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How do you dress for meets, do you make an effort?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I don't mean in the underwear sense lol

I only ask as my last 2 meets have left me wondering.

One was a nurse and came straight from work in her work clothes and the other turned up looking like they'd just rolled out of bed for the school run lol

So do you normally make some form of effort or just turn up in whatever you have on at the time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously

Getting ready for a meet starts days before and then on the day of the meet I spend hours getting ready. I like to make an effort and look my best. It's a good reason to get the high heels and sexy dress on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to wear a suit, shirt and tie for work every day and I hate it. On meets I tend to dress down into clothes I feel comfortable in and can relax in....doesn't mean I don't make the effort though!

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By *wisted and kinkyCouple
over a year ago

Livingston

Got to be smart casual , turning up scruffy would put us off

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also like to take time to get ready for meets funnily enough I was asked by someone to meet on Friday but I can't as I've a social night to go to & need to get myself sorted for that no way am I getting my hair messed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pahahaha! I wear clothes! I would never go on a meet with heels etc! If I was going to cj's or a social then yeah, I would wear a dress, heels etc but a one on one? In all honesty I would turn up in my Jammie's and make him wear his

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my last meet I had a towel on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At my last meet I had a towel on "

That sounds pretty hot

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.

Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.

Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!

"

Maybe a wee bit old spice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed "

Is it a matching boxers and sock set?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed

Is it a matching boxers and sock set? "

Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed

Is it a matching boxers and sock set?

Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx"

Wear them to cj's..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed

Is it a matching boxers and sock set?

Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx

Wear them to cj's.. "
I am but i plan on keeping my cloths on as a a wee shy guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed

Is it a matching boxers and sock set?

Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx

Wear them to cj's.. I am but i plan on keeping my cloths on as a a wee shy guy "

Me to sitting in the corner drinking wine.. Little old wine drinker meeeeee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is maybe slightly different but I usually insist on a social meet with someone new before we arrange anything else but one time the guy turned up at the social absolutely stinking.

He apologised claiming that he had come straight from work but it was more than that. He actually had green mould on his teeth & smelt of stale pee!

That's admittedly at the extreme end of the spectrum but we always make an effort & not unreasonably expect the same in return.

At the very least a shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck getting dressed up, I don't even put effort in to have matching underwear. I wear what I wear any other day just make sure I have the face on... Usually a waste of makeup but it makes me feel like I'm a stunner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the rare occasions I would meet straight from work x I'd shower or bath there x

Can't imagine meeting n not being clean n fresh x yuk x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck getting dressed up, I don't even put effort in to have matching underwear. I wear what I wear any other day just make sure I have the face on... Usually a waste of makeup but it makes me feel like I'm a stunner "
I'm sure I saw you having a meet at Carrick Knowe golf course when I was playing golf one night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.

Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!

"

They still do brut ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck getting dressed up, I don't even put effort in to have matching underwear. I wear what I wear any other day just make sure I have the face on... Usually a waste of makeup but it makes me feel like I'm a stunner I'm sure I saw you having a meet at Carrick Knowe golf course when I was playing golf one night "

Shhhhh don't give away my secret places. I dunno what's worse, me pumping on the golfie or you being bored enough to play golf at night...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed

Is it a matching boxers and sock set?

Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx

Wear them to cj's.. I am but i plan on keeping my cloths on as a a wee shy guy

Me to sitting in the corner drinking wine.. Little old wine drinker meeeeee! "
I am going to be sober

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck getting dressed up, I don't even put effort in to have matching underwear. I wear what I wear any other day just make sure I have the face on... Usually a waste of makeup but it makes me feel like I'm a stunner I'm sure I saw you having a meet at Carrick Knowe golf course when I was playing golf one night

Shhhhh don't give away my secret places. I dunno what's worse, me pumping on the golfie or you being bored enough to play golf at night... "
It was a golf tie so I had no choice, you did however

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always try to look smart and presentable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck getting dressed up, I don't even put effort in to have matching underwear. I wear what I wear any other day just make sure I have the face on... Usually a waste of makeup but it makes me feel like I'm a stunner I'm sure I saw you having a meet at Carrick Knowe golf course when I was playing golf one night

Shhhhh don't give away my secret places. I dunno what's worse, me pumping on the golfie or you being bored enough to play golf at night... It was a golf tie so I had no choice, you did however "

Wtf is a golf tie? Aw come on man, dinnae judge, did ye see the state of me, I'd of done anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck getting dressed up, I don't even put effort in to have matching underwear. I wear what I wear any other day just make sure I have the face on... Usually a waste of makeup but it makes me feel like I'm a stunner I'm sure I saw you having a meet at Carrick Knowe golf course when I was playing golf one night

Shhhhh don't give away my secret places. I dunno what's worse, me pumping on the golfie or you being bored enough to play golf at night... It was a golf tie so I had no choice, you did however

Wtf is a golf tie? Aw come on man, dinnae judge, did ye see the state of me, I'd of done anything "
A golf tie is an arranged match lol. Why do you have me blocked btw? Don't think I've ever spoke to you before

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.

Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!

Maybe a wee bit old spice? "

Maybe only for you BJQ, but I don't break out that good gear for just anyone you know...

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.

Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck getting dressed up, I don't even put effort in to have matching underwear. I wear what I wear any other day just make sure I have the face on... Usually a waste of makeup but it makes me feel like I'm a stunner I'm sure I saw you having a meet at Carrick Knowe golf course when I was playing golf one night

Shhhhh don't give away my secret places. I dunno what's worse, me pumping on the golfie or you being bored enough to play golf at night... It was a golf tie so I had no choice, you did however

Wtf is a golf tie? Aw come on man, dinnae judge, did ye see the state of me, I'd of done anything A golf tie is an arranged match lol. Why do you have me blocked btw? Don't think I've ever spoke to you before "

Sorry I'm no boring enough to like gold eh I've actually not got a clue... Went to message and couldn't, scrolled down my block list and you're no there? What the?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It tells me that you've blocked me pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It tells me that you've blocked me pal "

I know, says that with me but you're no on there... I'm confused...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It tells me that you've blocked me pal

I know, says that with me but you're no on there... I'm confused... "
Me anaw. Try contacting admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.

Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!

Maybe a wee bit old spice?

Maybe only for you BJQ, but I don't break out that good gear for just anyone you know... "

Thanks babe! I'll be sure to wear nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear whatever I'm comfortable in and what's appropriate at the time lol I take quite a bit of time to get ready for any sort of meet and will always make an effort to look my best

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suited up usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suited up usually"

Love a man in a suite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suited up usually

Love a man in a suite! "
A bathroom suite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suited up usually

Love a man in a suite! A bathroom suite? "

Suit* cunt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like getting dressed up for a meet both in what i wear and what is underneath. Although sayin that i did have a meet recently where it was a jeans n vest top affair and had just as much fun! X

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I would have thought it would be rude not to make an effort for a meet. That's all part and parcel of the fun for me, getting dressed up and trying to make a good impression.

Sometimes I really go for it and splash on a bit of Brut too!

Maybe a wee bit old spice?

Maybe only for you BJQ, but I don't break out that good gear for just anyone you know...

Thanks babe! I'll be sure to wear nothing "

Haha, who am I to argue with that BJQ!

Do any of the gents on here still use Hi Karate?!! That was my old man's favourite that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pahahaha! I wear clothes! I would never go on a meet with heels etc! If I was going to cj's or a social then yeah, I would wear a dress, heels etc but a one on one? In all honesty I would turn up in my Jammie's and make him wear his "
I am with you on the pj front.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pahahaha! I wear clothes! I would never go on a meet with heels etc! If I was going to cj's or a social then yeah, I would wear a dress, heels etc but a one on one? In all honesty I would turn up in my Jammie's and make him wear his I am with you on the pj front. "
I can't be the only guy in here who finds a woman in a pair of pjs incredibly sexy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to make sure I'm clean and shaved smelling good,as far as clothes go it's jeans and t-shirt that's what I feel comfortable in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pahahaha! I wear clothes! I would never go on a meet with heels etc! If I was going to cj's or a social then yeah, I would wear a dress, heels etc but a one on one? In all honesty I would turn up in my Jammie's and make him wear his I am with you on the pj front. "

I love my Jammie's! They gotta be baggy ones tho! I love wearing guys stuff Like joggies and a hoodie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice shoes, jeans, shirt and my suit jacket, shaven, nice aftershave too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I have many, but if I go on a meet I always make maximum effort . Normally a dress and heels . I tend not to wear much in underwear though . Perhaps a bra and hold ups or cami or basque under my outfit depending on what it is . Just never any pants .... Shower bits shaved hair done and make up on .

If someone turned up to have a MEET with me and hadn't washed and come straight from work then I'd expect them to shower and shave and get dressed . That's not saying they need to put on their best suit just show they've made an effort . And must be smelling nice or its a turn off at start . Part of the reason I always do a soctal first .

As for pj's I don't even wear them in the house haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are traveling , nice dress with something nicer under if its at ours , stockings suspender belt and heels , they are not often on long so why dress

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would wear whatever I am comfortable in, I personally would dress up for no one else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends where I'm meeting, and whether its a social or not, as to what I wear, but I always make an effort. just as I like to think those I am meeting would make a similar effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take my rollers out and my pinny off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take my rollers out and my pinny off... But make sure I'm carrying a tray of biscuits "

Fixed that for you Jintz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't met off here yet but when I meet from other places it's either a 3 piece suit if we were having a few drinks out or something before. it if it's a meet at my place or theirs it's usually shoes a shirt and nice jeans with aftershave on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed

Is it a matching boxers and sock set?

Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx

Wear them to cj's.. I am but i plan on keeping my cloths on as a a wee shy guy "
aye right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that I have many, but if I go on a meet I always make maximum effort . Normally a dress and heels . I tend not to wear much in underwear though . Perhaps a bra and hold ups or cami or basque under my outfit depending on what it is . Just never any pants .... Shower bits shaved hair done and make up on .

If someone turned up to have a MEET with me and hadn't washed and come straight from work then I'd expect them to shower and shave and get dressed . That's not saying they need to put on their best suit just show they've made an effort . And must be smelling nice or its a turn off at start . Part of the reason I always do a soctal first .

As for pj's I don't even wear them in the house haha "

No even Rupert The Bear pj's??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed

Is it a matching boxers and sock set?

Yes i will get the pic back up of them soon xx

Wear them to cj's.. I am but i plan on keeping my cloths on as a a wee shy guy aye right "

its true ask anyone that has met me am like rajesh koothrappali out of bigg bang

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that I have many, but if I go on a meet I always make maximum effort . Normally a dress and heels . I tend not to wear much in underwear though . Perhaps a bra and hold ups or cami or basque under my outfit depending on what it is . Just never any pants .... Shower bits shaved hair done and make up on .

If someone turned up to have a MEET with me and hadn't washed and come straight from work then I'd expect them to shower and shave and get dressed . That's not saying they need to put on their best suit just show they've made an effort . And must be smelling nice or its a turn off at start . Part of the reason I always do a soctal first .

As for pj's I don't even wear them in the house haha

No even Rupert The Bear pj's?? "
you drive a hard bargain you lol okay tell you what ,you can bring them but I ain't fecking wearing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make the effort to look good as it makes me feel good. Usually end up looking overdressed but it's worth it when you see the guys reaction dress, stockings and heels all the way for me. Mrs devil

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Always make an effort, dress, heels, stockings/hold ups. Hair and make up done.

Even for a social its good to make the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed "

only about the pants lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"batman pants socks and t shirt and jeans only not wore that to one meet and she said she was disappointed

only about the pants lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pahahaha! I wear clothes! I would never go on a meet with heels etc! If I was going to cj's or a social then yeah, I would wear a dress, heels etc but a one on one? In all honesty I would turn up in my Jammie's and make him wear his I am with you on the pj front. "
. Awk I don't care what you dress in. Just make sure you have had a shower and brushed your teeth . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to make an effort & will sometimes ask a potential meet what they would like to see me in.

R

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