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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this only for relationships or do you do this with play mates too?

Sometimes I get the impression that it's not in keeping with the "fab"concept

Personally I love it and need it to an extent. Otherwise sex is cold and clinical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dilemma I have also like sniffing and cuddles but at odds with nsa some have told me

Shame I feel makes it so much better

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I love cuddling in and talking after sex, especially with my favourite man. It always leads to round two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The dilemma I have also like sniffing and cuddles but at odds with nsa some have told me

Shame I feel makes it so much better"

Snogging even NOT sniffing damn predictive text turned me into a freak lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there would need to be a bond or good connection , it would feel awkward and fake

But if its round two her after ding ding

A good spooning leads to a right good forking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hate to just cold clinical sex .I never used to do overnight meets but I have to admit now I'm quite partial to a snuggle up and spooning session after great sex , usually leads to more of the same afterwards and then perhaps in the morning again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd hate to just cold clinical sex .I never used to do overnight meets but I have to admit now I'm quite partial to a snuggle up and spooning session after great sex , usually leads to more of the same afterwards and then perhaps in the morning again "

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate


"I'd hate to just cold clinical sex .I never used to do overnight meets but I have to admit now I'm quite partial to a snuggle up and spooning session after great sex , usually leads to more of the same afterwards and then perhaps in the morning again "

Totally agree Shelley.

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate


"For me there would need to be a bond or good connection , it would feel awkward and fake

But if its round two her after ding ding

A good spooning leads to a right good forking "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me you cant beat a little spooning after sex and cuddles.. And always leads to more fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd hate to just cold clinical sex .I never used to do overnight meets but I have to admit now I'm quite partial to a snuggle up and spooning session after great sex , usually leads to more of the same afterwards and then perhaps in the morning again "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We keep this to us. As we only meet couples it's that way only.

We met on fab so we did a fair bit of snuggling and spooning in our NSA. That's how we are a couple now! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In no way is spooning, cuddling and chatting a bad thing, its great or are we only supposed to chat at socials, how else do we make a connection.

I recall a meet where we both ended up so relaxed we damn near fell asleep at lunchtime, brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spooning is brilliant!!! Depending on the meet, it can add so much more. Sex without a hint of intimacy?... might as well just wank.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm with you there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat and giggles yip spooning is for just my hubby

Auds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd hate to just cold clinical sex .I never used to do overnight meets but I have to admit now I'm quite partial to a snuggle up and spooning session after great sex , usually leads to more of the same afterwards and then perhaps in the morning again "

This

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there


"For me you cant beat a little spooning after sex and cuddles.. And always leads to more fun.. "

*post reported for being Damn right*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love cuddles, spooning and chat n giggles before during and after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it!

Won't say who but we fell asleep spooning for hours afterwards and his arm was graced with my drool

Can't say I'd enjoy the clinical sex now but maybe it's age related lol

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Looking forward to some pillow talk, and spooning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking forward to some pillow talk, and spooning. "

I love that too...but some people start their "nonsense" when they get into bed!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with a cuddle/ spoon after even for nsa in my opinion!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Looking forward to some pillow talk, and spooning.

I love that too...but some people start their "nonsense" when they get into bed!!!! "

Now would that be good 'nonsense', or bad Miss McG?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking forward to some pillow talk, and spooning.

I love that too...but some people start their "nonsense" when they get into bed!!!!

Now would that be good 'nonsense', or bad Miss McG? "

All my "nonsense" is good!!!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Looking forward to some pillow talk, and spooning.

I love that too...but some people start their "nonsense" when they get into bed!!!!

Now would that be good 'nonsense', or bad Miss McG?

All my "nonsense" is good!!! "

Oh well, happy days then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its the right kinda girl and its been a great night then a bit of nice cuddles and a spoon is amazing. Cant be just anyone though,but then again I dont meet just anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the time I need a spooning partner so I can get back to sleep!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is the time I need a spooning partner so I can get back to sleep!

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I feel your pain x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could be doing with this just now, someone snuggling in and putting their warm hand on the side of my face to try and alleviate the pain. :0(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far it seems its single thing to spoon after nsa sèx

couldnt imagine snuggling up to anyone othèr than my husband but its far from clinical when I/we meet others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So far it seems its single thing to spoon after nsa sèx

couldnt imagine snuggling up to anyone othèr than my husband but its far from clinical when I/we meet others "

I think if I was playing as a couple I'd feel like that too.

I couldn't imagine feeling anything but a bit used if it was just cold and clinical an act. X

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

I agree with the three of you being a fine balance - my only two threesome experiences though were very far from cold, lots of kisses and cuddles. Ne we were making a point I think of treating her like a queen...and that meant lots of spoons, cuddles and touching post physical activity...

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