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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi what's everyone's experience of inviting people to your house for fun that you have never met???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one bad experience, with s guy on here. But since then any one I've met has been decent and respectful. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a bit of time to get to know someone via messaging and phone conversations before inviting anyone to my house. I've yet to have a bad experience and anyone that's ever been here would be welcome back any time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it loads with our socials, it's ok to do until someone breaks your trust, then you want to snap them in two

Geek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always had can't accommodate as I've always seen my home as my haven. In 3 years I've had 4 guys at my house . But it's not been just a one off meet . I need to trust people a lot to want then to be in my home

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ideally get a reference from someone you both know, failing which, as has been said, talk (voice talk) to them in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi what's everyone's experience of inviting people to your house for fun that you have never met???"

what experience have you ha xx

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Never had a problem.... Well except for with my mad mutt

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By *anjoPaterson1971Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think for single females this would be a major consideration given the safety implications. I live in a shared house with seriously nosey flatmates so NEVER accommodate. Be kinda hard explaining a MF couple coming out your room after a night of shagging noise to the flatmates lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problems so far,fingers crossed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had a problem.... Well except for with my mad mutt "
nearly as mad as its owner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had plenty of people coming over for parties and the only issues I have had over the year was one woman bringing two men who weren't invited and weren't on the scene and very quickly shown the door! Everyone else has been respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not our favourite but if needs must

So far never had a problem

X

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I like to keep my home life separate so I don't accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to keep my home life separate so I don't accommodate "

I agree there. I like to keep it separate. It's good having everyday people thinking your all respectable and innocent and the select few knowing how much of a dirty rascal I am

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By *rjandmrskCouple
over a year ago

West Dunbartonshire

we so far had great times when invited people to our home cpls or single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do it. My home isn't just mine. My children live here too. I would never take the risk.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

We have in the past when we first started out.....nowadays and we don't unless we have met a few times.....

Also after a bit of a bad year and thing going tits up swinging wise where our privacy, rules etc etc were seriously breached I would certainly really think before trusting.....therefore very few people would be allowed into our home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have never really had any problem and everyone has respected our requirements of discretion although we don't just invite anyone along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great fun thus far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had an issues. however living in a flat. sometimes wonder if the neighbours think anything ??? ie she gets through a lot of bf. LOL

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I used to a lot....... never again

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Have invited people to our hotel room but never our home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got more action when I was living in my dads lol..but I don't have much free time anyway through the week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a single guy no problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't do it. My home isn't just mine. My children live here too. I would never take the risk. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done in the past will never do it again would need to be really good friends to come to my home now

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