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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you more confident on fab or real life.

I am more confident on here there are a few people who i have chatted to and asked for meet that if i was out in a bar i would be to shy to say hi as i feel they are out my league anyone else feel like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More confident on fab for me when im in a bar I tend to be more intrested in the drinks to look at anybody else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you more confident on fab or real life.

I am more confident on here there are a few people who i have chatted to and asked for meet that if i was out in a bar i would be to shy to say hi as i feel they are out my league anyone else feel like this "

Had it all kicked out of me a couple of years ago mate, guess im saying,,dunno,

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

First off I dont think anyone is out of anyone's league on here altho I have thought like you that maybe they are, but no one is any better than you so remember that.

I'm a very confidant person on here and in the real world too and can handle both equally u think xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty much the same in real life as I am on here, maybe just a wee bit toned down. As for people being out of my league I wouldn't say that more that I'm not everyone cuppa cocoa but that's just life!

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I'm probably slightly more confident in real life, been on here so long and heard so many "lines" that I struggle to believe anything that's said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

can someone who has met me tell me if i am the same in real life on here am not 100% sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm probably slightly more confident in real life, been on here so long and heard so many "lines" that I struggle to believe anything that's said "

Hard bitten cynicism there JC, some of us actually mean what we say! You are a confident wee soul in real life with good reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First off I dont think anyone is out of anyone's league on here altho I have thought like you that maybe they are, but no one is any better than you so remember that.

I'm a very confidant person on here and in the real world too and can handle both equally u think xx "
totally agree what you see is what you get with me on here or in real life

As for someone being out if anyone's league ... Utter tosh!! No one is better than anyone anywhere! Ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the most confident person but I'm pretty much the same on here as I am anywhere. A bit quieter than others realise tho

Lx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just been told that i am the same maybe a wee bit worse in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is probably going to seem overly simplistic but the way I always look at it is, if you can't accept who and what you are and be comfortable in your own skin how can you reasonably expect others to? Just because someone is reserved and doesn't seek to be the centre of attention doesn't mean they're not confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be quite a quiet person. The real me surfaces when I know people better.

I think since becoming single again and turning 40 I've got a bit more of a 'fuck it' attitude about me though

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Pretty much the same in both.

BUT much more likely to ask someone out on here. Way to insecure to do that in real life.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'm a but shy and quiet for a start, unless its at work - where I know my stuff and am confident with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shy and reserved when I don't know someone but when I do I'm pretty much the same as I am on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can someone who has met me tell me if i am the same in real life on here am not 100% sure "

Yes very much so x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much more confident in my day to day life.

Been played for a fool on here by people I trusted

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can someone who has met me tell me if i am the same in real life on here am not 100% sure

Yes very much so x"
thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I'm probably a bit bolder and more up for it in real life. Eye contact and just being in someones presence gives you an instant "tone" of conversation.

I still feel like a newbie here and sprinkled with vanilla, so I'm not a total cunt yet like at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can someone who has met me tell me if i am the same in real life on here am not 100% sure

Yes very much so xthank you x "

Yip folks he's a twat in person as much as online haha!!x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can someone who has met me tell me if i am the same in real life on here am not 100% sure

Yes very much so xthank you x

Yip folks he's a twat in person as much as online haha!!x "
haha you cheeky bitch xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Does a confidant person turn you on ?

It does for me but never confuse confidence for arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does a confidant person turn you on ?

It does for me but never confuse confidence for arrogance "
there is a fine line that some folk cant see

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Does a confidant person turn you on ?

It does for me but never confuse confidence for arrogance there is a fine line that some folk cant see"
yeah for sure

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I am probably more confident outside fabs tbh.....both in work and in personal life also.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

And also to add had the utter piss taken out of us by people we trusted so I would say yes more confident in real life....fab confidence will have to be rebuilt !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less what anyone thinks of me, once you are that way inclined you are confident in yourself...

I am not pretty or hot but I am me and I am totally cool with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can someone who has met me tell me if i am the same in real life on here am not 100% sure

Yes very much so xthank you x

Yip folks he's a twat in person as much as online haha!!x haha you cheeky bitch xx"

You say the nicest things. I'd say I'm more confident since joining fab but I'm still very shy & quiet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does a confidant person turn you on ?

It does for me but never confuse confidence for arrogance there is a fine line that some folk cant see"

Nor understand or appreciate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can someone who has met me tell me if i am the same in real life on here am not 100% sure

Yes very much so xthank you x

Yip folks he's a twat in person as much as online haha!!x haha you cheeky bitch xx

You say the nicest things. I'd say I'm more confident since joining fab but I'm still very shy & quiet x"
Aye really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit more confident on here I would say. I can be both flirty and confident or shy bairn in the flesh.

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