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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a thought about something,

Pregnant women and swinging what are your thoughts (and may I also mention the word "safe sex") to avoid heated debate is it frowned upon or fair enough?

This is to all orientation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal opinion is that it's up to that individual what choice they make. If they are happy to put safe measures in place to have fun then fair enough.

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Don't know why, but it just seems wrong.

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow


"Don't know why, but it just seems wrong.

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So is a pregnant woman only allowed to have sex with her partner or even no sex at all? Not exactly realistic i don't think. As said above if done in a safe manner then why not. It may not be for every woman or every guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just hope, hope, HOPE that no pregnant woman swallow whatever she does!!!!

That baby does eat what she eats. Very disturbing thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own! As long as the female is safe & enjoying then go for it.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Each to their own! As long as the female is safe & enjoying then go for it. "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

my opinion is the potential risk to the unborn baby is too much, they should put on hold meets with others until the safe arrival of the wee one. Enjoy each other sexually. As for the social part of swinging, still enjoy that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's good that this subject causes debate, means we all take the health, safety & care of all children (born or unborn ) seriously.

On the swinging note, can't see what harm a bit of light soft play would do.

Personally I didn't even eat peanuts or soft cheese when I was preggers as I'd heard there were risks never mind anything else lol.

But it's each persons choice, is it any riskier than smoking or drinking when pregnant??

Dx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my opinion is the potential risk to the unborn baby is too much, they should put on hold meets with others until the safe arrival of the wee one. Enjoy each other sexually. As for the social part of swinging, still enjoy that.

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This is how I feel about the subject.

Even using condoms there is still a risk involved. The child's health should come first over a social life.

Also people smoking and drinking (I'm not talking about a small glass of wine once a week) cause a health risk to the unborn child so I'm not sure why that was brought up. Everyone already knows it's not acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's up to personal choice as long as they play safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its with trusted friends and all safe and well, I'd see no problem with it.

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was pregnant i was still on site and also attended cjs. I used both for social reason same as i do now. However i dont see ant harm in playing with someone you know and trust if you are both aware and comfortable with the situation. so its very much a personal prefernce

Beauty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own! As long as the female is safe & enjoying then go for it. "

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

My thoughts are I think it's a very special and personal thing between a couple and I certainly wouldn't even consider swinging while pregnant.

But it's all down to personal choice at the end of the day but nine months isn't that long to put ur swinging life on hold to enjoy intimate and special times watching that tummy swell and getting excited at the impending arrival of your little one.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

For me its a no to many reasons and feelings to type oit

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Yes its up to the indervidual to decide, but it's not just themselves they are deciding for .As a parent you put your child before yourself all the time .That doesn't just start once they are born . By all means still enjoy swinging if that's what you both wish , but maybe soft play . Is forgoing full sex with playmates such a sacrifice? If God forbid a condom split for instance would you actually want that on your mind ? Why not use time to really explore other ways to enjoy sexy fun safely. Lots of caresses, kisses and verbally ect can be hugely erotic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a hard subject to approach with swinging

I had just split up with my husband when i was 12wks pregnant and hormones were raging! (Pregnancy does strange things to the body). I could have easily made meets or socials but decided against it. It's only 9mnths to enjoy your own body without putting your unborn child at risk. If anything happened during the pregnancy even if it wasn't swinging related, you'd never forgive yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as a bit of a neandethal, and from an old fashioned blokes perspective.....I dont think I would be able to concede to my partner swinging whilst pregnant. Obviously I would knock any personal activity on the head immediately too. I'm far more liberal now than I was a few years ago but Im still super protective of any kids Im responsible for wether thats would be an unborn baby, my 5y.o. son, ,20 y.o. goddaughter or just watching my friends kids. Id take bullets before anyone got near them.

Personally Id prefer she wait till after breast feeding is over ( if that was the choice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P.s......I don't actually have a relationship right now btw!.

Just speaking hypothetically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was pregnant when I first joined here though I didnt know for a long time. Had a few meets and all was fine. When I found out I didnt really play with others because I was too unwell mostly lol

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't do it but wouldn't judge anyone who wanted to.

For me, having a baby with someone creates a special bond and it just wouldn't feel right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was pregnant when I first joined here though I didnt know for a long time. Had a few meets and all was fine. When I found out I didnt really play with others because I was too unwell mostly lol

Lx"

I am fortunate that with my Three kids I found out around the 5 months stage I was pregnant so had none of the sickness or anything only thing that I felt was incredible horn

To be fair I was only with him wasn't swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my opinion is the potential risk to the unborn baby is too much, they should put on hold meets with others until the safe arrival of the wee one. Enjoy each other sexually. As for the social part of swinging, still enjoy that.

This is how I feel about the subject.

Even using condoms there is still a risk involved. The child's health should come first over a social life.

Also people smoking and drinking (I'm not talking about a small glass of wine once a week) cause a health risk to the unborn child so I'm not sure why that was brought up. Everyone already knows it's not acceptable. "

I brought it up to point out that just because you choose not to swing there are still other things that can harm the child. Just a comment nothing more.

Dx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know why, but it just seems wrong.

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Its not an illness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own really, all about choice.

I didn't know I was pregnant until I gave birth pretty much so I did a hell of a lot of things I shouldn't of and I beat myself up about it all the time, thankfully all turned out fine but if I knew I was I would have stopped meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr's point of _iew here.

We have had two kids together, before we became involved in swinging.

When A was pregnant, to me there was something about it that made her even sexier than normal to me. Particularly with our first A was very horny, right through the pregnancy.

Not going to lie, there is something in being pregnant that makes a woman look beautiful.

As for playing while pregnant? I think it's entirely up to the individual, like other aspects of swinging, what does it for one, might not for the next.

Personally, I wouldn't play with a pregnant woman in a swinging situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id never wanna play with any woman who knew she was pregnant - just not for me, id be worried something happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that my own situation was probably exceptional but after numerous miscarriages when I finally managed to achieve a successful pregnancy our joint decision was that all sexual activity ceased as the most important thing was our baby. We both felt the wait was worth it and we remained physically close and happy knowing that we were doing what was right for US.

It's a very emotional time.....and each to their own. It's a matter of personal choice. Everyone's situation is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own, if a woman's pregnant and wants to play, if there's no health risk go for it, if you don't want to play with a pregnant woman then don't....simples

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

It's a definite no for me. Even with condoms there's no such thing as safe sex so I wouldn't be taking any risk at such a special time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me feel sick to be honest.

The unborn baby doesnt figure into the equation.

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