FabSwingers.com forum: social idears

By *nonandy OP Man
over a year ago

Near Glasgow

I want to get out for more socials but they seem to be few and far between so been toying with the idea of organising some myself or at least a night out but not to sure what I am doing av asked in other threads about bits and pieces like the obvious keep the venue secret till the last minute

but now I am wondering some things like how much notice to give between advertising it in the forum and the date. What's the best way to go just make it a night out? should you book a table in the pub? should you still charge for a night out to ensure attendance? is it better to give it a theme or just make it a general invite? should you leave off accepting males until you know youv got a decent amount of couples and females?

any and all advice appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put up a meet n take it from there, don't give out where it is until kinda last minute. Even if mostly makes it can still be a good night... At the end of the day it's a social

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate

It's harder than I thought it would be xx I'm really looking forward to it tho xx if you got costs then you need to take money plus gives you an idea of how many ppl are going xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Socials are a bit more work involved than just a drinks night .

Always have a venue and date in mind before posting details on the forums .

A male organising a social and limiting males isnt going to go down well for single ladies maybe looking to hook up with single guys so socials should be open to everyone if its just a social .

My only exception was i didnt accept people on my block list for obvious reasons.

Good luck with it if you decide to do one .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also make sure date doesn't clash with anything unless it's a pre drink night

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By *nonandy OP Man
over a year ago

Near Glasgow

"Socials are a bit more work involved than just a drinks night .

Always have a venue and date in mind before posting details on the forums .

A male organising a social and limiting males isnt going to go down well for single ladies maybe looking to hook up with single guys so socials should be open to everyone if its just a social .

My only exception was i didnt accept people on my block list for obvious reasons.

Good luck with it if you decide to do one .

thats a good point I never thought of it that way I was just thinking of how it's 3 to 1 in favour of males on here and wouldn't want a sausage feast lol but your right

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Socials are a bit more work involved than just a drinks night .

Always have a venue and date in mind before posting details on the forums .

A male organising a social and limiting males isnt going to go down well for single ladies maybe looking to hook up with single guys so socials should be open to everyone if its just a social .

My only exception was i didnt accept people on my block list for obvious reasons.

Good luck with it if you decide to do one .

thats a good point I never thought of it that way I was just thinking of how it's 3 to 1 in favour of males on here and wouldn't want a sausage feast lol but your right

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If it only a social it wont make a difference

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By *nonandy OP Man
over a year ago

Near Glasgow

Yes maybe just try a drinks night to start with

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By *nonandy OP Man
over a year ago

Near Glasgow

Anyone think a daytime social wood work

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Anyone think a daytime social wood work

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lunch socials followed by drinks in the evenings have always been successfull.

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By *nonandy OP Man
over a year ago

Near Glasgow

hi all after talking in this thread and others av decided to try organising a drinks night in Glasgow its up as an event and and av posted in the forum to get it some attention its the 24/10

thread is Glasgow drinks night 24/10 please comment in that thread and get some names down

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