FabSwingers.com forum: Shyness

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How come not a single woman thinks i am shy when i actually am - they all say no way

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I think it's maybe because your online persona is so different .... You can be quite shy at first in real life and your certainly less of a cheeky sod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You blush get flustered and rush away , I say your shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you would be shy especially if you really liked someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree with JC(I always do she'll batter me otherwise) that you have a slightly less outgoing persona in real life to your online one. Get to know you it's a different story though ha ha ha ha ha

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am naturally cheeky, but extremely shy until I relax and get to know you. In social situations I try to put on a front as otherwise it takes ages for me to get to know people. If you are the same I kind of understand why people don't believe you.

Shy

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I'd agree with JC(I always do she'll batter me otherwise) that you have a slightly less outgoing persona in real life to your online one. Get to know you it's a different story though ha ha ha ha ha "

Your learning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd agree with JC(I always do she'll batter me otherwise) that you have a slightly less outgoing persona in real life to your online one. Get to know you it's a different story though ha ha ha ha ha

Your learning

I have a good teacher.....the best in fact!!

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow

"I am naturally cheeky, but extremely shy until I relax and get to know you. In social situations I try to put on a front as otherwise it takes ages for me to get to know people. If you are the same I kind of understand why people don't believe you.

Shy

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this is me in a nutshell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say you were definitely shy(er) than some on here and online You wouldn't believe that . But I'm sure once you come out that shell once and for all there's no turning back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say you were definitely shy(er) than some on here and online You wouldn't believe that . But I'm sure once you come out that shell once and for all there's no turning back

You're a very shy retiring lady Shelley aren't you........bwahahahahahahahahahaha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say you were definitely shy(er) than some on here and online You wouldn't believe that . But I'm sure once you come out that shell once and for all there's no turning back

You're a very shy retiring lady Shelley aren't you........bwahahahahahahahahahaha!!"
Oiii I resemble that remark . I can be and am at times quite shy when put on the spot there are a few who can vouch for that !! CANT YOU FOLKS ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say you were definitely shy(er) than some on here and online You wouldn't believe that . But I'm sure once you come out that shell once and for all there's no turning back

You're a very shy retiring lady Shelley aren't you........bwahahahahahahahahahaha!!Oiii I resemble that remark . I can be and am at times quite shy when put on the spot there are a few who can vouch for that !! CANT YOU FOLKS ?????

Ehhhh the prosecution rests m'lud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say you were definitely shy(er) than some on here and online You wouldn't believe that . But I'm sure once you come out that shell once and for all there's no turning back

Eh Naw!!!!!

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I'd say you were definitely shy(er) than some on here and online You wouldn't believe that . But I'm sure once you come out that shell once and for all there's no turning back

Really struggling to agree with you on this one Shelley!

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By *ckleticklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"How come not a single woman thinks i am shy when i actually am - they all say no way

Id agree, at CJs I was trying to match faces and profiles and passed you a few times in the hallway, dont think you met my eye once. Well fairly sure it was you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're active on the forum so I think people automatically think you're quite extroverted

It's always the shy ones....

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

It's always the shy ones....

it is indeed i am the shyest 1 here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On an online forum you are who you want to be, nobody sees or judges you.

Face to face people are different, the veneer gets washed away and suddenly your bare.

Me I'm a cheeky sod, I think because I've worked for years on Glasgows doors I developed a thick skin. I could say things to people and get away with it because of the job.

If I walked up to a woman on here for the first time and it was snowing and she wasn't wearing a jacket I would discreetly watch my mouth. On a club door it's " Christ those nipples are so hard I can hang my jacket" and I'd get away with it.

Honestly I've quietened down since I retired.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

We often talk about 'keyboard warriors', those who come away with all the rubbish because they're anonymous and hiding behind their screens.

But the simple fact is that for all of us, our online personnas can be different to our real life ones. Real life is real, we can't hide, online we can be who we want to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the sane thing dude

Geek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We often talk about 'keyboard warriors', those who come away with all the rubbish because they're anonymous and hiding behind their screens.

But the simple fact is that for all of us, our online personnas can be different to our real life ones. Real life is real, we can't hide, online we can be who we want to be.

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totally agree ... Some way more than others

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't see any keyboard warriors in the Scottish Forum, that is probably because the social scene is good and people will more than likely bump into each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shy in real life when I don't know someone. Once I know the person I'm far from it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm a cheeky git on here and say lots of stuff to wind people up - not really like that in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a shy one until I get to know someone and feel comfortable. Many are surprised by how shy and reserved I am when they first meet me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a shy one until I get to know someone and feel comfortable. Many are surprised by how shy and reserved I am when they first meet me lol

Lx"

I rather like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my youth I suffered from acute shyness and in fact missed out on some wonderful opportunities because of it which makes me look back with sadness. Now, as I get ever older I am more confident and although it can take me a wee while to gain confidence in new acquaintances I no longer hold back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought you were kinda shy when I met you at cj's! Didn't help the fact I was shiteing myself haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I've met quite a few of the posters on this thread and I have to say that most of them were pretty shy at first but soon warmed up after a hug and a chat.

The exception being Shelley - she strolled over bold as brass and demanded a hug AND cake the second I first met her!!!! Shy she is not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought you were kinda shy when I met you at cj's! Didn't help the fact I was shiteing myself haha! "

Yeah sorry im hopeless chatting to people ive not spoken too before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very shy and lack confidence in myself at the moment but slowly getting back to my old self shitting my self for my first social in a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met quite a few of the posters on this thread and I have to say that most of them were pretty shy at first but soon warmed up after a hug and a chat.

The exception being Shelley - she strolled over bold as brass and demanded a hug AND cake the second I first met her!!!! Shy she is not

I will be shy when I first meet you Furry,

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I will admit..... I'm not shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will admit..... I'm not shy

I thought you would be a little shy at first

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I will admit..... I'm not shy

I thought you would be a little shy at first "

Nope,I don't know if it's because I'm a hairdresser and you've got to chat to folk you don't know but I would say I find it pretty easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will admit..... I'm not shy

I thought you would be a little shy at first

Nope,I don't know if it's because I'm a hairdresser and you've got to chat to folk you don't know but I would say I find it pretty easy

Yes true. So you always ask if they have been somewhere nice on holiday when you go on a meet then

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I will admit..... I'm not shy

I thought you would be a little shy at first

Nope,I don't know if it's because I'm a hairdresser and you've got to chat to folk you don't know but I would say I find it pretty easy

Yes true. So you always ask if they have been somewhere nice on holiday when you go on a meet then

Of course.... Doesn't everybody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes true. So you always ask if they have been somewhere nice on holiday when you go on a meet then

Of course.... Doesn't everybody

Wouldn't know I'm shy

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Yes true. So you always ask if they have been somewhere nice on holiday when you go on a meet then

Of course.... Doesn't everybody

Wouldn't know I'm shy

That just made me waste some of my wine.... And you know I hate to waste it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes true. So you always ask if they have been somewhere nice on holiday when you go on a meet then

Of course.... Doesn't everybody

Wouldn't know I'm shy

That just made me waste some of my wine.... And you know I hate to waste it

Sorry cutie. Let me wipe you down

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met quite a few of the posters on this thread and I have to say that most of them were pretty shy at first but soon warmed up after a hug and a chat.

The exception being Shelley - she strolled over bold as brass and demanded a hug AND cake the second I first met her!!!! Shy she is not

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that was not me . I was abducted by those damn aliens and had to get mulder to find me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An awful lot of fecking Pinnochios on this thread, telling huge whoppers, lies the size of whales. Shame on the lot if you. You want to know what shy is...yours truly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An awful lot of fecking Pinnochios on this thread, telling huge whoppers, lies the size of whales. Shame on the lot if you. You want to know what shy is...yours truly!! "

Haha that made me laugh. You shy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An awful lot of fecking Pinnochios on this thread, telling huge whoppers, lies the size of whales. Shame on the lot if you. You want to know what shy is...yours truly!!

Haha that made me laugh. You shy!!

Am too, very shy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am so shy i hid in the shadows

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By *oversforfun2000Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I'm very shy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a shy one until I get to know someone and feel comfortable. Many are surprised by how shy and reserved I am when they first meet me lol

Lx"

WWhhhhatttttt!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a shy one until I get to know someone and feel comfortable. Many are surprised by how shy and reserved I am when they first meet me lol

WWhhhhatttttt!!!!

Sshhhhhhh you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm very shy!!

Yeah you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come not a single woman thinks i am shy when i actually am - they all say no way

Mate I no how you feel I get the same I say I'm shy and they just laugh at me. (Mr).

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