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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People by how many meets they have had on here? It's a swinging site it's why we joined yet I've seen on profiles so many times if you've shagged half the site don't contact me

Surely everyone is practising safe sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should it matter, 1 person or 1000

You're either attracted enough to meet or not, what difference does it make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would like to think so.

It's all down to personal preference. Some people like frequent and varied meets, some like to have regular playmates.

I (mr) don't think any worse of users who have had a good few meets. Just show's the site has been successful fur them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's all a bit odd judging folk.

Maybe guys look at girls with say 100 veris on their list think 'she's a bit easy I'll have her' or maybe they think 'she's too easy I want nothing to do with that' even though it could be 20 sex meets and the rest social ones. Or girls judging guys like that.

It is a swinging site, we are all here for one thing, but maybe some just don't like to know how many have been before them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's all a bit odd judging folk.

Maybe guys look at girls with say 100 veris on their list think 'she's a bit easy I'll have her' or maybe they think 'she's too easy I want nothing to do with that' even though it could be 20 sex meets and the rest social ones. Or girls judging guys like that.

It is a swinging site, we are all here for one thing, but maybe some just don't like to know how many have been before them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes just looking at the number of verifications is misleading. Most of ours are from social meets. Some play meets but lots of social ones too.

I think it sounds quite funny saying your on a sex site but you don't want to meet people who have lots of sex.

Each to their own though, there's no set rules.

Dx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally got abuse because I showed to many verifications ?? If your practicing safe sex don't see what it matters ?? However for some reason some men think your a total slag for it.yet post about can't get meets. Eh confused.com ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally got abuse because I showed to many verifications ?? If your practicing safe sex don't see what it matters ?? However for some reason some men think your a total slag for it.yet post about can't get meets. Eh confused.com ???"

Yip woman also do it too men also.

but I know what you mean I only show mostly social meets now

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More put off sometimes by who someone has met rather than how many.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Ive Met 5 different people in a two year period yet im still classed as a slapper by couple of small minded people really makes me laugh lol ...should really don my slutty ruby red lipstick huh and live up to my name lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive Met 5 different people in a two year period yet im still classed as a slapper by couple of small minded people really makes me laugh lol ...should really don my slutty ruby red lipstick huh and live up to my name lol "

Oh I have never tried the ruby red one I always go for brown's also on my eyes

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Ive Met 5 different people in a two year period yet im still classed as a slapper by couple of small minded people really makes me laugh lol ...should really don my slutty ruby red lipstick huh and live up to my name lol

Oh I have never tried the ruby red one I always go for brown's also on my eyes "
Gotta be rubyred if you want to look slutty tho lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive Met 5 different people in a two year period yet im still classed as a slapper by couple of small minded people really makes me laugh lol ...should really don my slutty ruby red lipstick huh and live up to my name lol

Oh I have never tried the ruby red one I always go for brown's also on my eyes Gotta be rubyred if you want to look slutty tho lol "

Right I'm going a tour of the shops looking for it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Ive Met 5 different people in a two year period yet im still classed as a slapper by couple of small minded people really makes me laugh lol ...should really don my slutty ruby red lipstick huh and live up to my name lol

Oh I have never tried the ruby red one I always go for brown's also on my eyes Gotta be rubyred if you want to look slutty tho lol

Right I'm going a tour of the shops looking for it "
Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone said earlier

I'm more put off if they have met certain people or if they have attended a gangbang

Maybe if it's been a few in a day but all in all I'd say no wouldn't be out if by a lot of veris?

Auds

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


" It's a swinging site it's why we joined yet I've seen on profiles so many times if you've shagged half the site don't contact me "

Always makes me smile, and in my humble opinion, it says more about them than anything else. In particular that in trying to be smart/clever, they're actually showing how stupid they actually are. After all, somebody could have 100 veris but be showing only 5, so that makes them better than the person showing 20? Eejits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get over it , we like to fuck have and fun, fab is no place for up yer own arsey or snobbish arrogant behaviour .

Good topic !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get over it , we like to fuck have and fun, fab is no place for up yer own arsey or snobbish arrogant behaviour .

Good topic !!"

With allusions of grandure and sex god status I may add

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Everyone judges its actually strange that some try to pretend they dont

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Get over it , we like to fuck have and fun, fab is no place for up yer own arsey or snobbish arrogant behaviour .

Good topic !!"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


" It's a swinging site it's why we joined yet I've seen on profiles so many times if you've shagged half the site don't contact me

Always makes me smile, and in my humble opinion, it says more about them than anything else. In particular that in trying to be smart/clever, they're actually showing how stupid they actually are. After all, somebody could have 100 veris but be showing only 5, so that makes them better than the person showing 20? Eejits!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fecking eidjits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 1 or 2 people if someone had met them it might make me feel hmm but I'd more than likely try to make me own decision by meeting them socially first and then decide .

I've got lots of verification but mostly social. Maybe if they met a few people in a day then I might think it's not for me . But people want to have gang bangs and fulfill their fantasies that's their preferences doesn't make them easy or slutty because of it xx

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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago

The Kingdom


"Get over it , we like to fuck have and fun, fab is no place for up yer own arsey or snobbish arrogant behaviour .

Good topic !!"

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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago

The Kingdom


" It's a swinging site it's why we joined yet I've seen on profiles so many times if you've shagged half the site don't contact me

Always makes me smile, and in my humble opinion, it says more about them than anything else. In particular that in trying to be smart/clever, they're actually showing how stupid they actually are. After all, somebody could have 100 veris but be showing only 5, so that makes them better than the person showing 20? Eejits!"

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Yes, I make judgements about people in everyday life, swinging is no different.

I will determine by their words, written or oral, their behaviours and how they conduct themselves as to whether they are for me or not.

Equally, I am happy to be judged. It's cool.

Hypocrisy, more than who people shag, is a main driver in my judgements within the swinging world.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Yes, I make judgements about people in everyday life, swinging is no different.

I will determine by their words, written or oral, their behaviours and how they conduct themselves as to whether they are for me or not.

Equally, I am happy to be judged. It's cool.

Hypocrisy, more than who people shag, is a main driver in my judgements within the swinging world."

I agree. After all we are all different and want different things from life and from Fab. When it comes to that though, I just move on and don't comment.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Get over it , we like to fuck have and fun, fab is no place for up yer own arsey or snobbish arrogant behaviour .

Good topic !!

With allusions of grandure and sex god status I may add "

Funny that. I was accused of being delusional; needed a reality check and having had one too many, all because of my profile name. Oh and my age came into it as well cos I'm nearly a pensioner apparently. You can't be a sex goddess at 54 allegedly! Anyone seen my coffin??? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get over it , we like to fuck have and fun, fab is no place for up yer own arsey or snobbish arrogant behaviour .

Good topic !!

With allusions of grandure and sex god status I may add

Funny that. I was accused of being delusional; needed a reality check and having had one too many, all because of my profile name. Oh and my age came into it as well cos I'm nearly a pensioner apparently. You can't be a sex goddess at 54 allegedly! Anyone seen my coffin??? Lol"
lol pish I've been with young women & older women & I choose older women they know how to do everything & are better at it, I'm yet to meet a woman under 40 who can actually suck a cock properly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone judges its actually strange that some try to pretend they dont "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get over it , we like to fuck have and fun, fab is no place for up yer own arsey or snobbish arrogant behaviour .

Good topic !!

With allusions of grandure and sex god status I may add

Funny that. I was accused of being delusional; needed a reality check and having had one too many, all because of my profile name. Oh and my age came into it as well cos I'm nearly a pensioner apparently. You can't be a sex goddess at 54 allegedly! Anyone seen my coffin??? Lol"

Your coffins over here, im lying in it waiting for you woman, where the hell are you

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow


"Yes, I make judgements about people in everyday life, swinging is no different.

I will determine by their words, written or oral, their behaviours and how they conduct themselves as to whether they are for me or not.

Equally, I am happy to be judged. It's cool.

Hypocrisy, more than who people shag, is a main driver in my judgements within the swinging world."

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By *i_garyMan
over a year ago

glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone judges its actually strange that some try to pretend they dont

Well said "

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I've gotta admit we don't tend to meet people who have lots of different meets. It's basically a compatibility & preference issue where we prefer to meet people like ourselves who only dabble occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone judges its actually strange that some try to pretend they dont

Well said

"

Agreed we all judge and are judged, but specifically on number of verifications is the question

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Get over it , we like to fuck have and fun, fab is no place for up yer own arsey or snobbish arrogant behaviour .

Good topic !!

With allusions of grandure and sex god status I may add

Funny that. I was accused of being delusional; needed a reality check and having had one too many, all because of my profile name. Oh and my age came into it as well cos I'm nearly a pensioner apparently. You can't be a sex goddess at 54 allegedly! Anyone seen my coffin??? Lol

Your coffins over here, im lying in it waiting for you woman, where the hell are you "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've gotta admit we don't tend to meet people who have lots of different meets. It's basically a compatibility & preference issue where we prefer to meet people like ourselves who only dabble occasionally."

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