FabSwingers.com forum: Dick teasers / Time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there a difference on this site...

I ve been on and off this site for about 2 years now and nothings changed...

There are the genuine people that are into the swinging... but there are far to many on this site that are just teasers that like to now that men & couples are wanting them and just want pics its really sickening...

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

"Is there a difference on this site...

I ve been on and off this site for about 2 years now and nothings changed...

people use this site for many different reasons. Just because you want to meet people doesn't mean that everyone wants to meet.

At the moment we aren't meeting due to our location and personal circumstances but I would be appalled if I thought that I was being labeled a prick tease or timewaster just because I don't want what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

the topic wasnt about that I understand that people want different things its about people deliberately being tease by leading people on like I am on msn the now on my cam and I said no you arent it says ur offline and things like that...

I understand people arent always looking for meets its the timewasters and cock teasers am getting at...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oh and another fake to every one that thinks that every forum applies to them...

some times a rant about timewasters and cock teasers are just directed at the people who do it and because we dont NAME AND SHAME PEOPLE this is the only discrete way of venting

Cheers ANY WAY

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

like I said, people use the site for different things.

If you give out your msn, or add people to it then thats a different thing completely. And has nothing whatsoever to do with the site.

Also, you can be on MSN but be invisible. The person may not be lying after all but would prefer to do the contacting rather than being inundated with messages everytime they sign on.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

"Is there a difference on this site...

I ve been on and off this site for about 2 years now and nothings changed...

people use this site for many different reasons. Just because you want to meet people doesn't mean that everyone wants to meet.

you can tease mine anytime you like lil lmao

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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

you can tease mine anytime you like lil lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

woman on cam playing with her tits, foof (fanny) on show playing looking into cam...... do u class them as a cock tease??????

man on cam wanking...... never classed as a fanny tease just classed as a cock/wank cam....

its up to individuals what they do on cam..... if u cant handle it dont watch !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some times a rant about timewasters and cock teasers are just directed at the people who do it and because we dont NAME AND SHAME PEOPLE this is the only discrete way of venting

Cheers ANY WAY"

Hardly discreet putting up a forum post about an individual you have a grievance with?

May I suggest you refrain from viewing their cam if it then raises your blood pressure when they knock you back for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a difference on this site...

I ve been on and off this site for about 2 years now and nothings changed...

you think thats bad, the other night i was watching the footy and the misses came down stairs with this wee red number and wouldnt let me into her until the footy was finished...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

woman on cam playing with her tits, foof (fanny) on show playing looking into cam...... do u class them as a cock tease??????

well said fifelass

man on cam wanking...... never classed as a fanny tease just classed as a cock/wank cam....

its up to individuals what they do on cam..... if u cant handle it dont watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said fifelass it is up to everyone one needs wants what they get from site

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By *cottishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

near irvine, ayrshire

"woman on cam playing with her tits, foof (fanny) on show playing looking into cam...... do u class them as a cock tease??????

man on cam wanking...... never classed as a fanny tease just classed as a cock/wank cam....

its up to individuals what they do on cam..... if u cant handle it dont watch !!!!

so very well said fifey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I luv gettin teased!! Wats up?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it is so bad, why do you keep coming and going then? find a better site and stick with that one.

no offence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find its mostly the ones i wont meet who call me those names...... and then it becomes blindingly obvious why they cant get meets!!

when guys realise that women are on this site because they are sexually liberated and in touch with their sexual needs and not just here to please some silly guys ego the better things will be for everyone!!

we are not just here to shag everyone who mails us we CHOOSE who we chat with or meet or cam with or whatever!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i find its mostly the ones i wont meet who call me those names...... and then it becomes blindingly obvious why they cant get meets!!

Absolutely - couldnt agree more xxx

we are not just here to shag everyone who mails us we CHOOSE who we chat with or meet or cam with or whatever!! x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Is there a difference on this site...

I ve been on and off this site for about 2 years now and nothings changed...

I love it when i see this whinge because the next question i always ask is "what have you done to help yourself..."...

so i look to see if you have written anything on the forums to get yourself known.... ummm..... no...

then i look to see if you have been to any of the countless socials that have been going on in scotland in the past couple of years.... ummm.... no again!!

look, if i make the effort to travel from newcastle for social what effort have you made..... none

then i look to see if you have been on the chatrooms,.... well you are not a regular in there.... so .... um..... strike 3!!!!

the site gives you to the tools to make it work, if you decide not to use any of them then who's fault is that.... let me give you a clue.... you look at it every day in the mirror!!!!

and as for your profile... i hate to break it to you... but a lot of people like to socialise and get to know people before they have sex with them... you are wrong... it is not a sex site... it is a swinging site!!!! and for a lot of people that also emcompasses getting to know people!!!

if you want sex, and you are that desperate, may I suggest a red light distict or most telephone boxes in city centres.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This threads loaded with ill intent, axe grinding, bloomin "i dont get it" style bleets", but as for puting lots of store in whether sumones "swinging properly" if they put themselves in a forum comment or dare try chat to gain some kinda "swinging popularidee",thats a personal choice thing, plenty enjoy a lovely swinging lifestyle without so much as one word in either, dont get why theres so much store put in chat etc,all we ever get in forums is people saying they are dissilusioned by trying to get so much as a hello in chat never mind their swinging connections established, ohhhh just just an opinion, and i myself enjoy chatroom, im just saying it aint essential,

T xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am just sitting here laugh at some of the above comments... where did people get webcam from.

I never mention anything about a cam lol its to do with people as a whole not just a perverted image of some one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a difference on this site...

I ve been on and off this site for about 2 years now and nothings changed...

i wouldnt call it sickening.....perhapd they just like the attention.....not ur thing but might be theres.....takes all sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

easy dont watch there cams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a difference on this site...

I ve been on and off this site for about 2 years now and nothings changed...

If you have been off and on for a couple of years you should really of built up a sixth sense for these so called timewasters/cock teasers.

We as a couple and I (steve) alone have come across a fair few but have learnt to spot them in early stages of conversation.

However, we have spoken to couples and singles that we would like to meet but at some point along the line they have gone quiet on us.... wouldnt nesacarily call them timewasters, maybe we werent their type after all. Thats cool, its annoying but still good to chat to folks too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just came across this thread and well said Fabio - agree completly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am just laughing and the Fabio thing... I agree to appoint... the chat room is a waste of time trying to chat to people because the thing moves a 100 m/s so you can barely read what some ones said... the social meet aspect is cause I ve got responsibilities at night most of the time working and can never make them but I go to CJs and the other is I ve got an ex wife and I am no where near desperate lol...

And to end the rant lol I know you need to get to now some one before shagging them because who knows they could be a axe wielding nutter lol

THE WHOLE POINT OF THE THREAT THAT PEOPLE ARE MISSING IS THAT TIME WASTERS, PIC COLLECTORS AND THE REST ARE DESTROYING THIS SITE---

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love how the OP says he is laughing when he so plainly isn't. These types of sites will always have fakes and time wasters, we've been caught out and learned how to easier spot them now. The OP seems to want to make no effort and yet expects a lot in return. Patience is probably the most important virtue people can have on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have got to say haven’t been on the site that long, but when I do I am very happy to join in when it suits me, no pressure; I try to be polite and respectful and have so far enjoyed it. One night I get a message asking me to phone a couple, who turn out to be very open mined, I have since then got to know them and have so for enjoyed many a good night,thats why I joined the site, to meet like mined people ,I see it as an experience not a game. Win or loose no matter, it’s all about the experience’s i can only speak for me, but so far that experience has been a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I have got to say haven’t been on the site that long, but when I do I am very happy to join in when it suits me, no pressure; I try to be polite and respectful and have so far enjoyed it. One night I get a message asking me to phone a couple, who turn out to be very open mined, I have since then got to know them and have so for enjoyed many a good night,thats why I joined the site, to meet like mined people ,I see it as an experience not a game. Win or loose no matter, it’s all about the experience’s i can only speak for me, but so far that experience has been a good thing.

OMG a positive post here on the scottish forums for a change! glad you are having fun, so are we, the site is like life... you only get out of it what you put in, and we're putting a lot in and oot haha

here's to fab, thanks for the fun, we're having a blast!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes we are .

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By *illow and talkCouple
over a year ago

nr glasgow

"Is there a difference on this site...

I ve been on and off this site for about 2 years now and nothings changed...

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quite simple....stick to the ones you know are genuine,its not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when u say cock teasers, do you mean the guys that just want to wank on cam and cannot travel 5 miles for a shag.

now that is a time waster.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Like all swinging sites, especially free ones, there will always be fake profiles, pic collectors etc etc (Always amazed at the number of very attractive 19/20 year old single bi girls who join the site every month lol)

Most of them are easy to spot though and thankfully we've only had good experiences on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well stated

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