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Losing faith in this site :-(

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not having any joy on this bloody site just constant messages from guys which doesn't float my boat...anybody else with same problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes , unfortunately the site seems to be full of no action dreamers lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree it's not looking up 2 much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your filters to block guys from mailing you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also perhaps set up a couple profile and look at what you are looking for. Age limit for example - do you really want to meet a 99 year old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having any joy on this bloody site just constant messages from guys which doesn't float my boat...anybody else with same problem?"

You've only been here 5 weeks, patience is required I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having any joy on this bloody site just constant messages from guys which doesn't float my boat...anybody else with same problem?

You've only been here 5 weeks, patience is required I'm afraid. "

Yep 5 weeks is not long on here esp for a single guy, a wee bit of patience get yourself known on the forums and chat room then get messaging ppl you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having any joy on this bloody site just constant messages from guys which doesn't float my boat...anybody else with same problem?"

Yes, it's all the site's fault for being crap. Has nothing to do with your profile or who and how you mail people.

Advice: Block men from messaging you. You're not looking for them at all so why are they not blocked?

Either get a couples profile with your FB or remove reference to her on your profile. Chances are no serious people are going to believe you have one.

Seriously improve your profile to sell yourself as at the moment you don't stand out from any other men here apart from having a public facepic, which is good.

And lower your expectations of the site.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

As has been said, I'm afraid 5 weeks on here is nothing. Go 5 months and then you can maybe complain.

And is it really the site? It's down to you and how and who you're messaging. At the end of the day, patience!

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By *dub67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Patience of a saint on here

Really starting to loose the will

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers 4 the advice folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip...affraid you kinda have to cool your heels with hopes of clicking on who you like and want want want to meet. Rare it pans out like that.

Most have familiar established meets, or are snowed under by messages etc...luck of the draw and all that.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I do ok.

Not sure why I am doing better than you guys - maybe I'm more patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a decent lad not to bad on the eye u think lol nice pictures and been on here for months no joy either m8 I feel your pain I message nice messages no reply what's so ever unless it's to just say no thanks lol where's all the happy go lucky people im a playful person fun and bubbly what do women want in here pml

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep the faith - met some absolute stunning people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep the faith - met some absolute stunning people on here "

Your just lucky lol iv pulled out all the stops nothing

I love a curvy girl aswell and none interested iv no one new to message lol lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Keep the faith - met some absolute stunning people on here

Your just lucky lol iv pulled out all the stops nothing

I love a curvy girl aswell and none interested iv no one new to message lol lol "

Bumped up the post for the next social. They are good places to meet new people

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By *ranitecityMan
over a year ago

ABERDEEN

Put a cover over the macaws cage

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Met the odd lady from here, usually very odd, to be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met the odd lady from here, usually very odd, to be honest! "

You need to reconsider your selection process. Lol

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Nope I've met lots of yummy folk..... And have a few more with plans to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met the odd lady from here, usually very odd, to be honest!

You need to reconsider your selection process. Lol"

He sure does sis!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met the odd lady from here, usually very odd, to be honest!

You need to reconsider your selection process. Lol

He sure does sis!!!! "

Yourself excluded off course sis, anyone named Jinty McG is cool. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met the odd lady from here, usually very odd, to be honest! "

Anybody you can persuade that "Brigadoon" actually exists has to be considered Odd

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Met the odd lady from here, usually very odd, to be honest!

You need to reconsider your selection process. Lol"

Tell me about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a step out of YOUR shoes and then look hard in the mirror.

Be honest with yourself about what you expect from the site.

Then go look for what you expect from your own true feelings and be surprised what comes around

Too many think their gods gift and have unrealistic aims regarding wants and needs

Be honest to yourself and to others on the site

Works for me and has done for years not 5 weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take a step out of YOUR shoes and then look hard in the mirror.

Be honest with yourself about what you expect from the site.

Then go look for what you expect from your own true feelings and be surprised what comes around

Too many think their gods gift and have unrealistic aims regarding wants and needs

Be honest to yourself and to others on the site

Works for me and has done for years not 5 weeks "

Well I've never considered myself gods gift, in fact rather the opposite!

As for wants & needs I've never needed just wanted

As for honesty it's my best policy, I've nothing 2 hide so ask away.

I've checked that mirror you have mentioned & stepped out of my rigger boots but hey guess what, still the same guy, still the same expectations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile comes across as arrogant to be honest, does make you sound like you think you're gods gift. 'What can you offer me?' 'Will you be the one to thrill me?' That approach just doesn't work on here. What about what you can offer the ladies? It makes it sounds like you're happy to sit back and let them put in the effort of getting in touch which, rest assured, probably won't be the case.

Also, your profile name. Unibomber? That doesn't really throw out the right sort of vibes either fella, regardless of how amusing or irreverent you thought you were being.

Might be worth checking out other guys profiles, see who the successful ones are and see if you can figure out whats working for them.

Just a couple of small thoughts that might help get things moving along.

Good luck!

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Your profile comes across as arrogant to be honest, does make you sound like you think you're gods gift. 'What can you offer me?' 'Will you be the one to thrill me?' That approach just doesn't work on here. What about what you can offer the ladies? It makes it sounds like you're happy to sit back and let them put in the effort of getting in touch which, rest assured, probably won't be the case.

Also, your profile name. Unibomber? That doesn't really throw out the right sort of vibes either fella, regardless of how amusing or irreverent you thought you were being.

Might be worth checking out other guys profiles, see who the successful ones are and see if you can figure out whats working for them.

Just a couple of small thoughts that might help get things moving along.

Good luck!

"

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Your profile comes across as arrogant to be honest, does make you sound like you think you're gods gift. 'What can you offer me?' 'Will you be the one to thrill me?' That approach just doesn't work on here. What about what you can offer the ladies? It makes it sounds like you're happy to sit back and let them put in the effort of getting in touch which, rest assured, probably won't be the case.

Also, your profile name. Unibomber? That doesn't really throw out the right sort of vibes either fella, regardless of how amusing or irreverent you thought you were being.

Might be worth checking out other guys profiles, see who the successful ones are and see if you can figure out whats working for them.

Just a couple of small thoughts that might help get things moving along.

Good luck!

"

couldnt have put it any better myself

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Take a step out of YOUR shoes and then look hard in the mirror.

Be honest with yourself about what you expect from the site.

Then go look for what you expect from your own true feelings and be surprised what comes around

Too many think their gods gift and have unrealistic aims regarding wants and needs

Be honest to yourself and to others on the site

Works for me and has done for years not 5 weeks "

very good post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am with you on this one mate, this site can be boring as hell, certainly not the tsunami of shagging i envisaged when I signed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what its worth my guess would be the best way would be to rethink your profile & username.

Thing is there's no such thing as a one size fits all profile, we all have different tastes.

Good Luck

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By *llyandjimCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

I agree it can b quite boring at times it takes a lot ov effort 2 even have a conversation with some people never mind having fun. I have been here about 6 years and always loved the socials. But these days I am finding it very cliquey.

Just as well this is not the only site am on or it would b a very lonely life with no fem fun

Ally

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