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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

this soft play thingy a just dont get the hang of it

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"this soft play thingy a just dont get the hang of it "

Don't do it then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this soft play thingy a just dont get the hang of it

Don't do it then! "
lmao lol xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well explain it to me please xxxxxxxxx

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"well explain it to me please xxxxxxxxx "

You are a 46 year old female on a swinging site and you don't know what it is?? Yeah right oh!!!

But just for you here is the site's explanation found in the "Interests" section -

"Soft Swing is when there is playing around but not full penetrative sex with others. Often, in a couples situation, the women will have sex with each other with the men watching and then the couples will have sex with their own partners."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok bb got you now a think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get it either!

i understand what it is but dont understand why bother lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own I say nothing wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a great couple last week and it had been agreed beforehand that our first meet would be soft play so lots of licking, sucking and mutual masturbation. It was very horny and great fun. The reason was the other fem wasn't sure about full sex right away and we're always saying on this site no pressure. Now we've played we may well change the rules on next meet but doesn't bother me (Tom) that much as we still had a ball.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when we 1st tryed swinging we only did soft swap.some folk like 2 ease themselves into it rather than just go 4 it the 1st time!we didnt have full sex 4 about a year then took it 2 the next level.its all about being comfortable and havn fun.whatever that is 2 the individual.x auds.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

when i was married me and hubby use to do soft play but he wasnt allowed near the other female but her hubby was to touch me surly its a 2 way thing

has any one come accross this before

as i just think its a jelous hubby thing

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"when i was married me and hubby use to do soft play but he wasnt allowed near the other female but her hubby was to touch me surly its a 2 way thing

has any one come accross this before

as i just think its a jelous hubby thing"

See I knew you couldn't have got to being 46 and on a swinging site and not know what soft play was all along!

What was Karen Dunbar's catchphrase on Chewing the Fat again???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And here was me thinking all this time soft swing was when you couldn't get a hard on :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry i dnt agree soft swing is a jealous hubby thing?? In our case it was a we dnt wana rush into anything and scare us off thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And here was me thinking all this time soft swing was when you couldn't get a hard on :P"

And I always thought 'soft swing' was that game with the tennis ball on a bit of string, that you had to hit with a plastic tennis racket!!!

I must be more sheltered and innocent than I thought I was ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we came accross this before not our thing as hubby didnt get anything out it as well think it happens a lot just not our thing xx

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

soft swing is like a kid goin into the best toy shop in the world n bein told look but your not gettin anything lol some people love the eroticism of it tho just not for us tried it once n done nothing for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"soft swing is like a kid goin into the best toy shop in the world n bein told look but your not gettin anything lol some people love the eroticism of it tho just not for us tried it once n done nothing for us "
yes a agree temp were the same only full swing now for us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh, "softswappers", just prickteasers.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if anyone out there fancies 4 or 5 hours of erotic foreplay, multiple orgasms etc, and not happy with Panda`s, give us a SHOUT!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont see the issue with soft swing couples, and wouldnt consider meeting people who hit out at it. jeezo, if thats what some people are into then so be it, i dont see post by soft swing couples hitting out at full swap couples

we started our first few threesomes as soft swing as we werent really certain about the whole swing thing, and it has progressed from there. We have went the from soft to full swap, some dont.

we are all different, we look for different things and we all have the right to do so.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

def not having a pop at softies here each to their own we're all here for diff things ,if we were all here for same things it would probably be kinda boring place....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"def not having a pop at softies here each to their own we're all here for diff things ,if we were all here for same things it would probably be kinda boring place....lol "

Here, here. You never know, we might graduate someday. But the question is, are you prepared????

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By *tryxxCouple
over a year ago

central

we have done soft for years and never found it to be lacking in anything,progressed if that is the word to full swap with one couple we met many times and all were happy with it, we just feel that a 4some soft swing is very much more intimate than pairing off,each to there own and own bounderies

is the best attitude we feel.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast


"def not having a pop at softies here each to their own we're all here for diff things ,if we were all here for same things it would probably be kinda boring place....lol

Here, here. You never know, we might graduate someday. But the question is, are you prepared???? "

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i was in the scouts lol always prepared lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

WHO CARES XXXXXXX JUST ADDS TO PPL HAVING A POP AT EACH OTHER LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"WHO CARES XXXXXXX JUST ADDS TO PPL HAVING A POP AT EACH OTHER LOL "
sorry not a pop just looking for opinions lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to watch is that soft swing???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I like to watch is that soft swing??? "
no a think thats watching swing lol xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Sounds good to me. "
lol

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