FabSwingers.com forum: Jealousy?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In theast couple of hours since verifying someone I met from fab I have had several messages from guys ranging from 'give me advice on how to get a meet with her' to 'if I ever see you at a social you're getting glassed'.

What is wrong with these people?

Jealousy is a horrible trait in any walk of life but this is a swingers site ffs!

I have blocked each of these people and I have now hidden my profile which will stay that way for the foreseeable future. Dunno why a minority of folk have always got to try to ruin things on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them and get your profile back on lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In theast couple of hours since verifying someone I met from fab I have had several messages from guys ranging from 'give me advice on how to get a meet with her' to 'if I ever see you at a social you're getting glassed'.

What is wrong with these people?

Jealousy is a horrible trait in any walk of life but this is a swingers site ffs!

I have blocked each of these people and I have now hidden my profile which will stay that way for the foreseeable future. Dunno why a minority of folk have always got to try to ruin things on here.

That's shocking but don't let the idiots win! Just be happy in the knowledge that your meet earlier probably wouldn't give them the time of day & you were lucky enough to have had fun with this girl. Let them be jealous! Xx

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By *ootlover456Man
over a year ago

Paisley

silly pathetic little people. you get em everywhere. don't let em bother you. just ignore em and they'll wander off and be morons elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh haters gonna hate

If I hide away because folk hated me I'd never see the light of day lol

Geek AKA that loveable bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is wrong with these people?

Jealousy is a horrible trait in any walk of life but this is a swingers site ffs!

I have blocked each of these people and I have now hidden my profile which will stay that way for the foreseeable future. Dunno why a minority of folk have always got to try to ruin things on here.

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Never had it to that extent, had the big surge in guys suddenly taking an interest in my profile certainly, but not the daft threats and the "aww i want to meet her too" stuff, lol, bizarre !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shite with them. Ive !blocked dudes from mailing me since my first Edinburgh encounter. I no longer ask for veris, but will post them from new people who have met for the first time at socials. Same if I write a veri and the lady doesn't want to post it then fine. Its not a hangup at all.

Just be happy that hot Girls here wanted a bit of yourcompany

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is wrong with these people?

Jealousy is a horrible trait in any walk of life but this is a swingers site ffs!

I have blocked each of these people and I have now hidden my profile which will stay that way for the foreseeable future. Dunno why a minority of folk have always got to try to ruin things on here.

Im with LMN on this, ignore, block and move on, don't let the moronic element win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its shocking. Got a lot of this a few week

Ago real abuse . Just block them people will want to know who they are so they can avoid them. Pure jealousy I got mine because of my verifications. Iv asked men to stop giving me them

Its suppose to be fun . Get your profile back on Dont let them win.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Why do people feel the need to let others dictate what they can and cannot do is beyond me.

By doing what you are your showing them how much it bothers you.

Block and ignore is the best policy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my life experience, the people who tell you they'll do this and do that are the ones who are least likely to carry out any threat that they make. Not that they're worth listening to in the first place.

Keyboard warriors.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Why do people feel the need to let others dictate what they can and cannot do is beyond me.

By doing what you are your showing them how much it bothers you.

Block and ignore is the best policy xx"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"In my life experience, the people who tell you they'll do this and do that are the ones who are least likely to carry out any threat that they make. Not that they're worth listening to in the first place.

Keyboard warriors."

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the more you react to them, the more you fuel it.

this thread will give them the platform they seek, they know they got to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this all the time don't know why as am a lovable wee soul and haven't meet half the women they think i have . tell you what if i meet you at a social i will give you a glass with what ever beverage you like in it

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it is sad that the more fun you have, the more you enjoy and become popular, the more you will attract some attention from people who will befriend you to ride on your back to help get meets, will check your verifications and then contact the people and say they are friends of yours.

Just keep it real, it/people will not be all it seems at times but overall, the good times far outweigh the rest.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"it is sad that the more fun you have, the more you enjoy and become popular, the more you will attract some attention from people who will befriend you to ride on your back to help get meets, will check your verifications and then contact the people and say they are friends of yours.

Just keep it real, it/people will not be all it seems at times but overall, the good times far outweigh the rest."

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get people like this in all walks of life.

As stated before these keyboard warriors or playground terrorists as I prefer to call them talk the talk but in 30 odd years I've worked the Doors I've yet to see one walk the walk.

Block, report to Admin and ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the joys of giving folk the chance to hide behind email. There are some very "brave" people on email.

This is the same in all walks of life, the other danger of email is what's written and how it's meant isn't always the whats read and interpreted.

My _iew,

Block the idiots and report anyone making threats, then forget about it.

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"That's the joys of giving folk the chance to hide behind email. There are some very "brave" people on email.

This is the same in all walks of life, the other danger of email is what's written and how it's meant isn't always the whats read and interpreted.

My _iew,

Block the idiots and report anyone making threats, then forget about it."

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had similar too after I had a meet with a single guy.

The minute my veri went up I was getting messages on here on whatsapp and kik all wanting to know why I picked him and not them. Why didn't I let them know they could have met me instead.

It put me off meeting every one of them.

So I think the guys have shot theirselves in the foot because I doubt she will want to meet them after saying all that and threatening you.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Who I meet, when I meet and what I do is between me and the person/people involved ONLY.

I am more than happy to display veris to prove I am who I say I am but they are all social meets. If people don't like that, pass me by.

I've had the odd message moaning or asking for advice about someone I've met and they all get the same answer - ask that person direct and don't bother me again.

Just report, block and move on. It's so much easier than giving these people the attention they crave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had similar too after I had a meet with a single guy.

The minute my veri went up I was getting messages on here on whatsapp and kik all wanting to know why I picked him and not them. Why didn't I let them know they could have met me instead.

It put me off meeting every one of them.

So I think the guys have shot theirselves in the foot because I doubt she will want to meet them after saying all that and threatening you. "

I used to get the very same. There's just no need at all and it certainly puts me off them.

Who I choose to spend MY time with is my choice. I answer to no one, nor should those I've met have to. No one here is obligated to share their experiences with anyone or share tips on how to meet someone. One of the reasons I don't show veris any more too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who I choose to spend MY time with is my choice. I answer to no one, nor should those I've met have to. No one here is obligated to share their experiences with anyone or share tips on how to meet someone. One of the reasons I don't show veris any more too

Lx "

I had a few issues with this as well and hid my veris for a while. I then decided I have nothing to hide and would rather these people show themselves up as it spares my time by not meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice and kind words folks. It's just totally scunnered me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been sat reading through everyone's existences in this area.

Some of these people must be nuts.

Being abusive, or questioning why you met someone else rather than them? Really?! What is wrong with these people? Talk about having no sense of dignity for yourself.

And asking someone who has met a site member for tips on meeting that person, do they seriously think it works like that??!!

Some of these folk are acting worse than hormonal adolescents!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Keyboard warriors."

Agree with this, get your profile back on and don't let them win. These types are usually all mouth anyway, and as for any referring in any way to someone you've met and been verified by, block and report them all.

I've had my share of hassle on here, and the eejits eventually give up and crawl back to where they came from. Completely ignoring them is the best solution in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keyboard warriors.

I've had my share of hassle on here, and the eejits eventually give up and crawl back to where they came from. Completely ignoring them is the best solution in my experience."

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I have been sat reading through everyone's existences in this area.

Some of these people must be nuts.

Being abusive, or questioning why you met someone else rather than them? Really?! What is wrong with these people? Talk about having no sense of dignity for yourself.

And asking someone who has met a site member for tips on meeting that person, do they seriously think it works like that??!!

Some of these folk are acting worse than hormonal adolescents!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have hidden our pictures and veris

For this reason

Way to many knobheads can't handle a no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently im meant to be jealous?

I have in the past arranged group meets, gangbangs (some i myself have been unable to attend), been happy that everyone had a great time, and thats e v e r y o n e.

But i play wrong, according to some.

Some being, various people who claimed to be cool with what i busied myself doing, but only after demanded to know why their occasional swing partner was in the mix?

He never told you, and its not my place to tell you, but somehow that makes me,,, a jealous type? Brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently im meant to be jealous?

I have in the past arranged group meets, gangbangs (some i myself have been unable to attend), been happy that everyone had a great time, and thats e v e r y o n e.

But i play wrong, according to some.

Some being, various people who claimed to be cool with what i busied myself doing, but only after demanded to know why their occasional swing partner was in the mix?

He never told you, and its not my place to tell you, but somehow that makes me,,, a jealous type? Brilliant.

Mate, are you high?

I actually don't think he was talking about you, ATALL!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently im meant to be jealous?

I have in the past arranged group meets, gangbangs (some i myself have been unable to attend), been happy that everyone had a great time, and thats e v e r y o n e.

But i play wrong, according to some.

Some being, various people who claimed to be cool with what i busied myself doing, but only after demanded to know why their occasional swing partner was in the mix?

He never told you, and its not my place to tell you, but somehow that makes me,,, a jealous type? Brilliant.

Mate, are you high?

I actually don't think he was talking about you, ATALL!! "
I was merely dealing with the subject of jealousy, not a direct response to a particular comment x

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