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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

On the back of another post would you refuse to meet someone because of someone else they had met?If so what would be the reason for doing this?

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Yep anyone that had met my ex..... Just too weird

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Yes as I dont like certain folk and their outlooks and morals oh dear judgemental me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes as I dont like certain folk and their outlooks and morals oh dear judgemental me"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Yep anyone that had met my ex..... Just too weird "
is that the one tho cutie or would you meet others even if they had met people who you maybe don't get on with?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

No ...if im going to meet someone its because theres a connection with THAT person not with who theyve met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Refuse point blank to meet if they have met the person i know that puts everyone's health at risk by not playing safe.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"No ...if im going to meet someone its because theres a connection with THAT person not with who theyve met "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make up my own mind about people. There is so much going on in the background of fab, who's shagging who who's fallen out with who. I'm not interested so I decide for myself.

I can understand the well if they are friends the chances are I won't get on with them but that doesn't mean I wouldn't talk to them and see for myself

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"I make up my own mind about people. There is so much going on in the background of fab, who's shagging who who's fallen out with who. I'm not interested so I decide for myself.

I can understand the well if they are friends the chances are I won't get on with them but that doesn't mean I wouldn't talk to them and see for myself"

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Yep anyone that had met my ex..... Just too weird is that the one tho cutie or would you meet others even if they had met people who you maybe don't get on with? "

Yeah I have and probably would meet again folk that have met someone I don't particularly get on with , although I can't really think of anyone who I really dislike

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Oh but I have to add that's there have been occasions that I won't meet someone if they have "fab" dramas going on.... That I can live without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a connection with a person,we have met a few times at socials,

We want to play BUT he has been with someone and thinking about it makes me shudder,

So now I can't see it happening,

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Oh but I have to add that's there have been occasions that I won't meet someone if they have "fab" dramas going on.... That I can live without "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I make up my own mind about people. There is so much going on in the background of fab, who's shagging who who's fallen out with who. I'm not interested so I decide for myself.

I can understand the well if they are friends the chances are I won't get on with them but that doesn't mean I wouldn't talk to them and see for myself"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Refuse point blank to meet if they have met the person i know that puts everyone's health at risk by not playing safe."

this . 100% this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don't think it would stop me . If I met someone I get on with had a connection and wanted to have fun then I don't see me not meeting because they have met others . Let's be honest we have all met people we wish we hadn't huh

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"I make up my own mind about people. There is so much going on in the background of fab, who's shagging who who's fallen out with who. I'm not interested so I decide for myself.

I can understand the well if they are friends the chances are I won't get on with them but that doesn't mean I wouldn't talk to them and see for myself"

exactly this .... couldnt care less who likes who, who detests who blah blah blah its my opinion on people that counts not others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No don't think it would stop me . If I met someone I get on with had a connection and wanted to have fun then I don't see me not meeting because they have met others . Let's be honest we have all met people we wish we hadn't huh "

Totally spot on Shelley. Why judge others by others, we are all our own people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make my own mind up about someone so if they have met some one I don't get on with or chat to then it is none of my buisness. I don't judge them on meeting that person the same as I would not expect them to judge me if I had met some one they don't get on with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must just be me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Refuse point blank to meet if they have met the person i know that puts everyone's health at risk by not playing safe."

this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would and have done.

We value our health and have no intention of putting it at risk playing with 'single' folk - either guys or girls, as they are prob having unprotected sex with their partner while going through the phone book on here and whoever else they are sleeping with (bit of a generalism but you get the drift!) Also people that do not have safe sex on their interests., or have met people without that listed. Straight guys or couples where the guy has fucked a bi guy or TV/TS.

We have quite a list to be fair, but it's our choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I would take everyone how I see them, not as others see them. Yes the might have been an ass to someone but aren't we all ass to someone at one point in time. X

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"No I would take everyone how I see them, not as others see them. Yes the might have been an ass to someone but aren't we all ass to someone at one point in time. X"
yep I've had many try and influence me over other members on here but I,choose who I will and will not meet.

The only way I'd refuse to meet someone would be over something pretty bad.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Always make our own mind up learned that quickly....we know people that dislike us due to listening to others tittle tattle.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have little/no interest in what other people think of fellow members, I have learned over the years that the people with plenty to say, are the ones that will carry more faces than Big Ben... and warring fractions one second, will be posting vomit inducing verifications of each other the next.

Stay on the periphery and get involved in nothing is the key to success....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I have little/no interest in what other people think of fellow members, I have learned over the years that the people with plenty to say, are the ones that will carry more faces than Big Ben... and warring fractions one second, will be posting vomit inducing verifications of each other the next.

Stay on the periphery and get involved in nothing is the key to success....

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet someone even if they had met others I really didn't like. I have my own mind & take people the way I find them not on the judgement of someone else xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I make up my own mind and don't care what others think of people.

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow


"On the back of another post would you refuse to meet someone because of someone else they had met?If so what would be the reason for doing this? "
Me personally yes i would , reason being as i did this when i first joined the site and the person i met had met a few other women but it seemed that his last meet before myself thought she had ownership of him , dont no if it was with what he had told her on there several meet or the fact she really liked him or she was jealoul. But once my verification was shown on his profile the mail abuse and threats i received of this lady and one or two of her friends scared me , hence now im rather cautious of who i meet and verification's i show .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"On the back of another post would you refuse to meet someone because of someone else they had met?If so what would be the reason for doing this? Me personally yes i would , reason being as i did this when i first joined the site and the person i met had met a few other women but it seemed that his last meet before myself thought she had ownership of him , dont no if it was with what he had told her on there several meet or the fact she really liked him or she was jealoul. But once my verification was shown on his profile the mail abuse and threats i received of this lady and one or two of her friends scared me , hence now im rather cautious of who i meet and verification's i show . "
I've had this too but wouldn't stop me meeting them because of someone's jealousy.

But your right about not showing veris I don't need to show a veri to prove I'm genuine lol

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow


"On the back of another post would you refuse to meet someone because of someone else they had met?If so what would be the reason for doing this? Me personally yes i would , reason being as i did this when i first joined the site and the person i met had met a few other women but it seemed that his last meet before myself thought she had ownership of him , dont no if it was with what he had told her on there several meet or the fact she really liked him or she was jealoul. But once my verification was shown on his profile the mail abuse and threats i received of this lady and one or two of her friends scared me , hence now im rather cautious of who i meet and verification's i show . I've had this too but wouldn't stop me meeting them because of someone's jealousy.

But your right about not showing veris I don't need to show a veri to prove I'm genuine lol"
ohhhhhhhhhhh your very genuine honey i can verify that but hey whats the point ya might not show it hehe xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, safe sex, no exceptions! When you go to a meet you don't go looking for a relationship, although if the meet goes well that can develop, other than that I dont judge or care about history, it's the attraction and fun had together that matters.

I also think some folk over think the whole thing - back to basics it's all about having fun

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"On the back of another post would you refuse to meet someone because of someone else they had met?If so what would be the reason for doing this? Me personally yes i would , reason being as i did this when i first joined the site and the person i met had met a few other women but it seemed that his last meet before myself thought she had ownership of him , dont no if it was with what he had told her on there several meet or the fact she really liked him or she was jealoul. But once my verification was shown on his profile the mail abuse and threats i received of this lady and one or two of her friends scared me , hence now im rather cautious of who i meet and verification's i show . I've had this too but wouldn't stop me meeting them because of someone's jealousy.

But your right about not showing veris I don't need to show a veri to prove I'm genuine lolohhhhhhhhhhh your very genuine honey i can verify that but hey whats the point ya might not show it hehe xxx "
Exactly!! lol

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