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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How come it seems married men on here frowned upon but married women are welcome? We are both in the same boat - looking for company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there are so few women on the site compared to the number of men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because there are so few women on the site compared to the number of men "

we are rather outnumbered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna crack open a family sized bag of Maltesers for this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because there are so few women on the site compared to the number of men

we are rather outnumbered! "

Lucky us

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By *awk3y3Man
over a year ago

West Lothian

Grabs a seat on the front row bench, breaks open the caramel popcorn....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna crack open a family sized bag of Maltesers for this one "

You sharing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna crack open a family sized bag of Maltesers for this one

You sharing? "

Mmmmmm since it's you OK, but it's not all we're sharing is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm gonna crack open a family sized bag of Maltesers for this one

You sharing?

Mmmmmm since it's you OK, but it's not all we're sharing is it? "

Depends what else is on offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

That's life I guess OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what else is on offer "

Tickets to see the Wallabies play at Murrayfield!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what else is on offer

Tickets to see the Wallabies play at Murrayfield! "

Depends who they are playing anybody but the Springboks and thats no problem otherwise you got no chance

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"How come it seems married men on here frowned upon but married women are welcome? We are both in the same boat - looking for company "
who has actually said this ?

I know a few married fems and males and they both do ok for meets on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was married when I first joined fab have never judged anyone who is

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I frown on married fems just as much as married men ots wrong no matter whichsex you are

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Without partners knowledge is the key part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our opinion its just wrong, male or female, not swinging, but each to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll take the tickets - I need a good laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely its for that person to make the choice...there are many many factors why married people are on here without their partners knowledge....if it's not for you then no reason to contact them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely its for that person to make the choice...there are many many factors why married people are on here without their partners knowledge....if it's not for you then no reason to contact them"

^^^this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sticks head in, thinks. Oh shit, not again and pisses off quietly shaking head

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

If it's sweet popcorn I will have that..... If it's salty I will have malteasers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody really knows what goes on behind the curtains of a typical married home.

EVERY marriage has its ups and downs and yes at some point majority of people stray for various reasons

I am no angel but then I don't confess to being Christian either what is it your book sayeth "Let he who has not sinned throw the first stone" greenhouses come to mind

I'm more light a candle for a sinner, LOL let's watch the world burn

Nah everybody is here for there own reasons with or without their partners consent.

Technically, you are all breaking your marital vows as well as your 10 Commandments but hell that's another argument

Live and let live .

And if they get caught, It is them alone that face the wrath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Incidentally I hate dry popcorn like mine toffee flavoured

Maltesers. Mmmmm

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Incidentally I hate dry popcorn like mine toffee flavoured

Maltesers. Mmmmm"

Agreed toffee is the one

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Nobody really knows what goes on behind the curtains of a typical married home.

EVERY marriage has its ups and downs and yes at some point majority of people stray for various reasons

I am no angel but then I don't confess to being Christian either what is it your book sayeth "Let he who has not sinned throw the first stone" greenhouses come to mind

I'm more light a candle for a sinner, LOL let's watch the world burn

Nah everybody is here for there own reasons with or without their partners consent.

Technically, you are all breaking your marital vows as well as your 10 Commandments but hell that's another argument

Live and let live .

And if they get caught, It is them alone that face the wrath "

I think you hint the nail on the head when u say its them alone that face the wrath , unfortunately not always the case , even if the meeter be it man or woman believes the person to be single they to can feel the wrath of a scorned partner , hence the reason I feel married people are frowned upon. That is my opinion for what its worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say if they are open about the fact they are married

It's up to the individual to make up his/ her mind to meet the said person

It's when someone lies about being single when their not and the shit hits the fan is when things take a turn for the worse

Male or female

But I think I agree with the OP

Yip men get frowned apon more that woman

That's fab life tho x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without partners knowledge is the key part"

Totally 100% correct.

And they also lie about being single.

No wonder women/men get pissed off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without partners knowledge is the key part

Totally 100% correct.

And they also lie about being single.

No wonder women/men get pissed off."

Not everyone lies...yes there are those that do but its up to them that they make the choice to.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I'd say if they are open about the fact they are married

It's up to the individual to make up his/ her mind to meet the said person

It's when someone lies about being single when their not and the shit hits the fan is when things take a turn for the worse

Male or female

But I think I agree with the OP

Yip men get frowned apon more that woman

That's fab life tho x "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without partners knowledge is the key part

Totally 100% correct.

And they also lie about being single.

No wonder women/men get pissed off.

Not everyone lies...yes there are those that do but its up to them that they make the choice to. "

Only 99.9% of them then

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Not everyone on here are the people they want you to believe they are.

Some admit they are married and some don't I think the difficulty in acceptance is that many say won't meet married or attached when it's obviously clear they do. some just don't want to admit they meet married or attached people then show verifications from people who clearly are.

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By *macv9Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I think the difficulty in acceptance is that many say won't meet married or attached when it's obviously clear they do. "

Hadn't really thought of that.

I've certainly noticed that there are plenty couples contact me even though my profile clearly states that I'm married and their profile states that they won't meet married/attached guys.

You would think that if they have that concern about married guys then they would at least want some way of verifying that my husband is ok with me doing what I do. But no, they never ask for any proof!

I'm glad it's the way it is for me. It means I can go to meets, cj's or whatever wearing my wedding ring and being completely up front.

I wouldn't have much sympathy for a married guy who can't get meets if he's doing it without his wife's consent. But for the married guys who do have consent, then, yes, it must be a bit of a bummer to say the least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everyone on here are the people they want you to believe they are.

Some admit they are married and some don't I think the difficulty in acceptance is that many say won't meet married or attached when it's obviously clear they do. some just don't want to admit they meet married or attached people then show verifications from people who clearly are. "

And some people are lied to by the said married folk who pretend they are single,then when the meet happens they either confess,or they are found out.

Hey ho! maybe that's why some folk are extra cautious.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Not everyone on here are the people they want you to believe they are.

Some admit they are married and some don't I think the difficulty in acceptance is that many say won't meet married or attached when it's obviously clear they do. some just don't want to admit they meet married or attached people then show verifications from people who clearly are.

And some people are lied to by the said married folk who pretend they are single,then when the meet happens they either confess,or they are found out.

Hey ho! maybe that's why some folk are extra cautious."
As I said some will admit it some won't, most people know that some will say anything on here to get a meet and that's a fact.

Sadly some lessons are learnt the hard Way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everyone on here are the people they want you to believe they are.

Some admit they are married and some don't I think the difficulty in acceptance is that many say won't meet married or attached when it's obviously clear they do. some just don't want to admit they meet married or attached people then show verifications from people who clearly are.

And some people are lied to by the said married folk who pretend they are single,then when the meet happens they either confess,or they are found out.

Hey ho! maybe that's why some folk are extra cautious.As I said some will admit it some won't, most people know that some will say anything on here to get a meet and that's a fact.

Sadly some lessons are learnt the hard Way. "

True very true,sadly we ain't allowed to name the culprits.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I'm sure people will find out who to avoid themselves its how we all learn to deal with it that makes all the difference.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if it is mentioned, people can make an informed choice to meet or not.

that is the best way,

but I agree men get it in the neck, women lesser so.

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