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By *r and Mrs Snogalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Even though we have been on fab for a while now, I still consider us to be relatively new to swinging. I (shy) am genuinely a wee bit reserved and more used to receiving than given. Years of experience tells me how to read Fly and figuring out what he enjoys.

So my question is what non-verbal clues do you look for during a meet to tell if someone is enjoying what you are doing to them?

Shy x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

that is a great question

relaxed body language, eye contact & laughter, hopefully

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I think _iew has hit the mail on the head. Being relaxed and comfortable with each other is always a good sign

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By *r and Mrs Snogalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Even though we have been on fab for a while now, I still consider us to be relatively new to swinging. I (shy) am genuinely a wee bit reserved and more used to receiving than given. Years of experience tells me how to read Fly and figuring out what he enjoys.

So my question is what non-verbal clues do you look for during a meet to tell if someone is enjoying what you are doing to them?

Shy x

"

Spotted the sleepy typo - I obviously meant giving, not given!

Shy x

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Even though we have been on fab for a while now, I still consider us to be relatively new to swinging. I (shy) am genuinely a wee bit reserved and more used to receiving than given. Years of experience tells me how to read Fly and figuring out what he enjoys.

So my question is what non-verbal clues do you look for during a meet to tell if someone is enjoying what you are doing to them?

Shy x

Spotted the sleepy typo - I obviously meant giving, not given!

Shy x"

Hey, it could have been worse - there could have been 100s of full stops

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By *r and Mrs Snogalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"that is a great question

relaxed body language, eye contact & laughter, hopefully "

Thanks View that is helpful

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A n eagreness to carry on a conversation from messages, meeting witu a kiss on the cheek and still sitting close to each other. Constant eye contact and cheeky grins.......like, you know its on!....maybe not that night but meet two is gonnae be a trip to the moon!

Smiles all round is good, unless youve met up to push each others limits a bit. Love a bit of deliberate tension to build up a rough n tumble later

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Even though we have been on fab for a while now, I still consider us to be relatively new to swinging. I (shy) am genuinely a wee bit reserved and more used to receiving than given. Years of experience tells me how to read Fly and figuring out what he enjoys.

So my question is what non-verbal clues do you look for during a meet to tell if someone is enjoying what you are doing to them?

Shy x

"
I think the biggest clues are the Moans of pleasure lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"that is a great question

relaxed body language, eye contact & laughter, hopefully

Thanks View that is helpful

X"

a pleasure, it is a great question and I will read with interest the answers.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

For me I would say it's the eye contact, it can tell you a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body language, how the other person is talking, how relaxed they are and eye contact are definitely things I'm aware of. I can usually sense when someone's enjoying something but a little bit of reassurance by looking at them is good.

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathing, noises and body language

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Breathing, noises and body language "

Little gasps when something is really good as well

Lx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if they log onto Fab and post a 'meet now', it's maybe a NO

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

note... MAYBE

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Our gut instinct, normally that speaks volumes

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By *r and Mrs Snogalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Interesting comments.

I guess it really is about experimenting and watching for the reactions.

Shy

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By *r and Mrs Snogalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Even though we have been on fab for a while now, I still consider us to be relatively new to swinging. I (shy) am genuinely a wee bit reserved and more used to receiving than given. Years of experience tells me how to read Fly and figuring out what he enjoys.

So my question is what non-verbal clues do you look for during a meet to tell if someone is enjoying what you are doing to them?

Shy x

Spotted the sleepy typo - I obviously meant giving, not given!

Shy x

Hey, it could have been worse - there could have been 100s of full stops "

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By *r and Mrs Snogalot OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Breathing, noises and body language

Little gasps when something is really good as well

Lx"

Years of crap sound proofing put me in the little gasps category.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I much prefer to be with a person who vocalises their enjoyment. I think its very arousing and indeed encouraging to be told how good what I'm doing feels but I also appreciate that everyone doesn't feel able to do that. I would agree that eye contact and a generally relaxed atmosphere would be a good indication that things were on track. Bodies have a habit of being very honest in arousal though...I think I'd kind of guess if I was getting it wrong.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, a wee moan here and there or a bit of swearing when it heats up is like the icing on the cake

No need to scream the street down but if you gotta let it out ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few things for me -

How their body reacts .

Whether they're totally focused on you or distracted , noises , eye contact and how they kiss and touch you . Also how they are afterwards , for me says a lot .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Few things for me -

How their body reacts .

Whether they're totally focused on you or distracted , noises , eye contact and how they kiss and touch you . Also how they are afterwards , for me says a lot . "

True reactions says a lot on how people are in the moment.

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