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By *imbo57 OP   Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

Had a meet set up for last night male was gonna text me address at 3 pm sent 6 messages from about 4 pm and 3 fab messages to the lady . she sid meet was still on nothing at all from the male even yet the lady sends me a message meet you for coffee today then with in 38 mins of sending message she has left the site Sayin it was due to time wasters

Its no easy for single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang in there, all good things come to those who wait

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

It's not easy for single fems either,I got stood up on Sunday no explanation or apology from the guy.

But hey word of mouth does go a long way on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip I agree

Word of mouth goes along way

Hang in there a lot of time wasters on here it's sifting thru the crap to find the genuine

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel very lucky - never had my time wasted

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

This was only my 2nd time in all my years swinging so thankfully it's not a regular occurance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a while since I've experienced that sickening feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

John Lennon once said that there's no such thing as a waste of time.

He wasnt a fabber.

From my point of view, sometimes its a woman's prerogative to change her mind, but, yeah, timewasters suck, bigtime.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"John Lennon once said that there's no such thing as a waste of time.

He wasnt a fabber.

From my point of view, sometimes its a woman's prerogative to change her mind, but, yeah, timewasters suck, bigtime."
changing your mind and letting the person know and standing someone up who's took the time to get organised to meet you then they don't show up with no explanation or apology is unacceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"John Lennon once said that there's no such thing as a waste of time.

He wasnt a fabber.

From my point of view, sometimes its a woman's prerogative to change her mind, but, yeah, timewasters suck, bigtime.changing your mind and letting the person know and standing someone up who's took the time to get organised to meet you then they don't show up with no explanation or apology is unacceptable. "

I totally agree.

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By *appypleasuresMan
over a year ago

nr edinburgh

one step worse is the individual who provided the wrong address. i suspect the person lived nearby and watched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one step worse is the individual who provided the wrong address. i suspect the person lived nearby and watched."
thats shocking!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Only been stood-up once, and it was the one time I hadn't exchanged mobile numbers. Lesson learned.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Had a meet set up for last night male was gonna text me address at 3 pm sent 6 messages from about 4 pm and 3 fab messages to the lady . she sid meet was still on nothing at all from the male even yet the lady sends me a message meet you for coffee today then with in 38 mins of sending message she has left the site Sayin it was due to time wasters

Its no easy for single guys "
. Did you speak on the phone before arranging the meet . Unless I have spoken on the phone , I don't go . Anyone can send a text message and pretend to be anyone . With phone calls there has to be instant feedback and you can gauge what a person is like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had that a couple of times, one no show which was no big deal, we just had a few drinks & a night out anyway.

Other time we had booked the hotel & everything & met for a blether beforehand. I wouldn't mind if they'd said I've changed my mind or can't make it but hidden profiles & no shows on the day is a bit off.

It can give you a bit of a complex but think you just have to put it down to experience.

Dx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe on this site we will all at sometime find ourselves in this position but to call off and not inform the person is bad manners to call off last minute is ok for the right reason but to contact someone who then says i was just about to call or mail you is equally unacceptable

But for every timewaster on here there are 5 good ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been stood up or would stand someone up. Love the buzz of meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If what you say "time wasters suck"... they ain't time wasters in my book! lol

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By *iceguy 1966Man
over a year ago

in pa postcode

There are loads of nice genuine ladies on here, keep the faith and if you connect they will find you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree few nuptys too thou!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beleave me us ladys get stood up. There is no excuse for it. All it takes is a text a message. Nothing worse than a wasted day/ night. When you could have been doing something.

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By *j188Couple
over a year ago

aberdeenshire


"Yip I agree

Word of mouth goes along way

Hang in there a lot of time wasters on here it's sifting thru the crap to find the genuine

X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time wasters don't suck that's the real problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called a time wasters due to calling off at last minute due to my kids being unwell,

They have complicated illnesses shall I say but the guys that have branded me a time waster they obviously weren't worth meeting anyway

Lucky enough I have good reliable friends on here that do understand & their brain isn't tucked in their cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been called a time wasters due to calling off at last minute due to my kids being unwell,

They have complicated illnesses shall I say but the guys that have branded me a time waster they obviously weren't worth meeting anyway

Lucky enough I have good reliable friends on here that do understand & their brain isn't tucked in their cock "

Everyone has real lives and that should always come first, especially where children are concerned. I certainly wouldn't class someone as a time waster in the scenario you described.

It's more the no shows with no prior warning or follow up that I'd class as time wasting.

Dx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been called a time wasters due to calling off at last minute due to my kids being unwell,

They have complicated illnesses shall I say but the guys that have branded me a time waster they obviously weren't worth meeting anyway

Lucky enough I have good reliable friends on here that do understand & their brain isn't tucked in their cock

Everyone has real lives and that should always come first, especially where children are concerned. I certainly wouldn't class someone as a time waster in the scenario you described.

It's more the no shows with no prior warning or follow up that I'd class as time wasting.

Dx"

Same here x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I've been called a time wasters due to calling off at last minute due to my kids being unwell,

They have complicated illnesses shall I say but the guys that have branded me a time waster they obviously weren't worth meeting anyway

Lucky enough I have good reliable friends on here that do understand & their brain isn't tucked in their cock

Everyone has real lives and that should always come first, especially where children are concerned. I certainly wouldn't class someone as a time waster in the scenario you described.

It's more the no shows with no prior warning or follow up that I'd class as time wasting.

Dx"
I got told by someone a few weeks ago that I was a timewaster who never meets and he was going to make sure people on here got told I was a timewaster

What can you do but laugh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bothy calls me a timewaster all the time! Especially when I turn up.....

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