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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im sure this will have been discussed on here before but what is it wi folk blocking profiles of people they havent even spoke to before? I clicked on an advert just there for the first time to find im blocked. Whats up wi that?? Some fowk on here arent half up there own arses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do you care if they blocked you? or maybe they just blocked all single guys cause your not what you lookin for therefore they just stopped you wasting your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have the same probs with people blocking me if some one on here dosent like you they will block you and so will there friends i have come accross the same problem but dont let it get to you end of the day its there loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sure this will have been discussed on here before but what is it wi folk blocking profiles of people they havent even spoke to before? I clicked on an advert just there for the first time to find im blocked. Whats up wi that?? Some fowk on here arent half up there own arses."

People have a choice who they wish to speak to and what profiles they are looking for, whatever reasons they may be its a personal choice. For me because of major hassel iv had on the site you cannot contact me unless you are verified but thats my choice. To make a comment "Some fowk on here are up their own arses" isnt called for because you dont know the circumstances behind the blocking ... as one person has already said it maybe they are not looking for single guys and to not waste ur time they have put a block on single guys .. or maybe you have to be verified gen before you can contact them .. Dont take it personally babes xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The person is looking for single guys though so theyre gonna have a hard job if all single guy profiles are blocked are they not?

I dont particularly care that Ive been blocked, I just find it rather odd that someone would block somebody they have had no interaction with whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It coud have been done in error .. iv done that before and found out when I was in the chatroom .. I had no idea I had done it... who knows but if your not bothered then I dont understand why you put this on a forum. It happends im sure ppl have blocked me I just move on and can honestly it doesnt bother me but I understand your frustration .. rise above it whatever the reason is and chat to other ppl who are willing to make the effort with you ... happy hunting xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why bother, they either;

1.) Have seen you and can't be bothered with you so your blocked as an individual profile.

or

2.) Can't be bothered with anyone of your status, be it non-verified/male whatever..

Either way, do you want to meet someone who has no real interest in meeting you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we got an email a few weeks ago from a bi girl in glasgow, a nice email saying hi etc and that mabye we could be what she was looking for....went to reply and we were blocked lol. Must have been done by mistake, but theres no way to find out or let her know, hopefully she wont think we ignored her and will see we were blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sure this will have been discussed on here before but what is it wi folk blocking profiles of people they havent even spoke to before? I clicked on an advert just there for the first time to find im blocked. Whats up wi that?? Some fowk on here arent half up there own arses."

Any guy that consistantly/persistantly looks up my info, sorry, but,,,gets blocked, my profiles for fems, cpls and guys decent enough to intro themselves and say hi if any element of what i do interests them,if your lookin n lookin n saying diddly them my profiles an open book for who?

T

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im sure this will have been discussed on here before but what is it wi folk blocking profiles of people they havent even spoke to before? I clicked on an advert just there for the first time to find im blocked. Whats up wi that?? Some fowk on here arent half up there own arses.

Any guy that consistantly/persistantly looks up my info, sorry, but,,,gets blocked, my profiles for fems, cpls and guys decent enough to intro themselves and say hi if any element of what i do interests them,if your lookin n lookin n saying diddly them my profiles an open book for who?

T "

Fair enough but this member wasnt a gold or silver member either so wouldnt whod been looking. As i say Im no that bothered, just wonder why some folk do things like that for no reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sure this will have been discussed on here before but what is it wi folk blocking profiles of people they havent even spoke to before? I clicked on an advert just there for the first time to find im blocked. Whats up wi that?? Some fowk on here arent half up there own arses.

Any guy that consistantly/persistantly looks up my info, sorry, but,,,gets blocked, my profiles for fems, cpls and guys decent enough to intro themselves and say hi if any element of what i do interests them,if your lookin n lookin n saying diddly them my profiles an open book for who?

T

Fair enough but this member wasnt a gold or silver member either so wouldnt whod been looking. As i say Im no that bothered, just wonder why some folk do things like that for no reason "

Not their cup o tea? Think its been suggested, would be a full time job if everyone wanted to meet everyone else,lol

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sure this will have been discussed on here before but what is it wi folk blocking profiles of people they havent even spoke to before? I clicked on an advert just there for the first time to find im blocked. Whats up wi that?? Some fowk on here arent half up there own arses.

Any guy that consistantly/persistantly looks up my info, sorry, but,,,gets blocked, my profiles for fems, cpls and guys decent enough to intro themselves and say hi if any element of what i do interests them,if your lookin n lookin n saying diddly them my profiles an open book for who?

T

Fair enough but this member wasnt a gold or silver member either so wouldnt whod been looking. As i say Im no that bothered, just wonder why some folk do things like that for no reason "

And are you 100% sure its a singular block on you and not a universal "all single males" block?

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its up to each own person who they block or not ... im sure they have their reasons... as i have mine when blocking peeps!!

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area


"The person is looking for single guys though so theyre gonna have a hard job if all single guy profiles are blocked are they not?

I dont particularly care that Ive been blocked, I just find it rather odd that someone would block somebody they have had no interaction with whatsoever."
i have looked at my block list before and have discovered that there are people on it i have not blocked. it could be a glitch in system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

geez,, get over yourself,,, don't take it personally, no means no in this world. move on to the next one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"geez,, get over yourself,,, don't take it personally, no means no in this world. move on to the next one."

LOL...I'm sure many were thinking the same thing: I know I was!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"geez,, get over yourself,,, don't take it personally, no means no in this world. move on to the next one."

Kinda missed the point havent you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"geez,, get over yourself,,, don't take it personally, no means no in this world. move on to the next one.

Kinda missed the point havent you"

YAAAAAAAWWWWWNNNN!

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!


"geez,, get over yourself,,, don't take it personally, no means no in this world. move on to the next one.

Kinda missed the point havent you"

what is the point then? Without descending into calling people "up their own arses"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"geez,, get over yourself,,, don't take it personally, no means no in this world. move on to the next one.

Kinda missed the point havent you

what is the point then? Without descending into calling people "up their own arses""

well put lil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..................Some fowk on here arent half up there own arses."

i wondered why it was always so dark here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"geez,, get over yourself,,, don't take it personally, no means no in this world. move on to the next one.

Kinda missed the point havent you

what is the point then? Without descending into calling people "up their own arses""

As Ive said, why would someone block a profile when the person hadnt even spoke to them before? Click on someones profile for the very first time and find youre blocked. I find it strange so i raised the point in the forums which i thought was what the forums were for. However seems Im wrong.

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

Anyone can block anyone for any reason. You never know the person could have looked at your profile and decided they didn't want to meet you/contact you so they blocked you.

We have block buttons for a reason, they are there to be used. Do you really want to meet someone who has blocked you?

Rather than letting it eat you up inside then I would suggest that you write it off and carry on with your search for someone.

ALtho it has to be said, after your post in here I think you will be in for a hard search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you have mailed them and just forgot about it? it does happen im first to admit if someone mails me and they not what im lookin for for whatever reason i block them saves them time and me time!

as for the mass blockin of people by the greatly fabled fab clique iv never heard of that??

dont let it worry you just move on get over it and have fun lookin and chattin etc with the ones who havent blocked u!

people have their own reasons why they block and its their business and theirs only! from the woman with a block list that startin to look longer than her friends list...... x

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I've probably blocked quite a few people who haven't contacted me. There are a variety of reasons for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've probably blocked quite a few people who haven't contacted me. There are a variety of reasons for it"

Please share some of your reasons. Thats why i posted the thread, to find out reasons for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've probably blocked quite a few people who haven't contacted me. There are a variety of reasons for it

Please share some of your reasons. Thats why i posted the thread, to find out reasons for it."

Do people have to explain their reasons to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairyhorses... I think we can safely say your not the only person who has been blocked with no explanation for doing this and as we have already heard there could be numerous reasons for this but they might still not be the reason as to why you have been blocked. YOu will not get a proper explanation on here because ppl have diff views and looking for diff kind of ppl .. why dont you please put it behind you and move on like what others have had to do and chat to others xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im no being rude, and im no pickin on you but to be honest i think you have problems handling rejection and on here you have to get used to it or it will really get you down and it wont do you any good. the swingin world is not a place for anyone who has issues with rejection as it can be a very harsh place xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ill know better than to air a point in here again. Cant help notice the difference in tones within the replies when a single female airs a point as opposed to the single men who do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im no being rude, and im no pickin on you but to be honest i think you have problems handling rejection and on here you have to get used to it or it will really get you down and it wont do you any good. the swingin world is not a place for anyone who has issues with rejection as it can be a very harsh place xx"

I wasnt rejected. Id never spoke to the person before. I couldnt give a damn about rejection if i had been rejected. The point of the damn thread was why people block folk they hadnt had any messages from

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"im no being rude, and im no pickin on you but to be honest i think you have problems handling rejection and on here you have to get used to it or it will really get you down and it wont do you any good. the swingin world is not a place for anyone who has issues with rejection as it can be a very harsh place xx

I wasnt rejected. Id never spoke to the person before. I couldnt give a damn about rejection if i had been rejected. The point of the damn thread was why people block folk they hadnt had any messages from"

Simple answer!! - Because they wanted to!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and because they can! the same as you can and i can and everyone can! maybe you didnt meet the criteria! maybe they block every man in x amount of mile radius in case its someone they know, maybe they block people who not been verified or are newbies you can do that! there a list as long as the m77 to why people block people its how people deal with the facts that people can do this is the main focus x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and because they can! the same as you can and i can and everyone can! maybe you didnt meet the criteria! maybe they block every man in x amount of mile radius in case its someone they know, maybe they block people who not been verified or are newbies you can do that! there a list as long as the m77 to why people block people its how people deal with the facts that people can do this is the main focus x"
finally someone willing to reply to the point instead of having a go. Thank you

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Im sure this will have been discussed on here before but what is it wi folk blocking profiles of people they havent even spoke to before? I clicked on an advert just there for the first time to find im blocked. Whats up wi that?? Some fowk on here arent half up there own arses."

i wouldnt take it to heart hun they maybe have all single men blocked from mailing them i always say on a site like this it takes all sorts to make a community as the saying goes for some NOWT QUEERER THN FOLK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found im blocked by someone i have not contacted either and like thread starter i am genuinely puzzled why anyone would block me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've been chatting to someone for a while and seemed to be getting on quite well in a fun and flirty manner until it came to share a face pic and suddenly "Blocked" - not even a "not what I'm looking for, sorry. Take care" which is at least something.

It does knock your self esteem somewhat, and it's a shame as my verifications are very good.

Still, onward and upward!

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By *0tmilkMan
over a year ago

kircaldy

What annoys me is folk that send me an email along the lines of

"So you've looked at my profile, and not emailed me! Typical, sod you" and then bans you so you can't even reply to say "sorry not my cup of tea, or even sorry"!

And this is comment relates to at least 1 of the folk in this post!

I'm new here I just want to have a look around, have a think, look again maybe and then If I like someone I'll message them. What I don't expect is to get flamed for just looking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been blocked by someone who uses chat , probably because i am fem and this guy likes men , but was blocked in chat when i clicked his cam , i have taken no offence to this as he has his reasons , we all block for different reasons , i block if a person is persistant after i have politely said no thank you , blocking can be a bit of an annoyance but on the whole not a big deal , there are plenty on this site for everyone and I am sure you will find folks on here who wont block at the drop of a hat and are worthy of ur time and effort , lets get back to basics and spread the love with the unblocked . Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find stuff, particularly in forums, either fun, funny, ironic,laughable,kinda the way to go in here, declaring to all that things "annoy",hmmm,not swingingly endearing quality.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been blocked and don't give a hoot as I have blocked ppl also. Personnal choice no reasons given and none asked for. End of!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grrrrroovy,,lol

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