FabSwingers.com forum: Why is swinging so addictive ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its different things for different people but for me once the genie is out the box then you just want more and more. The excitement and pleasure of enjoying sex with a variety of different people is very addictive. Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me swinging is about a number of things:-

Being amongst other swingers being able to chat about swinging is fun, going to clubs and having fun with other swingers, not having to worry about what other people think etc, so i love the social aspect of swinging.

I also like chatting on here, flirting with fellow swingers and having a laugh with like minded people.

Swinging has meant ive met lots of fun people id otherwise have never met and made a load of good friends along the way.

Swinging has also brought out my kinky side which before i started swinging had never really surfaced.

Some of the main reasons i love swinging and dont think i could go back to a vanilla lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatting with people who love sex the same as you. Meeting someone hot who you have great sex with. Makes you want more and more. The banter. Getting educated on here.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I don't really see it as an addiction I see it more as a habit,with a habit you are in control of your choices, with an addiction you are not in control of your choices that's the difference.

As your in control and can switch of and walk away at any point then all is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a habit for us at all, we like to use Fab as a treat now and again to throw a little extra fun into the mix.

We go through phases of meeting quite a lot in a relatively small space of time but thats more down to opportunity and time available.

All very very good though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with Miss D

I think for me it's just a way of life that I enjoy now, being able to talk openly and honestly about sex and what you want to explore. I do talk about sex alot, but from personal experience in my vanilla world, people tend to look at you differently or wonder what is wrong with you so I tone it down a bit for their sake

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for all your comments. The consensus seems to be the openness to chat about sex in its many aspects and enjoy sex to the full.

I've met some lovelu people and it has enriched my sex life enormously. Thank you for your comments. Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree it's only addictive if you can't walk away from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree it's only addictive if you can't walk away from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's escapism from everyday life and the rat race

It's a welcomed addiction I think !!

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Why does nobody ever admit they just like shaggin loads of new and different people?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Why does nobody ever admit they just like shaggin loads of new and different people?"
I'm a cockoholic and I like shagging different interesting people lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree with Miss D

I agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well being that of an addictive nature I'd say I agree that the lifestyle can be pretty addictive for me . I am like that with most things I do in life though tbh .

Swinging for me is about having a circle of open minded non judgemental friends and aquaintences where you can say, do and enjoy similar things sexually or just simply chat about to them. Things that may perhaps be frowned upon in vanilla life . Fulfilling fantasies that without this lifestyle might never bring about and having the confidence to act on those desires with no shocked and outraged attitudes . Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to agree with one or two posts above.

Not into addiction..... Already beat one

Swinging or whatever else you wish to dress it up as is for me about meeting like minded people.

The vanilla world can be very vindictive and a hard one to live in so to be able to escape to a life of fantasy and to be able to help someone else fulfill their fantasy is for me an ultimate high.

My problem is as I get older and wiser find I no longer fit into everyone's age brackets on here and possibly need to seek other pastures

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well being that of an addictive nature I'd say I agree that the lifestyle can be pretty addictive for me . I am like that with most things I do in life though tbh .

Hi Shelley I think we sing from the same hymn sheet, many thanks for your openess and your niceness. Like you I've found it nice to chat and share pleasure with liberated open minded people who are not judgemental and in many ways the giving of pleasure has been the most joyous aspect of swinging. Our fingertips and tongues can give great pleasure.

Its a pity I'm well outwith your age range as your profile is very interesting and expresses your persona so well. Tc and thank you for your comments. Xx Jim

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like most of you swinging seems to add an interest and extra dimensions to our sexuality.

Its nice to find non judgemental people and friends who explore their fantasies and enjoy sex to the full.

Every day is special and its nice to live in the moment wjen you share pleasure xx J

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