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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who feels stalked? Does anyone have unwanted or overbearing attention from another member? Are you a stalker? Do you lurk in the shadows in your dirty raincoat, thick lenses NHS specs obsessing about the live of your life or dream fuck buddy? Perhaps you're an insecure soul who is such an attention whore you want a stalker? No judgements, no restraining orders....it's confession time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried to be a stalker but don't have the required patience for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have more than a few stalkers on here. If they were to stalk me in the true sense (follow me outside, spy on me etc) they'd soon get bored and find someone exciting to turn their attentions to haha!

Lx

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

We have talked about this Ozzie and I've apologised ..... There was no need for the restraining order..... I was only tidying your drawers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have more than a few stalkers on here. If they were to stalk me in the true sense (follow me outside, spy on me etc) they'd soon get bored and find someone exciting to turn their attentions to haha!

Lx"

I have faithfully observed the conditions of the restraining order you had put in place. I only wanted to sniff the cape....honest!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have faithfully observed the conditions of the restraining order you had put in place. I only wanted to sniff the cape....honest!! "

The order is there for your protection my lovely

Muahahaha!

Just joshin. Come under my cloak, there's lots of room and fun to be had under here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a stalker and his name is Ozzie. He eats out of my bins, sleeps in my orangery and washes in my bird bath.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have talked about this Ozzie and I've apologised ..... There was no need for the restraining order..... I was only tidying your drawers "

I know JC but it was the destruction of my didgeridoo and boomerang collection that hurt the most!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some unwanted attention from a few undesirables shall we say. Eventually they take the hint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a stalker in real life about 15 years ago, but havnt seen her since.

Either she stopped or just got really good at it

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"We have talked about this Ozzie and I've apologised ..... There was no need for the restraining order..... I was only tidying your drawers

I know JC but it was the destruction of my didgeridoo and boomerang collection that hurt the most! "

Well you spend too much time with them and not enough hanging on my every word so you deserve it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had some unwanted attention from a few undesirables shall we say. Eventually they take the hint "

What if they don't LMN at what point does it become frightening? I know of one female member who's had someone come into her place of work and quizz her about veris. Would you not agree that's quite worrying and may require the intervention if the authorities?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip I have been stalked to the point it's going to end up in the hands of the police when you block someone that should be the end of it but no it isn't people say it's harmless but when it gets to the stage you have fear it's far from harmless

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Yip I have been stalked to the point it's going to end up in the hands of the police when you block someone that should be the end of it but no it isn't people say it's harmless but when it gets to the stage you have fear it's far from harmless "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yip I have been stalked to the point it's going to end up in the hands of the police when you block someone that should be the end of it but no it isn't people say it's harmless but when it gets to the stage you have fear it's far from harmless "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had some unwanted attention from a few undesirables shall we say. Eventually they take the hint

What if they don't LMN at what point does it become frightening? I know of one female member who's had someone come into her place of work and quizz her about veris. Would you not agree that's quite worrying and may require the intervention if the authorities? "

I had one who told me my full address & how he liked my shoes that day! It did freak me out but no way would I let him see that he was scaring me Tbh, its a power trip to them & if you let them see it doesn't bother you - although it does - then they don't have the power anymore. He was messaging the guys on my verification telling them to keep back etc. This was way at the start of fab for me when I didn't really understand how it worked or what info was too much to be giving out, was way too naïve for my own good & it did make me leave for a bit but since I've came back I became a wee tough cookie & take no shite from anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yip I have been stalked to the point it's going to end up in the hands of the police when you block someone that should be the end of it but no it isn't people say it's harmless but when it gets to the stage you have fear it's far from harmless "

it's terrifying. There is one man on here who has stalked me for years, I block him all the time from numerous profiles I've had but he has still found out personal details about me which he feels the need to put up in the chatrooms, it is really scary especially if he were ever to find out where I live. I don't even know how he finds out details about me but what can you do, I've asked admin for help loads and get nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one, female or male should ever have to suffer fear in this way

Get the boys in blue on the case

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It would appear that as though this is quite a serious concern for the ladies and some of the experienced detailed are terrifying to say the least. It is disturbing to think that an individual would intrude on someone's life like that....just shows that there are some truly creepy bastards out there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one, female or male should ever have to suffer fear in this way

Get the boys in blue on the case "

Well said quarter father

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeeez! That is scary! Why would someone get a kick out of scaring someone else like that? Esp if it's a proper random from the internet!

I think I'm to annoying to stalk haha! I can be an evil bitch and they would just get pissed off and go find someone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one, female or male should ever have to suffer fear in this way

Get the boys in blue on the case "

And say what though, some guy on a swingers site I've never met is going about giving out personal info? Don't think anything can be done until something bad happens. I messaged him the other week about why he's doing this and the things he said.... Creepy!!! Won't let it spoil my fun but if he ever brings harm to me or anyone close to me I will have his balls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would appear that as though this is quite a serious concern for the ladies and some of the experienced detailed are terrifying to say the least. It is disturbing to think that an individual would intrude on someone's life like that....just shows that there are some truly creepy bastards out there! "

I was in an abusive relationship for a few years as well which made me the person I am today & I promised myself from the day I left that coward that no other man would make me feel the way he did, as I said to my unwanted visitor, do your worst matey because I've had better eejits than you try & they failed lol. Not an experience I would wish on anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one, female or male should ever have to suffer fear in this way

Get the boys in blue on the case

And say what though, some guy on a swingers site I've never met is going about giving out personal info? Don't think anything can be done until something bad happens. I messaged him the other week about why he's doing this and the things he said.... Creepy!!! Won't let it spoil my fun but if he ever brings harm to me or anyone close to me I will have his balls! "

Wee one, don't matter a shit where you met him from, it's not where you met its his actions since that are verging on if not actually illegal

Seriously, get the bobbies on his case

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"No one, female or male should ever have to suffer fear in this way

Get the boys in blue on the case

And say what though, some guy on a swingers site I've never met is going about giving out personal info? Don't think anything can be done until something bad happens. I messaged him the other week about why he's doing this and the things he said.... Creepy!!! Won't let it spoil my fun but if he ever brings harm to me or anyone close to me I will have his balls! "

Unfortunately there are some individuals out there that think it's ok to hassle , abuse and threaten .... The police are really good about it and they don't care if it's from a swinging site or not

Ignoring them is often the best thing to do as they get bored and move on.... But it doesn't always work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or bury them in the patio

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or bury them in the patio "

I like this woman!

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By *ootlover456Man
over a year ago

Paisley

cant say ive ever stalked or been stalked. but my advise is that boys in blue are not always so helpful. always so hampered by that pesky law buisness id go for the personal approach. let em follow ye somewhere (be secretly escorted by a friend just in case) lead em into a trap and have some of your friends and your good selves have some polite words and teach some valuable lessons about privacy and consequences of being a creep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or bury them in the patio

I like this woman!"
ive ran oota space...is it acceptable to start using the neighbours ?

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


" Ignoring them is often the best thing to do as they get bored and move on.... "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

always best to report concerns...

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By *tever1980Man
over a year ago

bathgate


"I have more than a few stalkers on here. If they were to stalk me in the true sense (follow me outside, spy on me etc) they'd soon get bored and find someone exciting to turn their attentions to haha!

Lx"

I'm offeri g my services to stalk you in real life...

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