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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a curiosity matter here. Been in the Scotland chat room a few times over the past few days and I always say good morning/afternoon/evening and ask how everyone is and every time I have been blatantly ignored. Is this the norm for the Scotland chat room? Seems to be one wee group chatting to each other and if anyone else tries to join in the chat they are ignored as if not welcome. Maybe someone can enlighten me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to me at times too but I tend to say eh hellooo good morning anyone ?? And make the point lol . Sometimes you need to be a bit more direct .

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it does tend to depend on time of day... it happens a lot, but don't despair, just jump into conversations and try and join in, folk will chat

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By *ighland MasterMan
over a year ago

perth

Lol try directing someone in chat you should get a response and a ban x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I said it a few times and no response. Thanks for the feedback it's appreciated

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

Hang on in there....you are spot on though...unless you are well in with regulars posters it is usually ignored like the plague...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Do you expect folk to drop their conversations to speak solely to you would you ditch a convo with your freinds if a random person shouted across a bar hello some folk take time they get so tired of saying hello back to be greeted with stunning babes take your top off so some wait and see if your worth talking to or just another camwanker hang in it changes with time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck kola you sound like the forum buddies there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just hang in there I personally don't use them but must have done one night when I had a few gallons in me well I woke up to cam verifications but I can't keep up with the convos so tend not to join in for that reason only

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Stick with it, you will build a network. It just takes time.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Feck kola you sound like the forum buddies there lol "
pmsl never gonna happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said hello but you had left at the time you said hello I was on a different page :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be a regular in the Old School style chat room but hardly use it now because it can be clique and as I don't use it I'm not part of the clique

Keep trying though you never know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you expect folk to drop their conversations to speak solely to you would you ditch a convo with your freinds if a random person shouted across a bar hello some folk take time they get so tired of saying hello back to be greeted with stunning babes take your top off so some wait and see if your worth talking to or just another camwanker hang in it changes with time "

I don't expect this at all. If you read my original post you will see I was trying to join in the conversation and banter that was already happening. Plus it is decent manners to at least acknowledge someone. And I was brought up with the belief manners cost nothing. Maybe just me though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on a few times myself, I've experienced the same.

Not trying to hijack convos but a reciprocal hello is courteous and convivial.

I have only experienced this in the Scotland room though.

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

If i am in chat i always try and say hello , but being a moderator in chat I can be busy doing other things and not always see a hi as i could be checking a profile or perhaps removing a director , which means i am on a different page , but hang in there . Yes the regs talk to each other and yes loads of them have met and socialise together so it can be hard getting in on the chat, we were all new at one time and look at them all now .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i am in chat i always try and say hello , but being a moderator in chat I can be busy doing other things and not always see a hi as i could be checking a profile or perhaps removing a director , which means i am on a different page , but hang in there . Yes the regs talk to each other and yes loads of them have met and socialise together so it can be hard getting in on the chat, we were all new at one time and look at them all now . "
Thanks for the reply, I do understand that people know each other and everything else you mention, the point for me that highlights something I think some people forget.

Everyone was new at one point. Will keep popping in though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up chat long ago

Shame as it used to be such a giggle in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't use the chat rooms! It's to fast for me! No one talks in it either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stopped using the chatrooms as it turns into something akin to a shark feeding frenzy the minute a woman takes her top/bra off and some of the guys turn into embarrassing slobbering cretins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to go in the chatrooms but it was too much for me. I couldn't keep up so I will stick to the forums instead

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