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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This thread is for all, but it will be very interesting to get the guys perspective in particular. Now I know we all like a laugh and a joke, none more so than myself but I'd appreciate it if this thread was kept serious. Men are often accused of being insensitive, of not having feelings and being callous. To scrutinise that I'll ask: When was the last time you cried and why?

Me? Early hours of Monday morning because I was told something about someone very dear to me who died 35 years ago that gave me a peace of mind that had long eluded me. I was told how proud this person had been of me and would still be. Floodgates opened and I cried unashamedly for an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks ago when my wee one asked me not to leave sobbed my heart out in car xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other night, cousin passed away

Geek

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Other night, cousin passed away

Geek "

Sorry to hear that chief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (B) cried last Wednesday after my hospital appt, in the safe confines of home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cried earlier tonight when I was on the phone to my wee boy as I haven't seen him for a couple of weeks and he was crying saying he misses me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on the 22nd of this month would have been my grans birthday I looked at her photo and said out loud happy birthday nanna then burst into tears for half hour I miss her so much

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Earlier in August. Would've been my Dad's birthday and I miss him every day. Mike, was last month on the anniversary of his Dad's death. Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As my train pulled away from Newcastle a couple weeks station and my dad was waving me off with tears in his eyes. Every damn time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most days if I let myself cry for the ones I've lost I would cry all day, it's supposed to cleanse the soul & make u feel better but it never does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably gonna be tears on saturday,it would have been my grampas 88th birthday and family are doing a wee thing to remember him on his birthday so could get kinda emotional

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Music trips my emotions , songs from certain times were almost exactly mirroring things that happened in my life . Although i still have my parents Mike and the mechanics living years never fails to start me off heard it last week .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last night had a little cry.

The truth from the mouth of babes done it to me.

Also music with real meaning has that effect on me too. Only one person has ever given me a song and it means the world to me.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

When I watched Billy Crystal talk about his dear friend Robin Williams on the Emmys I had tears in my eyes as it made me think of the ones who I've lost too

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I don't think there's anything wrong with crying as a guy at all. It's shows we are all human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last week when I went to scatter my uncles ashes at a place he loved felt that was the final goodbye will probably cry buckets friday as it would have been his 50th birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you said it was for the men Ozzie, but why would i start listening to you now?

I used to cry allllll the time.. At least every other day. I can now happily report I've not cried properly since June. Finally put the past back where it belongs and found a bit of peace about it all. Had a wee sad moment last week when it should of been his birthday, but was beyond proud of myself when I didn't cry.

Onwards and upwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres welling up, crying a wee bit.

But theres also absolutely crying like a bairn, unstoppable crying..red face and out n out sobbing yer heart oot.

I well up at the lone piper at end of edinburgh tattoo..its guaranteed, a yearly event just like the tattoo.lol.

Crying like a bairn? That was years ago,, kinda delayed because only after all the practicalities of taking my dog to the vet and not coming home with him, realising he had hung on to life to say goodbye to his dad (me), loyal as ever. Sat quietly and totally cried, only natural i like to think.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I'm not a man either but last time was just before the camping social when I was feeling threatened and down, guess I just felt sorry for myself

I don't cry often and thank god for my lovely friends who cheered me up and made me realise I was better than all that

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

If it's full on blubbing then that would have been 30th January 2005.

I'd spent 2 weeks supporting family members and arranging funeral etc

Got in the funeral car and blubbed like a child all the way to the crematorium

Was my mother in laws funeral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last nite, first time I've seen. Mum in law with wig and then she took it off to reveal. A bald head that kinda through. Me a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tuesday morning when saying farewell and remembering a close friend before they were laid to rest.....It does not take much to set me off I can be quite emotional at times and not ashamed off it.mulder.

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By *lasgowkisserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Every time celtic gets humped

Now on a weekly basis!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cry all the time! Films normally set me off lol I've been okay the last couple of weeks. I've not sobbed! But normally, I'm a very emotional person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last night when my youngest grandchild said ' love you gran ' over the phone iv a very soft heart n cry pretty often even more so the older I get age n hormones I think lol

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By *lasgowkisserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Every time b j q. Doesn't take me on......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time b j q. Doesn't take me on......"

Huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time b j q. Doesn't take me on......"

I think she's "taken you on" on the forum plenty of times

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By *lasgowkisserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah but not in her bed......

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwwww I get him now! Jeeez, for I min I thought he was high haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Folks let's keep this one serious eh? Can I also take this opportunity to apologise to all the lovely ladies who have responded, I in no way meant your input was to be excluded just that it would be interesting to have the perspective of guys who are normally very guarded about showing emotion or being vulnerable. If I offended you I apologise unreservedly

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow

Mine would have been Monday night through till Wednesday morning as due to shock and adrenaline I think i just realised what I'd came through in the last few weeks without shedding a tear I lost an uncle 2 aunts and got dumped all in less than 7 days .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine would have been Monday night through till Wednesday morning as due to shock and adrenaline I think i just realised what I'd came through in the last few weeks without shedding a tear I lost an uncle 2 aunts and got dumped all in less than 7 days ."

Dumped? His loss Joob!

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow


"Mine would have been Monday night through till Wednesday morning as due to shock and adrenaline I think i just realised what I'd came through in the last few weeks without shedding a tear I lost an uncle 2 aunts and got dumped all in less than 7 days .

Dumped? His loss Joob! "

Yes and Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been crying alot just lately and it's stuff that doesn't normally bother me,

Sat is going to be a tough day,really hate seeing Mr dlt cry,

Thank you Ozzie this threat has really made me think about stuff, and now hopefully I can put things behind me and look forward,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As my train pulled away from Newcastle a couple weeks station and my dad was waving me off with tears in his eyes. Every damn time. "
mr.....

Ffs guys that's cheating c'mon I've not cried for a while ,although always emotional....

Had stop reading the posts though , welled up but got it under control....

"I tend not to weep anymore! I'm Russian or at least I used to be "

Anyway I've cried enough for 2 life times I think guys ! Don't know how I'm still standing sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been crying alot just lately and it's stuff that doesn't normally bother me,

Sat is going to be a tough day,really hate seeing Mr dlt cry,

Thank you Ozzie this threat has really made me think about stuff, and now hopefully I can put things behind me and look forward,"

Don't mention it Mrs DLT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard to cry... People must think i've a swinging brick....but i'd love a good 'greet' sometimes :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cry quite often . I'm very sensitive and emotional. Had a wee bubble last night after the come down of a great day coming to an end .. silly I know . Wish I had no tear ducts at times but was just how I was feeling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I cry quite often . I'm very sensitive and emotional. Had a wee bubble last night after the come down of a great day coming to an end .. silly I know . Wish I had no tear ducts at times but was just how I was feeling "

Not silly at all Shelley!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cry quite often . I'm very sensitive and emotional. Had a wee bubble last night after the come down of a great day coming to an end .. silly I know . Wish I had no tear ducts at times but was just how I was feeling

Not silly at all Shelley!"

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