you planned it to be that way or has it just happened that way? Or won't you do it at all .

What's your thoughts ? Positives and negatives regarding this

I prefer overnight meets to just shag and go meets but it always depends on the circumstances of the meet and I dont mind either to be honest

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so what's the plus's of overnights then to you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope never done it but I will be at the Xmas social will get back to you if he's still alive or the other way about

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haha we can bring up this thread in a few weeks then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope never done it but I will be at the Xmas social will get back to you if he's still alive or the other way about

haha we can bring up this thread in a few weeks then lol "

Lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Pinched this from the lounge

First off would you , do you or have you slept (ie went to sleep) overnight with someone , whilst on a meet through fab ?

Have you planned it to be that way or has it just happened that way? Or won't you do it at all .

What's your thoughts ? Positives and negatives regarding this

I prefer overnight meets to just shag and go meets but it always depends on the circumstances of the meet and I dont mind either to be honest

so what's the plus's of overnights then to you ? "
well the plus side is you can relax knowing your not having to get up and head home late at night after the meet especially if its cod outside (nice to just snuggle in ).

Also the bonus is a nice alarm call in the morning lol

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

I did in my early days on fab! The downside was the lady in question started to think we were "going steady" after that!

Ended up having to change my phone number!

Was always a bit more cautious after that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did in my early days on fab! The downside was the lady in question started to think we were "going steady" after that!

Ended up having to change my phone number!

Was always a bit more cautious after that!"

That's my reasons I've never done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did in my early days on fab! The downside was the lady in question started to think we were "going steady" after that!

Ended up having to change my phone number!

Was always a bit more cautious after that!

That's my reasons I've never done it

Yep, have done overnight and morning, although the guy was the one asking to go steady

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pinched this from the lounge

First off would you , do you or have you slept (ie went to sleep) overnight with someone , whilst on a meet through fab ?

Have you planned it to be that way or has it just happened that way? Or won't you do it at all .

What's your thoughts ? Positives and negatives regarding this

I prefer overnight meets to just shag and go meets but it always depends on the circumstances of the meet and I dont mind either to be honest

so what's the plus's of overnights then to you ? well the plus side is you can relax knowing your not having to get up and head home late at night after the meet especially if its cod outside (nice to just snuggle in ).

Also the bonus is a nice alarm call in the morning lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I did in my early days on fab! The downside was the lady in question started to think we were "going steady" after that!

Ended up having to change my phone number!

Was always a bit more cautious after that!

That's my reasons I've never done it

"
Just set the boundries str8 from the start

All of my meets know what im looking for and if I feel anyone thinks its anything more then they are reminded over and over again sometimes that its fun nothing more nothing less but doesnt mean im looking for cold meaningless sex hence I do prefer stay over meets lol xx

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

When you say gone to sleep....is that during, before or after the ;0)

Think if you have met up had something to eat/drink and then chatted for hours and then nature takes its course and you both fell asleep then I would say thats probably been a good meet for making someone feel at ease with you and a good chance of another. If the other party has fallen asleep while you have been chatting then that might be totally different, think that might be a sign your boring her/him and its time to leave. If its during then thats a definite sign you should just get your coat and leave.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Done the odd overnighter, but then I've met some odd women!!

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

"I did in my early days on fab! The downside was the lady in question started to think we were "going steady" after that!

Ended up having to change my phone number!

Was always a bit more cautious after that!

That's my reasons I've never done it

Just set the boundries str8 from the start

I kind of thought I had set the boundaries but obviously not clearly enough on that occasion!

In fairness it would be hard not to fall in love with me! She was only human

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Not for us but maybe thats so the other person sharing the bed doesnt hear us farting or snoring

Obviously stayed over at others houses but retire to their spare bed together for sleep

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I did in my early days on fab! The downside was the lady in question started to think we were "going steady" after that!

Ended up having to change my phone number!

Was always a bit more cautious after that!

That's my reasons I've never done it

Just set the boundries str8 from the start

I kind of thought I had set the boundaries but obviously not clearly enough on that occasion!

In fairness it would be hard not to fall in love with me! She was only human

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God if you were chocolate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why it wouldn't be swinging if your having sex.

I wouldn't sleep over with someone but that's just our choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer a sleepover. In stead of shag n go. However making sure it sticks to nsa. Morning fun as well. Could be a bit to much for a first meet mabe ???

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

no, never again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you say gone to sleep....is that during, before or after the ;0)

Oh there's always one lol

So having had sex either before after or in between???

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

"I did in my early days on fab! The downside was the lady in question started to think we were "going steady" after that!

Ended up having to change my phone number!

Was always a bit more cautious after that!

That's my reasons I've never done it

Just set the boundries str8 from the start

I kind of thought I had set the boundaries but obviously not clearly enough on that occasion!

In fairness it would be hard not to fall in love with me! She was only human

God if you were chocolate lol

Lol

I really am quite shy! Honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Done the odd overnighter, but then I've met some odd women!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't see why it wouldn't be swinging if your having sex.

I wouldn't sleep over with someone but that's just our choice "

was just wondering if people think it should be kept for partners only, not swinging

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I did in my early days on fab! The downside was the lady in question started to think we were "going steady" after that!

Ended up having to change my phone number!

Was always a bit more cautious after that!

That's my reasons I've never done it

Just set the boundries str8 from the start

I kind of thought I had set the boundaries but obviously not clearly enough on that occasion!

In fairness it would be hard not to fall in love with me! She was only human

God if you were chocolate lol

Lol

I really am quite shy! Honest

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ohhh it shows lol

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By *un be happyCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Pinched this from the lounge

First off would you , do you or have you slept (ie went to sleep) overnight with someone , whilst on a meet through fab ?

Have you planned it to be that way or has it just happened that way? Or won't you do it at all . well shelley you can sleep over anytime . xx

What's your thoughts ? Positives and negatives regarding this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done the odd overnighter, but then I've met some odd women!!

There's always an exception though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always do (single or together) as we don't accommodate... Also, how else could you have a morning fuck?! I'm definitely a pawing at 5am kinda gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past yes, I've done the sleepover thing with certain guys, not anymore though, I like to go home to my own bed, alone.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Done the odd overnighter, but then I've met some odd women!!

There's always an exception though...

Ehhh.......thinking. Btw, do I know you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done the odd overnighter, but then I've met some odd women!!

There's always an exception though...

Ehhh.......thinking. Btw, do I know you?

It's Jinty...but you usually call me dopey!!!

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I prefer overnight. Drinks a laugh. Loads of sex and the best bit is the morning glory!!! has to be the best hard on of the day! lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer overnight. Drinks a laugh. Loads of sex and the best bit is the morning glory!!! has to be the best hard on of the day! lol x"

I couldn't agree more!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Done the odd overnighter, but then I've met some odd women!!

There's always an exception though...

Ehhh.......thinking. Btw, do I know you?

It's Jinty...but you usually call me dopey!!!

I know a Dosey, is that you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done the odd overnighter, but then I've met some odd women!!

There's always an exception though...

Ehhh.......thinking. Btw, do I know you?

It's Jinty...but you usually call me dopey!!!

I know a Dosey, is that you?

Dopey, Dosey.....that'll be me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a sleep over its been years since I was woken up by some strong arms pulling me in close. And it wouldn't meant I was falling in love with them. However not having that doesn't make it seem clinical or cold with the right person x

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Done the odd overnighter, but then I've met some odd women!!

There's always an exception though...

Ehhh.......thinking. Btw, do I know you?

It's Jinty...but you usually call me dopey!!!

I know a Dosey, is that you?

Dopey, Dosey.....that'll be me!

Aahh......with you now, wee pet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done the odd overnighter, but then I've met some odd women!!

There's always an exception though...

Ehhh.......thinking. Btw, do I know you?

It's Jinty...but you usually call me dopey!!!

I know a Dosey, is that you?

Dopey, Dosey.....that'll be me!

Aahh......with you now, wee pet!!

And I'm a good sleepover....aren't I? (Answer carefully)

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By *lba couple1Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

As a couple usually meeting couples overnight is good , as a couple maybe meeting a single guy, not sure how it would go. Xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have stayed at mine overnight but it's not ideal as I've got a flatmate that asks questions.

She doesn't seem to ask as many questions when it's a female though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see why it wouldn't be swinging if your having sex.

I wouldn't sleep over with someone but that's just our choice

was just wondering if people think it should be kept for partners only, not swinging

For us it's quite an intimate thing. Snoring, farting, morning breath. We prefer to keep those things to ourselves.

I don't think sleeping in the same bed makes any difference to whether your swinging or not. To me the definition of swinging is swapping partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with fab fem

I'd never ever stay over at someone's house especially a single guys

I'm married the only guy that sees me in my morning mess is my husband

We have stayed over as a cpl with another cpl but that was a gorgeous loch side lodge but hair brushed make up on before I stepped outside the bedroom door in the morning lol

Auds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's another reason I don't do over night my hair is like a burst couch in the morning no make up either

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"That's another reason I don't do over night my hair is like a burst couch in the morning no make up either

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Lmao all my overnights have seen me glammed up for meets then the just shagged look in the morning ..all have asked for repeats so cant be that bad lol xx

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate

I love overnight stays xx lots of fun at night and again in the morning xx

I think overnight meets with the right person is amazing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer overnight if I'm honest, can't beat a good snuggle/spooning session! It's just finding a woman who is keen! haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer an overnighter

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Done the odd overnighter, but then I've met some odd women!!

There's always an exception though...

Ehhh.......thinking. Btw, do I know you?

It's Jinty...but you usually call me dopey!!!

I know a Dosey, is that you?

Dopey, Dosey.....that'll be me!

Aahh......with you now, wee pet!!

And I'm a good sleepover....aren't I? (Answer carefully)

Well you can certainly sleep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It the intimacy of sleeping and cuddling in with someone that means I wouldn't allow someone to stay over. If someone moves up from sex pal to friends with benefits then it has happened then but only cos we are both comfortable with each other before during and after sex to be able to to relax and enjoy our non sexual connection x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy my overnight's with a long-term fb. Always time to relax, have a laugh & good sex plus fun in the morning again

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Yes many times really dont see any problem with it ...also nice way to start the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having done both I prefer staying overnight but it definitely depends on the person and how comfortable you are with them, plus I love cuddles and morning sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll, we once had a meet for fun with a female who ended up having a sleepover, the fact we had to put her to bed (!!!) Mid fun (ahem) but she's been back since and will always be welcomed!!!

Besides Mr does make the best breakfasts!!!!

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