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Your opinions on "bi curious"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi ppl, just wondered what your views were on couples who have bi curious on their profile?

The way we look at it is you're either bi or you're not.

We're asking this question because we now don't contact that many couples who have it on the profile, as it generally turns out that bi is a requirement for them, not just a curiousity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought i was bi curious but the first time i touched a guys cock i was gagging for about a week after it. So i guess it means "i will try anthing once."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my very honest opinion..

yu either str8 or bi ......

str8 ..... never sucked a cock and never will ..... and cool x

bi cur... suck cock once/poss twice ..

if you dont like..... back to str8 ..

if you do it again.... move to bi and collect 200 pounds as you pass go and here is view's number ...

end of....

the curious guys move in a circle of they do anything for a shag ....

I used to get 2/3 messages from guys who would like to try cock.....

I say cool ... lets meet ....

they say ... only if fem in room ..

I say even cooler , bring yur fem friend round.... guess what ... nowt

they will be bi curious to get me to get a female and they think I zip up the back ....

as for bi cur fems...... I think in some cases are because macho hubby wants ffm ... and she going along with it ...

only my opinion....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"my very honest opinion..."

Yep, it is that View and much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

VIEW F^Ck me mate your in the wrong job.

You have some way with words.

Couldnt have put it better myself.

bi curious... BOLLOCKS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with bi cur when u're dipping your toes so to speak and bisexual if you like it. Although I am bisexual it is defo not a requirment, and don't seek it out, and certainly not one of the brigade who does it to please the hubby's. When I go to bed with someone it's cause i want to not for others amusement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u are only bi curious once....and if u like what u find... then u r bi end of story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and i agree completely with taj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a one on one with same sex only with the couple so wouldn't class myself at the moment as bi-sexual but more bi-playful....

Until that first time when my same sex virginity is taken lol

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never had a one on one with same sex only with the couple so wouldn't class myself at the moment as bi-sexual but more bi-playful....

Until that first time when my same sex virginity is taken lol

xxxx"

Not sure I agree with that.

If you've played with a female more than once, whether in a couple situation or not, I'd say that you didn't fall into the curious bracket anymore.

Just my opinion so don't shoot me. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree and if you have had relations with the same sex and "enjoyed it" then you are bi if you didnt "enjoy it" then you are straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i didn't say i was bi-curious i said i classed myself as bi-playful as i'm not curious anymore lol

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey mr i got bi on my profile..but no sure i am..but i left it on cause if a cpl that i realy liked asked 2 meet i think id be bi but only but the right fem..im more into cock an huges cocks at that lol so i guess im only bi part time lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter.As long as all parties have a fair idea of do's dont's and do that agains! , what is on profile is irrelevent to me .Of course that doesnt inlcude profiles that say"Piss off married git!" .

Those are releventlol

again, just an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in my humble opinion that Bi curious is those who havent experienced a same sex encounter but are thinking about it and contemplating it.

Just like we can be curious in all aspects of our life...im curious as to watch tikka masala takes like so until I try it I will remain curious.

I think if you enjoy same sex and have tried then you are no longer curious your bi.

So try before you"BI"...and then you will no longer be curious yeh lol

xxx

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By *he_countMan
over a year ago

runcorn

what an excellent use of the english language View, i couldn't have put it any better myself lol .. So that makes us a deffo bi couple lol but i play straight or she does should the need arrive lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it really matter."

Of course it matters. It's causing us lots of problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I did say it was just my opnion.

The point being ,I think that you wouldnt meet anyone simple because of their ad on here .You would , I assume engage in some sort of dialogue first. to ensure mutual attraction , likes,dislikes etc.If they didnt have have bi or bi curious ticked, and you met them, had fun,str8, with no foibles(good word) but subsequently found out afterwards they were bi, would it matter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but I did say it was just my opnion.

The point being ,I think that you wouldnt meet anyone simple because of their ad on here .You would , I assume engage in some sort of dialogue first. to ensure mutual attraction , likes,dislikes etc.If they didnt have have bi or bi curious ticked, and you met them, had fun,str8, with no foibles(good word) but subsequently found out afterwards they were bi, would it matter?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but I did say it was just my opnion.

The point being ,I think that you wouldnt meet anyone simple because of their ad on here .You would , I assume engage in some sort of dialogue first. to ensure mutual attraction , likes,dislikes etc.If they didnt have have bi or bi curious ticked, and you met them, had fun,str8, with no foibles(good word) but subsequently found out afterwards they were bi, would it matter?"

yes, it would matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry i dont do anything "just" to please my husband in the bedroom. either we both like it or we dont do it.i put bi curious because thats what i am,,curious.i dont play with all girls we have met only 1s that make me curious what it would be like to play with. see easy peesy lol

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

curious implies you are interested in something new..something you have as yet to experience.

As soon as you do something..you have a degree of exeperience..all be it limited.

So you are only bi curious until you try it..then you are either bi or str8.

You can of course just be greedy and fuck anything regardless of attraction ( as does happen here)

However the genuine are bi or str8

Personally i used to be bi curious...slept with a few women and then decided that i am not bi..i was simply curious and happy to try something new.

Now i am str8..but not offended by fem to fem contact..it just doesnt float my boat

vol

xx

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling


"I've never had a one on one with same sex only with the couple so wouldn't class myself at the moment as bi-sexual but more bi-playful....

Until that first time when my same sex virginity is taken lol "

i really agree with this, and what stunna said. i enjoy playing with girls but not sure i would have a fem/fem relationship as such. so i reckon this does not make me fully bi?

why should people have to label themselves? everyone is looking for different things anyway - sexuality is just another catagory we're expected to slot ourselves into...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, i put bisexual on mine, because:-

I do like to meet the odd TV here and there

and

I have given O to a guy while fucking his wife

BUT:-

I prefer to be str8 for couple meets

It isn't a requirement and i don't play bi with everyone i meet - only if it feels right and everyone's happy with it

I do NOT take A

I wouldn't meet a guy on his own (well 1 that isn't a TV :p)

I think the above mentioned "bi-playfull" describes me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bi cur... suck cock once/poss twice .."

damn Garry - you mean I have to find another one to suck before I can take the "cur" off??

Offers?

LOL

It's a funny one (for me anyway) - to me, Bi implies that you like both equally, to be honest - I don't think there's a one-word description of "predominatly straight, but do love to munch a bit of cock if I fancy the guy enough and the mood feels right- doesn't neccesarily mean I'll be gagging for a bit of straight hubby's wang whilst i'm shaggin his mrs tho".

I suppose tho, like anything on this site, the profiles and descriptions are merely a means to start chatting - it'll all come out in the chat if there's a "click".....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's D's take on this lol ^^^^^

This is Nina's take--

The categories that are available for stating one's preferences are limited and it is not possible to state on your profile exactly at what point in your voyage to satisfying your curiosity you are.I would personally describe D & I as 'Uninhibited'. I sometimes fear that what some straight people fail to understand is that bi-curious /Bi-sexual does not necessarily mean 'will shag anything' or 'will jump you whether you like it or not'.It's when you chat to people that you find out what they are like *as people*,and that's where the basis for a good meet lies.Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am Bi-Curious i have been with a woman in a 3some, yes i did enjoy but did i enjoy because i got cock also. Not sure if i am fully bi or not. Jesus now i am wondering if i should have a one on one with a female does that make me a lesbian?

HELP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what we have to remember,most cpls/singles on here,its there first time eperiencing swinging,so therefore are unsure what they want at least if they say bi curious there being honest and sure after a brief chat to cpl or individual you will know if they are the ppl for you.

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By *iz64Man
over a year ago

haddington

OK, here's my take on it....

In a threesome (lets say a MMF), do the two (Ms in this case) play together? Do they kiss & fondle each other? Are they happy to play together without the one (the F)?

If the two play together, sans the one, they are Bi

If they won't play play together, and both play with the one (and try not to touch each other), they are staight

If they will play together, but only if the one is there too.... they are bi-curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi-curious in the sense that, yeah I like men and I will play with women. However I could never be in a relationship with a woman. That is how I define it. If I felt I could date a woman then I would be fully bi. Maybe this is a rather naive way of looking at it I don't know...

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By *erwhowerCouple
over a year ago

Perthshire

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By *erwhowerCouple
over a year ago

Perthshire


"sorry i dont do anything "just" to please my husband in the bedroom. either we both like it or we dont do it.i put bi curious because thats what i am,,curious.i dont play with all girls we have met only 1s that make me curious what it would be like to play with. see easy peesy lol

auds xx"

Totally agree with this posting...... although having said that I do enjoy a good snog with male or fem lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interesting thread. I know it started being a question about couples, but I'll chip in my bit as a guy. I've had a couple of 1-1 with guys, limited to them sucking me and me playing with them; no kissing, no anal. I've also done those things in the context of a 3some. I reckon I've gone as far as I'm going, I don't mind doing them when the situation is right, but generally I prefer a womans touch! So have I passed the "curious" stage since I know what I like and dont? But can i be fully bi if I have limited tastes and only indulge them in a context where women are also present?

Why is life so confusing? Just shows the importance of a bit of conversation before you jump into bed with people!

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