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is being straight a crime on here??

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By *ee-Yin OP   Woman
over a year ago

nr bathgate

So for the last wee while I've been getting asked why I'm not in to women? Why am not bi/bi curious etc? These are questions I seem to be getting asked more and more by both single men and couples

Is it so wrong to be a single straight woman on here?

I'm not sexually attracted to women big deal. Can't help it if I only like c**k

Do you straight guys get asked the same question or is it just us women that's expected to be bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's just you females lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, there's a sociological, feminist argument about how women aren't seen as people with their own agency and are there to perform the object function for men's desire - which in this case is to act as a performer for men's voyeuristic fantasies/ to be "turned" back from lesbianism by the power of the phallus and male sexuality.

Or there's the media studies approach which takes a lot of evidence from the increased consumption of pornography creating a new norm (see also the prevalence of ejaculation over women's bodies/faces as a new preferred sexual climax) of fluid sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short answer, it isn't a crime to be whatever you want to be on here - but people seems to expect a certain behaviour.

You keep on being you! It's your site as much as anyone else's and you deserve to have whatever fun you want - don't be told by anybody what you should/shouldn't be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare you be straight! You should be in confessional of your sins!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Think it's just you females lol"

Nope, had a few offers from guys over the years on here. They obviously struggle with reading plain and simple English!

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By *unknSoulCouple
over a year ago

dumfries-ish

would say be true to yourself and what you want not what they want. The fun will follow when you connect with the right people.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Think it's just you females lol

Nope, had a few offers from guys over the years on here. They obviously struggle with reading plain and simple English! "
But I still take it as a compliment even though I like ladies only

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By *ee-Yin OP   Woman
over a year ago

nr bathgate


"How dare you be straight! You should be in confessional of your sins! "

I know I'm such a disgrace xx lol

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By *ee-Yin OP   Woman
over a year ago

nr bathgate


"Short answer, it isn't a crime to be whatever you want to be on here - but people seems to expect a certain behaviour.

You keep on being you! It's your site as much as anyone else's and you deserve to have whatever fun you want - don't be told by anybody what you should/shouldn't be

"

All I can be is myself xx won't change for anyone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for the last wee while I've been getting asked why I'm not in to women? Why am not bi/bi curious etc? These are questions I seem to be getting asked more and more by both single men and couples

Is it so wrong to be a single straight woman on here?

I'm not sexually attracted to women big deal. Can't help it if I only like c**k

Do you straight guys get asked the same question or is it just us women that's expected to be bi"
i keep getting asked if i want a blow job from various guys,if it wasnt for the fact i talk to guys who are friends on here id block guys from mailing me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dlt don't lie!! You love the fact your getting offered your boaby. sucked!

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By *rjandmrskCouple
over a year ago

West Dunbartonshire

I am st8 too. Never been slightly enclined or attracted to women. Also seen as abnormal. Also had pushy cpls saying I would go with flow during fun with fem. Emmm nope. Block delete and move on. Cant take no for an answer then its a no go. Annoying as hell and makes it harder for us st8 fems to meet. Hey ho. Mrs K x

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

No crime at all . Be with whoever you want and do whatever you want . It's different for everyone don't be pushed towards something you don't want or like . I have left one meet after 20 mins as things were getting to weird for me .

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By *ee-Yin OP   Woman
over a year ago

nr bathgate


"I am st8 too. Never been slightly enclined or attracted to women. Also seen as abnormal. Also had pushy cpls saying I would go with flow during fun with fem. Emmm nope. Block delete and move on. Cant take no for an answer then its a no go. Annoying as hell and makes it harder for us st8 fems to meet. Hey ho. Mrs K x"

It's so annoying ain't it xx glad I'm not alone xx

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By *lasgowkisserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Totally agree wi sum

Comments. Some ppl read one thing

And ask another!!!!

Thick or ignorant....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

You are what you are hunni so dont let it worry you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No crime at all . Be with whoever you want and do whatever you want . It's different for everyone don't be pushed towards something you don't want or like . I have left one meet after 20 mins as things were getting to weird for me . "

Steph that was our secret I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eh naw, just dae your thing and refer to your profile. And if they persist just block em

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"No crime at all . Be with whoever you want and do whatever you want . It's different for everyone don't be pushed towards something you don't want or like . I have left one meet after 20 mins as things were getting to weird for me .

Steph that was our secret I thought "

LOL I'll only leave you if you start stealing my things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constantly. Asked. If I want sex / blow jobs from guys. And when. I do chose to answer. And say no Thanx. Some try and persuade. You that it's ok and that it doesn't. Mean your gay

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

For some folk, anything that does not fit their definition is wrong...

I know of couples who think singles of any sex should be banned, straight people who think bi and gay shouldn't be allowed... but you know what, live you life, be and do who you want to be, and sod whatever anyone else thinks...

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By *lasgowkisserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah cap,n

I get asked off guys too for lots

Can't they read STRIGHT???

no prob wi them until they cross the line

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Absolutly nothing wrong in being a straight female so many pretend bi fems out their for the wrong reasons verybigbird has pretty much nailed whatI see as alot of the problem

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