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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people wink then ignore?

Wink then mail me once I mail back they delete messages & block.

Is it just time wasters or are people on here actually tryin to fuck me about?

Feel free to ask ur own questions no doubt I'll just be ignored!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people do the strangest things at times, there isn't always a logical answer...

never let it bother you

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Yep they are ALL hell bent on fecking you about... seriously if its happening all the time maybe its time to look at what your actually saying in these messages could be your responses are putting them off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"people do the strangest things at times, there isn't always a logical answer...

never let it bother you "

I don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep they are ALL hell bent on fecking you about... seriously if its happening all the time maybe its time to look at what your actually saying in these messages could be your responses are putting them off "

Not all the time jus more than I'd like but my messages usually just say hi I'm "NAME" how are you

Just to try & get the ball rolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes even polite messages are ignored simply because women, bless them change their minds, it is their prerogative after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink to see if they either wink back or message, if they look at the profile and do neither then their not interested,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is it's really not worth getting bent out of shape about it.

Yes it somebody winks or messages the polite thing to do is respond, even if it's a polite no thanks.

That said nobody's under any obligation to respond and if they don't just take it as a no thanks and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people wink then ignore?

Wink then mail me once I mail back they delete messages & block.

Is it just time wasters or are people on here actually tryin to fuck me about?

Feel free to ask ur own questions no doubt I'll just be ignored! "
I dunno, do you refer back to your message and maybe self critical style see where it might of been deemed naff, or pushy, or insistant, or too enthusiastic r too wordy, or even not enough words in it ? All possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people wink then ignore?

Wink then mail me once I mail back they delete messages & block.

Is it just time wasters or are people on here actually tryin to fuck me about?

Feel free to ask ur own questions no doubt I'll just be ignored! I dunno, do you refer back to your message and maybe self critical style see where it might of been deemed naff, or pushy, or insistant, or too enthusiastic r too wordy, or even not enough words in it ? All possible."
lol probably 1 or 2 of those things bu I never mail people first am not too keen on rejection so I let people come to me

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Winking is a bit like smiling at a stranger in the street.

The chances are nothing will come of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear,

You need to start accepting rejection or this place will get to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people wink then ignore?

Wink then mail me once I mail back they delete messages & block.

Is it just time wasters or are people on here actually tryin to fuck me about?

Feel free to ask ur own questions no doubt I'll just be ignored! "

I tend to reply to most mail these fancy a fuck messages are instantly blocked because they haven't taken time to read the Profile. Sometimes people do change there minds which is allowed,everyone no matter whether Male or female are allowed to say no, although some find it harder than others to move on also people need to except that they aren't a victim so enough from me or my ass will be freezing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh dear,

You need to start accepting rejection or this place will get to you"

I can take rejection I just don't like when I I ever mail sum1 they don't respond just delete & block a simple no thanks not what I'm lookin for would be fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people wink then ignore?

Wink then mail me once I mail back they delete messages & block.

Is it just time wasters or are people on here actually tryin to fuck me about?

Feel free to ask ur own questions no doubt I'll just be ignored!

I tend to reply to most mail these fancy a fuck messages are instantly blocked because they haven't taken time to read the Profile. Sometimes people do change there minds which is allowed,everyone no matter whether Male or female are allowed to say no, although some find it harder than others to move on also people need to except that they aren't a victim so enough from me or my ass will be freezing "

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