FabSwingers.com forum: badmouthing people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please note the forum rules before posting:

Don't badmouth other members or "name and shame": If you have a problem with another member, block them and leave feedback using "Report Profile" link on their profile

How much more obvious can the rules be for people wishing to post on a forum?

Yet still some members continue to use this forum as a means to continue personal vendettas.

I for one do not like this and object to my enjoyment of the forums and the posts therein being hijacked.

Please do not abuse the facility that is for all to enjoy and communicate through, thanks xxxxxxxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

i agree laine the rules r there for a reason yet some ppl still feel the need to post and slate ppl in this indirect way the forums r ment to be a fun part of this site xxxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

A good first post, and one that sould be kept to.

What should be added though is to report the offending post rather than retaliate.

It is ok defending someone or the subject as long as you keep within the rules too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said Laine!

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By *uzzmeisterMan
over a year ago

EDINBURGH

" Please note the forum rules before posting:

Don't badmouth other members or "name and shame": If you have a problem with another member, block them and leave feedback using "Report Profile" link on their profile

How much more obvious can the rules be for people wishing to post on a forum?

Yet still some members continue to use this forum as a means to continue personal vendettas.

I for one do not like this and object to my enjoyment of the forums and the posts therein being hijacked.

Please do not abuse the facility that is for all to enjoy and communicate through, thanks xxxxxxxx"

couldnt agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

high jacked !facility!vandetta!whips!chains!personal!ooooh all things we wanna do to u laine.... i need a cold shower !lol shame me baby yeahhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said Laine ...xxxxx

just hope people would take on board which has been posted.....

Buboo ...xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A good first post, and one that sould be kept to.

What should be added though is to report the offending post rather than retaliate.

It is ok defending someone or the subject as long as you keep within the rules too

Thank you for your encouragement and advice which will ensure that any and all future posts will adhere to the rules. Lets all enjoy them xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fuck sake ah just slate them in the room lol am to lazy tae pop in here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bring it on mr 44 ....... bring it on lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be really dim or just let it go over my head, as I haven't noticed any bad-mouthing of others.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

sorry promised myself id keep my mouth shut but just cant ....

Yet again someone has took it upon themselfs to spread roumours around that a friend of mine and i r telling ppl not to chat to him which it totaly untrue i know u read the post so come reply to this one big man instead if hiding behind ur blank profile .....

i just hope u got strong enough evidance to prove the nasty things ur saying

DONT BADMOUTH PPL IF U GOT A PROBLEM WITH THEM SPEAK TO THEM !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv been off site for a few days and jeepers wot have i missed lol. I must be toooo laid back because i dont see the point in badmouthing ppl.. iv always been a person if you have a concern you should go to that person and chat about it because it could be all about nothing or something but u will neva know unless you chat. seems abit childish to use a forum to badmouth ppl thot this was an adult site jeeps.

Laine thank you for your post, it was well said and straight to the point

joosi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't people just get a life. The one we do have is far too short to waste it bad mouthing others...if you have nothing nice to say...then just don't say anything at all....as alexander the meerkat says .... "simples"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

welcome back joosi xxxx

jac xxxx

report any abuse to admin and they will look into it, many times, one persons word against another...

in life we will meet people who like us and people who don't .....

they may not like us for a variety of reasons...

SOME I would care about: have I done them a wrong, caused offence in some way and would try and resolve ..and apologise if needed .. putting out the hand of friendship.

THE REST OF THEM ...... I wouldnt give a nanosecond of thought over....

in summary..... if you can look in the mirror and see a reflection that you are proud of.... thats all that matters....

and if my critics want to meet up and have a cup of tea and a bitching session, I am ok with that, as long as they drink tea from a china cup, this old queen has standards ... lol

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jac's is what this site is all about..she extends the hand of friendship to every one without prejudice.

This lady was one of the first to chat to me and support me when I was a newbie to chatrooms and I had guys like sharks circling the fresh meat and I wanted to leave the site.

She continues to support, encourage laughter and never sticks for a subject to get us all into a debate. I for one find it hard to believe that this warm funny lady has ever had a bad word to say about anyone, I've never heard her utter one.

Please don't upset yourself hunni ... rise above things and stay the lady you are xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you joosi and welcome back, we missed you! xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

View would that be Earl Grey or Lady Grey tea? xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"View would that be Earl Grey or Lady Grey tea? xxxx"

as if yu have to ask, I would do earl first then move onto lady lol ....

or vice versa........

lolx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My motto is .....

if someone has a go at you.

if someone bad mouths you,

whatever the reason may be,

BE NICE too them ...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Thanks everyone for ur support on this

i know ppl will have diffrent opinions on this and yes i have thought deep and hard about what to do about it myself but at the mo i dont have much option but to express my feelings on this post

as the said person has now blocked me so i cant mail him and ask what its all aboutand why he's saying these things about me ......

As regarding reporting the person i cant do that either as it would mean involving other ppl and i dont think its fair to involve them in this ridiculous situation .....

luv jacs

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why bother with all this reporting malarky when you can just do this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol great , and quite right

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

lmao glesga brilliant

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

LMAO Glesga, thanks for the smile that raised.

Normal service resumed now and all happy bunnies I hope.

xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking of bunnies Laine, here is one for you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Talking of bunnies Laine, here is one for you x

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..... and no batteries required xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My name says it all, I am a Chan (Shaolin) Buddhist monk and I have no time for petty little boys who wish to use an open forum to vent their filth and bad manners about members.

As for Jacs, she has been my rock on this site for quite some time now and I take it personally when someone badmouths or abuses her.

This lady can hold this site together especially when organiing socials and just plain being there for troubled souls.

Jacs babe, you have the support of everyone on this site.

As for the punk ass who wishes to shoot from the lip

Meet me, and I'll get Stunna to kick yer baws.

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By *egs4uWoman
over a year ago

somewhere around

lmao glesga you have too much time on your hands but brill

totally agree laine hunni with your post

xxx

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By *oodguy53Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

not nice

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