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"I think maybe these judgemental folk that have a strong disliking of bi people should read this article, then maybe just maybe their opinions might change?? Would be interesting to know people's honest thoughts? http://www.vice.com/read/where-are-all-the-bi-guys-paris-lees-902" It all falls down to personal choice if a bi female is not into bi men that's not judgemental it personal preferences. People who are anti bi or gay I'd say are more judgemental. | |||
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"I think maybe these judgemental folk that have a strong disliking of bi people should read this article, then maybe just maybe their opinions might change?? Would be interesting to know people's honest thoughts? http://www.vice.com/read/where-are-all-the-bi-guys-paris-lees-902It all falls down to personal choice if a bi female is not into bi men that's not judgemental it personal preferences. People who are anti bi or gay I'd say are more judgemental." Your correct on both accounts tho I do think it's still hypocritical. | |||
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"theres quite a bit of homophobia on this site and anti tv/ts stuff. its pathetic" I totally condemn homophobia. It is totally unacceptable however being accused of being intolerant and homophobic because I do not share their tastes is equally wrong. | |||
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"theres quite a bit of homophobia on this site and anti tv/ts stuff. its pathetic I totally condemn homophobia. It is totally unacceptable however being accused of being intolerant and homophobic because I do not share their tastes is equally wrong. " Good for you but don't make out I accused you of ANYTHING if you don't mind! I NEVER mentioned YOU! PLEASE read what I said. | |||
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"Freud said we were all born with Bi-sexual ten fancies and the possibility of being bisexual. It's conditioning and experiences that make you absolutely hetrosexual. Which maybe answers why a lot more women are openly bisexual as it's tolerated more in general society than bisexual males. I say, What's good for the goose and all that. Dx" freud was a cocaine crazed sex obsessed nutter though,,but hey ho . | |||
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"Freud said we were all born with Bi-sexual ten fancies and the possibility of being bisexual. It's conditioning and experiences that make you absolutely hetrosexual. Which maybe answers why a lot more women are openly bisexual as it's tolerated more in general society than bisexual males. I say, What's good for the goose and all that. Dx freud was a cocaine crazed sex obsessed nutter though,,but hey ho ." Lucky him, wish I could find the time lol | |||
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"Sexuality does not determine who I like or dislike. Their character does. Who they have sex with, not my business. " | |||
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"Iv played with woman So I'd say I'm bi Would I have sex with a bi guy No It's my choice Same as I wouldn't have sex with someone I wouldn't find attracted too It's all about personal choice No stone throwing or ostracising " I know it's your choice what makes a Bi guy unattractive to you? | |||
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"Iv played with woman So I'd say I'm bi Would I have sex with a bi guy No It's my choice Same as I wouldn't have sex with someone I wouldn't find attracted too It's all about personal choice No stone throwing or ostracising I know it's your choice what makes a Bi guy unattractive to you? " i don't find a guy sucking another guys knob a turn on Sorry you did ask | |||
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"Iv played with woman So I'd say I'm bi Would I have sex with a bi guy No It's my choice Same as I wouldn't have sex with someone I wouldn't find attracted too It's all about personal choice No stone throwing or ostracising I know it's your choice what makes a Bi guy unattractive to you? i don't find a guy sucking another guys knob a turn on Sorry you did ask " But if that wasn't happening as part of your fun time, what makes a bi guy unattractive? Very interesting thread. | |||
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"Because it will be in my head that he has Only if he's been up front about being bi that is A lot of bi guys have straight on their profiles as most know But the TVs on their veris sort of give them away Lol x" lol and some keep it totally secret n show no veri's from t'girls | |||
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"I'm curious how I'd be considered. My profile says bi-curious but I've not been with a guy. Would I be included with the bi guys? Just wondering. " yip you would | |||
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"Because it will be in my head that he has Only if he's been up front about being bi that is A lot of bi guys have straight on their profiles as most know But the TVs on their veris sort of give them away Lol x lol and some keep it totally secret n show no veri's from t'girls" | |||
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"Because it will be in my head that he has Only if he's been up front about being bi that is A lot of bi guys have straight on their profiles as most know But the TVs on their veris sort of give them away Lol x lol and some keep it totally secret n show no veri's from t'girls" | |||
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"I think that people are quick to judge and make assumptions. As i have a tv profile then most people automatically assume that i must be at least bi, even though i have straight on my profile-which i am...but i can understand the assumptions as the majority of tvs are at at least bi and before the message filters came into play the amount of guys with straight one their profile would message (i still get a lot of straight male halves of couples message). I also have a veri from a guy but he's someone along with his wife that I've known from the kink and burlesque scenes and are both very good friends, there's never been anything sexual between any of us...but people here will look at my tv profile and a veri from a guy and jump to the wrong conclusions. " This is so true sissy I have male friends who have said they will never verify a male that they have had a Mmf with because assume people will think it was a bi mmf 3sm which I think is a bit silly lol | |||
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"I think that people are quick to judge and make assumptions. As i have a tv profile then most people automatically assume that i must be at least bi, even though i have straight on my profile-which i am...but i can understand the assumptions as the majority of tvs are at at least bi and before the message filters came into play the amount of guys with straight one their profile would message (i still get a lot of straight male halves of couples message). I also have a veri from a guy but he's someone along with his wife that I've known from the kink and burlesque scenes and are both very good friends, there's never been anything sexual between any of us...but people here will look at my tv profile and a veri from a guy and jump to the wrong conclusions. This is so true sissy I have male friends who have said they will never verify a male that they have had a Mmf with because assume people will think it was a bi mmf 3sm which I think is a bit silly lol " Exactly NMD, it's silly but in a way understandable as you're judged with a cursory glance rather than by being engaged in conversation...although a guy, or woman for that matter, could just lie. The world of fab can be a strange and complicated place at times | |||
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"I think that people are quick to judge and make assumptions. As i have a tv profile then most people automatically assume that i must be at least bi, even though i have straight on my profile-which i am...but i can understand the assumptions as the majority of tvs are at at least bi and before the message filters came into play the amount of guys with straight one their profile would message (i still get a lot of straight male halves of couples message). I also have a veri from a guy but he's someone along with his wife that I've known from the kink and burlesque scenes and are both very good friends, there's never been anything sexual between any of us...but people here will look at my tv profile and a veri from a guy and jump to the wrong conclusions. This is so true sissy I have male friends who have said they will never verify a male that they have had a Mmf with because assume people will think it was a bi mmf 3sm which I think is a bit silly lol Exactly NMD, it's silly but in a way understandable as you're judged with a cursory glance rather than by being engaged in conversation...although a guy, or woman for that matter, could just lie. The world of fab can be a strange and complicated place at times " Indeed!! | |||
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"End of the day it's all down to personal preference We all have them Well most do lol some will just shag anything with a pulse " since when was a pulse required | |||
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"End of the day it's all down to personal preference We all have them Well most do lol some will just shag anything with a pulse since when was a pulse required " So it's you that's behind all those hospital morgue break ins then kola | |||
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"I'm a bi female. I have gay and bi male friends. Would I play with them? No. The thought of two men together does not appeal to me - so why would I want to play with someone who does something that turns me off? Its no different to disliking watersports or any other sexual act. I don't have to play with anyone I do not match with. Also, playing with men who have sex with other men impacts on things that are important in my life - like giving blood etc Does it make me a hypocrite? Possibly. Am I bothered? No." I'm not looking to pick fights or bother anyone as I said I respect everyone's choice , I was just merely pointing out the irony/hypocrisy of some individuals response on here. Although I am intrigued to know how you think only men who have sex with men and not men who have sex with woman only impacts on your health ?? | |||
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"I'm a bi female. I have gay and bi male friends. Would I play with them? No. The thought of two men together does not appeal to me - so why would I want to play with someone who does something that turns me off? Its no different to disliking watersports or any other sexual act. I don't have to play with anyone I do not match with. Also, playing with men who have sex with other men impacts on things that are important in my life - like giving blood etc Does it make me a hypocrite? Possibly. Am I bothered? No. I'm not looking to pick fights or bother anyone as I said I respect everyone's choice , I was just merely pointing out the irony/hypocrisy of some individuals response on here. Although I am intrigued to know how you think only men who have sex with men and not men who have sex with woman only impacts on your health ??" you say that your not looking to pick fights, well as someone who has been reading this can i tell you it doesnt appear that way. The impression i get is that you are annoyed at people who have a preference which you dont fit into and as a result you appear to be continually prodding at them in order that they somehow justify their preferences. It might be time to give it up and just accept that people will make their own choices, concentrate your efforts on those who you are a match for. | |||
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"A lot of people on here very dislike bi guys very very true! your portrayed as a leper as a Bi guy! Like we don't take care of our sexual health! Sleep with anything! I say 70-80 of guys on here are bi but hide behind putting straight on there profile! As soon as I see a guy that's got Straight on profile yet has verified or been verified by a guy or tv/ts I block them! My block list is massive! " | |||
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"Iv played with woman So I'd say I'm bi Would I have sex with a bi guy No It's my choice Same as I wouldn't have sex with someone I wouldn't find attracted too It's all about personal choice No stone throwing or ostracising I know it's your choice what makes a Bi guy unattractive to you? i don't find a guy sucking another guys knob a turn on Sorry you did ask " | |||
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"A lot of people on here very dislike bi guys very very true! your portrayed as a leper as a Bi guy! Like we don't take care of our sexual health! Sleep with anything! I say 70-80 of guys on here are bi but hide behind putting straight on there profile! As soon as I see a guy that's got Straight on profile yet has verified or been verified by a guy or tv/ts I block them! My block list is massive! " Judging by all those thumbs and your profile Annabelle you're another one who's quick on the trigger when it comes to judging and making assumptions 'TVS,CDS,TS,OR ANY OTHER MALE/ MALE COMBINATION' your profile says...you're automatically making the assumption that bisexuality is a given! It's not! A straight cross dresser may be in the minority...but there is an old saying that you're all familiar with in one context or another (and i say that you should, if you haven't already, think about what friends,neighbours,family etc who don't get it would think of you just for being on here...god forbid people can be sexually adventurous and enjoy themselves with different people outwith their relationship and label you this that and the next thing!) DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER! | |||
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"A lot of people on here very dislike bi guys very very true! your portrayed as a leper as a Bi guy! Like we don't take care of our sexual health! Sleep with anything! I say 70-80 of guys on here are bi but hide behind putting straight on there profile! As soon as I see a guy that's got Straight on profile yet has verified or been verified by a guy or tv/ts I block them! My block list is massive! Judging by all those thumbs and your profile Annabelle you're another one who's quick on the trigger when it comes to judging and making assumptions 'TVS,CDS,TS,OR ANY OTHER MALE/ MALE COMBINATION' your profile says...you're automatically making the assumption that bisexuality is a given! It's not! A straight cross dresser may be in the minority...but there is an old saying that you're all familiar with in one context or another (and i say that you should, if you haven't already, think about what friends,neighbours,family etc who don't get it would think of you just for being on here...god forbid people can be sexually adventurous and enjoy themselves with different people outwith their relationship and label you this that and the next thing!) DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER! " im not judging you personally or anyone else for that matter, i am stating MY PREFERENCE that i would not play with bisexual people in whatever form they portray themselves. In my opinion which i am perfectly entitled to have i might add(and others that have also commented on this thread,) FOR ME a man is a man whether he has a frock on and calls himself barbie or not. You can dress whichever way you want to, YOUR PREFERENCE but youre still a man. Im entitled to my opinion just the same as you are. I didnt put my profile up to ridicule anyone, just stating im not interested in that way of life. It seems you have a bigger issue with your lifestyle than i have. I didnt address myself to you personally. | |||
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"A lot of people on here very dislike bi guys very very true! your portrayed as a leper as a Bi guy! Like we don't take care of our sexual health! Sleep with anything! I say 70-80 of guys on here are bi but hide behind putting straight on there profile! As soon as I see a guy that's got Straight on profile yet has verified or been verified by a guy or tv/ts I block them! My block list is massive! Judging by all those thumbs and your profile Annabelle you're another one who's quick on the trigger when it comes to judging and making assumptions 'TVS,CDS,TS,OR ANY OTHER MALE/ MALE COMBINATION' your profile says...you're automatically making the assumption that bisexuality is a given! It's not! A straight cross dresser may be in the minority...but there is an old saying that you're all familiar with in one context or another (and i say that you should, if you haven't already, think about what friends,neighbours,family etc who don't get it would think of you just for being on here...god forbid people can be sexually adventurous and enjoy themselves with different people outwith their relationship and label you this that and the next thing!) DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER! im not judging you personally or anyone else for that matter, i am stating MY PREFERENCE that i would not play with bisexual people in whatever form they portray themselves. In my opinion which i am perfectly entitled to have i might add(and others that have also commented on this thread,) FOR ME a man is a man whether he has a frock on and calls himself barbie or not. You can dress whichever way you want to, YOUR PREFERENCE but youre still a man. Im entitled to my opinion just the same as you are. I didnt put my profile up to ridicule anyone, just stating im not interested in that way of life. It seems you have a bigger issue with your lifestyle than i have. I didnt address myself to you personally." You and others are perfectly entitled to your opinion, but as in my original comment in this thread before my one directed at you, people can sometimes wrongly make assumptions based upon a glance at a profile...if i was to message you it would be deleted unread no doubt but as you say I'm still a guy and a straight guy at that! I picked up on your all the thumbs up comment and profile text because they give the impression that you automatically ASSUME that someone like me with a tv profile and veri from a guy (which i explain above in my original comment) must equal male/male relations or 'any combination' as you put it but that's not always the case. I know you weren't having a go at me personally as well. PS. I have no issues other than the wrong assumptions that people make about me based solely on the type of profile and a veri if they get that far never mind reading the profile...hence my comments in this thread. | |||
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"Again it's all about preference Can't believe this has turned out as a bit of handbags at dawn Sorry Couldn't resist lol lol Xx " I get the preference about not wanting to meet bi guys, all my comments have been concerning the wrong assumption by people of a person being bi. I picked up on Annabelles profile as it seems from it she makes that assumption. I never picked up on new outlook who made the comment that Annabelle gave all the thumbs up to about veris from tvs and guys because he's open about being bi but blocks the closet 'straights' (I wonder how many closet straights women who won't meet bi guys have met on here lol). | |||
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"theres quite a bit of homophobia on this site and anti tv/ts stuff. its pathetic I totally condemn homophobia. It is totally unacceptable however being accused of being intolerant and homophobic because I do not share their tastes is equally wrong. Good for you but don't make out I accused you of ANYTHING if you don't mind! I NEVER mentioned YOU! PLEASE read what I said." Before throwing a hissy fit maybe you should actually read things properly. There is nothing in my previous post that accuses you personally of anything. | |||
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"A lot of people on here very dislike bi guys very very true! your portrayed as a leper as a Bi guy! Like we don't take care of our sexual health! Sleep with anything! I say 70-80 of guys on here are bi but hide behind putting straight on there profile! As soon as I see a guy that's got Straight on profile yet has verified or been verified by a guy or tv/ts I block them! My block list is massive! Judging by all those thumbs and your profile Annabelle you're another one who's quick on the trigger when it comes to judging and making assumptions 'TVS,CDS,TS,OR ANY OTHER MALE/ MALE COMBINATION' your profile says...you're automatically making the assumption that bisexuality is a given! It's not! A straight cross dresser may be in the minority...but there is an old saying that you're all familiar with in one context or another (and i say that you should, if you haven't already, think about what friends,neighbours,family etc who don't get it would think of you just for being on here...god forbid people can be sexually adventurous and enjoy themselves with different people outwith their relationship and label you this that and the next thing!) DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER! im not judging you personally or anyone else for that matter, i am stating MY PREFERENCE that i would not play with bisexual people in whatever form they portray themselves. In my opinion which i am perfectly entitled to have i might add(and others that have also commented on this thread,) FOR ME a man is a man whether he has a frock on and calls himself barbie or not. You can dress whichever way you want to, YOUR PREFERENCE but youre still a man. Im entitled to my opinion just the same as you are. I didnt put my profile up to ridicule anyone, just stating im not interested in that way of life. It seems you have a bigger issue with your lifestyle than i have. I didnt address myself to you personally. You and others are perfectly entitled to your opinion, but as in my original comment in this thread before my one directed at you, people can sometimes wrongly make assumptions based upon a glance at a profile...if i was to message you it would be deleted unread no doubt but as you say I'm still a guy and a straight guy at that! I picked up on your all the thumbs up comment and profile text because they give the impression that you automatically ASSUME that someone like me with a tv profile and veri from a guy (which i explain above in my original comment) must equal male/male relations or 'any combination' as you put it but that's not always the case. I know you weren't having a go at me personally as well. PS. I have no issues other than the wrong assumptions that people make about me based solely on the type of profile and a veri if they get that far never mind reading the profile...hence my comments in this thread." actually the fact that you dressed as a woman would make me delete whether you were bi or not, so your assumption of me is not correct. | |||
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"Tendencies !!! Not Ten fancies Although he may have said that too! " Tenfancies it is - a bit like Christmas with in-laws - fest-ilities! | |||
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"Because it will be in my head that he has Only if he's been up front about being bi that is A lot of bi guys have straight on their profiles as most know But the TVs on their veris sort of give them away Lol x I'm going to agree with all of this - not because I've read it, considered it and deemed it to be worthwhile - but because she is a babe! Shallow - I know. Shoot me. lol and some keep it totally secret n show no veri's from t'girls" | |||
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"Because it will be in my head that he has Only if he's been up front about being bi that is A lot of bi guys have straight on their profiles as most know But the TVs on their veris sort of give them away Lol x I'm going to agree with all of this - not because I've read it, considered it and deemed it to be worthwhile - but because she is a babe! Shallow - I know. Shoot me. lol and some keep it totally secret n show no veri's from t'girls" | |||
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"End of the day it's all down to personal preference We all have them Well most do lol some will just shag anything with a pulse since when was a pulse required " Temperature is always a better guide | |||
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