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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Time after time they pop up with typical wording on their profile saying for example , " couples or females wanted for dirty sexy fun etc."

They contact you asking if you's would be interested in joining them for fun and after days of chat (time wasting) they stop all contact only to finally message

( maybe 24 hours later) that they are not interested as your not their type or sometimes they give other similar

excuses.

Are these people photo/picture hunters as it makes me wonder?

Let's face it we seemed to be their type when they contact practically begging for us or others to join them lol.

Most are not that beautiful yet they seem to think they are too good for others.

There are lots of like ( dirty) minded people on here that are true to their word and are here for what the site is all about and good for them but yet we continue to get plagued by these time wasting dreamers lol.

These characters need to decide and stop contacting members asking to meet then wasting everyone's time.

What makes the mater laughable is that these same characters are then writing on their profile such sayings like , " why does so many people not have manners and why arrange and then no contact etc ."

They are contradicting themselves .

Sorry for the rant but these types need to face reality that the world does not revolve around their sorry ass!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it you have had a no show?

Just block delete and move on. There are always going to be people like this. Why? Because they can be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice but it makes you wonder , even had one couple over the moon that we agreed to meet and they said they would arrange a hotel but sadly two days later , no more contact .

Why on earth do these types even bother ?

They seem to follow a typical pattern of contact and offer then agree then nothing , totally laughable stuff lol .

Any thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We still have the occasional prob like that, one just recently. Just blocked them, reported them to admin, and moved on. Don't let people get under your skin. Remain positive. People don't like ranty people in general. Plenty more genuine folk out there that can and will meet if you look long enough and hard enough.

(Just not us this week - day 3 of painters in! Lol!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We will take this advice in future and just delete or block such members.

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any time. Saves any hassle we find.

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By *bzguyMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen and shire

Welcome to single male world! joking apart though sorry to hear you got messed about .its a fooker but goes along with the fun im afraid

chin up move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the point of this. What you say in your original post is that people shouldn't be allowed to message you if they have no intention of meeting you without any sort of preemptive chat at all to find out if you are for them?

People are way too quick to use the term Timewasters, particularly when it turns out to be a surprise to them that people are allowed change their minds.

I'd suggest getting out to clubs and meeting people there rather than just relying on this site to conduct your swinging lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (mr,), can't see how folk chatting to find if there's a spark is timewasting. Just because people start chatting, doesn't mean you are guaranteed a meet. As has been said, maybe try a club or a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see your point, maybe a wee bit nieve if you have this ideal that its..1. Both of the couple acting kean as mustard to meet.

2. If you think your getting dedicated 1 to 1 message.

The reality is, often its just hubby at pc...busily sending messages to various people that just appeal to him.

And people generally end up being juggled as to who they want to committ to meeting,, but you will get nothing but positiveness untill he gets "top of list cpl" respond. Then you get the dumbed down version of interest...happens.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


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Most are not that beautiful yet they seem to think they are too good for others.

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I would disagree with this point. We don't meet often so when we do meet it's only with people who tick all the boxes. This has nothing to do with thinking we're too good for others but ensuring that these occasional experiences are as good as they can possibly be. Could we meet others who don't tick all the boxes and still have fun with them? Of course, but there's no need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs and socials are the best way to go,

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