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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, looking for a bit of advice on how to initiate things.

Does anyone pay attention to winks? If not what's the point in them and what they for?

Or

Is a message the way to go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We normally just wink and if they wink back we message....

Geek

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

If someone winks il check out their profile if I like what i see il wink back in the hope they message me.

If I see a profile I like il wink them if they wink back il message them if not il take it as a no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm prone to a bit of winking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send a message I just think it's more personal. I am happy enough to receive winks and generally respond back with a message to acknowledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't checked my winks in a very long time and if I'm interested in someone I will just message them.

But on my couples profile things are different so I would wink first and if they wink back I would send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see someone I like I will wink, if I receive one back then it's too rude not to send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use winks to visibly show that I perved your profile, rather than just lurk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We normally just wink and if they wink back we message....

Geek "

Yeah we are the same x

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Pretty rare for us to send a wink. It's almost always a message (when we get around to it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really wink

Or message lol

Always reply to both tho

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We normally just wink and if they wink back we message....

Geek "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So use both is that the common consensus?

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By *ouise and jamieCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"If someone winks il check out their profile if I like what i see il wink back in the hope they message me.

If I see a profile I like il wink them if they wink back il message them if not il take it as a no thanks. "

we do the same

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By *oom For 1 MoreMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"So, looking for a bit of advice on how to initiate things.

Does anyone pay attention to winks? If not what's the point in them and what they for?

Or

Is a message the way to go?"
Send an original message that catches the attention of the person you wanna chat with. It blows winks clean out the water everytime

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