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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Myself and my friends met up with a couple yesterday for a social gathering there were 6 of us and 2 of which was there first social, excellent company then the other 2 new people arrived , all they did was speak about how much money tbey had , how much staff they had and about there holiday home and didn't even know what money they had with them it was that much , as they were sat at the end of the table they did not feel as if there were included , and went away with ought even saying a word, they then decided to come back and tell my partner that they thought we were very rude and it was the worst social they have ever had,

Well I would just like to say , it is your choice and your loss as we are very kind and sociable people as u will see from my verifications ,

I wish them well but never again will I be in there company .

Rant over .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would of sat there, nodding intently and then simply come out with... Did ye aye!? Fucking spoffs!

Well done to the two of you. Wouldn't take any notice of them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for that, made me question how I was with people , even though I know I did not do anything or say anything wrong to them, there loss , x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for that, made me question how I was with people , even though I know I did not do anything or say anything wrong to them, there loss , x "

Defo is! You'll meet awesome people from this and they will be a dribble in your piss x

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Some folk just feel the need to boast. Probably all lies as well.

Dodged a bullet, I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some folk just feel the need to boast. Probably all lies as well.

Dodged a bullet, I'd say"

This, totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some folk just feel the need to boast. Probably all lies as well.

Dodged a bullet, I'd say"

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt worry about it, it is a good job we can pick and choose our friends . Some people seem to have everything but manners x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldnt worry about it, it is a good job we can pick and choose our friends . Some people seem to have everything but manners x"
well said , x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

You simply didn't get on and at the end of the day we're not all going to get on with everyone meet.

I think this is pretty unfair on the couple concerned to be speaking about them like this in the forums tho.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Going along to your first social can be very daunting. Maybe they were just really nervous. Also, I would expect anyone arranging a social to make everyone feel welcome and they, the organiser/host, should mingle and ensure no one is excluded. Just my thoughts. I also agree with Jacs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could have used the Mrs Brown line, every time you want or feel like saying F Off just say "Thats nice"

try it, bet it makes you smile

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By *ootlover456Man
over a year ago

Paisley

possible they were just nervous and prattling on. why the feel the need to boast about money and staff is beyond me however. sigh some folk just cant see beyond the material world to what is truly valuable

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"You could have used the Mrs Brown line, every time you want or feel like saying F Off just say "Thats nice"

try it, bet it makes you smile"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could have used the Mrs Brown line, every time you want or feel like saying F Off just say "Thats nice"

try it, bet it makes you smile"

Made me smile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now that its in your head, I bet it sticks - even when you use it properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You simply didn't get on and at the end of the day we're not all going to get on with everyone meet.

I think this is pretty unfair on the couple concerned to be speaking about them like this in the forums tho."

i agree.What happened to discretion if i have a bad meet i dont verify, end of. why feel the need to inform the whole site, i dont understand what you hoped to gain by doing so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I appreciate everyone has there own opinion and welcome all your comments negative or not, however I was not the organiser and I did try and chat to them and would never make anyone unwelcome , I also never said there name as I did not want to be rude, where as they write in there status worst meet ever.

Begs the question should we not say anything negative and just give good verifications , even if it's untrue. X

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


" I appreciate everyone has there own opinion and welcome all your comments negative or not, however I was not the organiser and I did try and chat to them and would never make anyone unwelcome , I also never said there name as I did not want to be rude, where as they write in there status worst meet ever.

Begs the question should we not say anything negative and just give good verifications , even if it's untrue. X "
I don't think it matters if you said their name or not they can still read the forums.

You would have a fun meet and if it was not what you expected announce it to the forums would you?

If I met someone and the meet didn't go well I'd then I'd be taking half the blame for that, and yes I would still verify the person as genuine if they turned up for the meet.

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By *ootlover456Man
over a year ago

Paisley

no one should endeavour to be simply honest.

fear of being rude and offending others is a by-product of the nanny state we find ourselves living in. we are so concerned about offending others that we constantly allow the rude and obnoxious who don't care.to have their own way.

in the words of Steve Hughes offending someone is not a crime and sometimes people need a little offending so that they modify their behaviour.

(not that im saying be outright rude to people you understand. just don't take it lying down from them either kinda thing)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I appreciate everyone has there own opinion and welcome all your comments negative or not, however I was not the organiser and I did try and chat to them and would never make anyone unwelcome , I also never said there name as I did not want to be rude, where as they write in there status worst meet ever.

Begs the question should we not say anything negative and just give good verifications , even if it's untrue. X I don't think it matters if you said their name or not they can still read the forums.

You would have a fun meet and if it was not what you expected announce it to the forums would you?

If I met someone and the meet didn't go well I'd then I'd be taking half the blame for that, and yes I would still verify the person as genuine if they turned up for the meet. "

It appears to be because of what they posted on their status and got in first. You could just have chosen not to verify them and leave it at that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I appreciate everyone has there own opinion and welcome all your comments negative or not, however I was not the organiser and I did try and chat to them and would never make anyone unwelcome , I also never said there name as I did not want to be rude, where as they write in there status worst meet ever.

Begs the question should we not say anything negative and just give good verifications , even if it's untrue. X I don't think it matters if you said their name or not they can still read the forums.

You would have a fun meet and if it was not what you expected announce it to the forums would you?

If I met someone and the meet didn't go well I'd then I'd be taking half the blame for that, and yes I would still verify the person as genuine if they turned up for the meet.

It appears to be because of what they posted on their status and got in first. You could just have chosen not to verify them and leave it at that.

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I am not on here to cause anyone any hatred , this site is for fun and that's the way I want to keep it,

No they had not wrote there status first and also it was not there first time at a social.

Thanks for your opinion though , take care goddess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I appreciate everyone has there own opinion and welcome all your comments negative or not, however I was not the organiser and I did try and chat to them and would never make anyone unwelcome , I also never said there name as I did not want to be rude, where as they write in there status worst meet ever.

Begs the question should we not say anything negative and just give good verifications , even if it's untrue. X I don't think it matters if you said their name or not they can still read the forums.

You would have a fun meet and if it was not what you expected announce it to the forums would you?

If I met someone and the meet didn't go well I'd then I'd be taking half the blame for that, and yes I would still verify the person as genuine if they turned up for the meet. "
would I he'll verify them !

I met a guy for a social drink ... He changed the date twice

And when we did meet he kept answering his phone every 5/10 mins... Seriously!!!

When I finally said you know what that's a tad rude so think I'm gonna leave

He still had the cheek to ask me to verify him!

Erm noooo

Why would I let someone else endure this guys company???

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


" I appreciate everyone has there own opinion and welcome all your comments negative or not, however I was not the organiser and I did try and chat to them and would never make anyone unwelcome , I also never said there name as I did not want to be rude, where as they write in there status worst meet ever.

Begs the question should we not say anything negative and just give good verifications , even if it's untrue. X I don't think it matters if you said their name or not they can still read the forums.

You would have a fun meet and if it was not what you expected announce it to the forums would you?

If I met someone and the meet didn't go well I'd then I'd be taking half the blame for that, and yes I would still verify the person as genuine if they turned up for the meet. would I he'll verify them !

I met a guy for a social drink ... He changed the date twice

And when we did meet he kept answering his phone every 5/10 mins... Seriously!!!

When I finally said you know what that's a tad rude so think I'm gonna leave

He still had the cheek to ask me to verify him!

Erm noooo

Why would I let someone else endure this guys company???"
obviously it would depend on the circumstances as every meet is different.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"You simply didn't get on and at the end of the day we're not all going to get on with everyone meet.

I think this is pretty unfair on the couple concerned to be speaking about them like this in the forums tho.

i agree.What happened to discretion if i have a bad meet i dont verify, end of. why feel the need to inform the whole site, i dont understand what you hoped to gain by doing so."

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