FabSwingers.com forum: Messaging verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't know how to take this

One of my verifications got in touch to let me know he has received a message from someone asking for tips on how to seduce me lol

I don't know whether to take it as a compliment or whether to be annoyed.

How would you feel and what would you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know how to take this

One of my verifications got in touch to let me know he has received a message from someone asking for tips on how to seduce me lol

I don't know whether to take it as a compliment or whether to be annoyed.

How would you feel and what would you do?"

Take it as a compliment, do some of your own research and consider whether it not you'd like to meet with the gentleman in question. Who knows you could have a lot of fun together!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

If I was asked for hints I would say no and tell the person involved

But if a lady asked someone I know how to deduce me - I'd probably be flattered

Talk about double standards eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would like to know who it is

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Tell your friend to msg back saying she is not intresedt in you as you sneak around behind her instead of msging herself ..........sorted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I was asked for hints I would say no and tell the person involved

But if a lady asked someone I know how to deduce me - I'd probably be flattered

Talk about double standards eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Could be interesting if he chose to reply

Oh no...now I want to know what he said if he did reply hahaha

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"If I was asked for hints I would say no and tell the person involved

But if a lady asked someone I know how to deduce me - I'd probably be flattered

Talk about double standards eh?

Of course, that should say seduce not deduce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was asked for hints I would say no and tell the person involved

But if a lady asked someone I know how to deduce me - I'd probably be flattered

Talk about double standards eh?

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I've never. Been. Able. To deduce. You mate

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

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"Could be interesting if he chose to reply

Oh no...now I want to know what he said if he did reply hahaha"

Lol - curiosity is getting the better of you now

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"If I was asked for hints I would say no and tell the person involved

But if a lady asked someone I know how to deduce me - I'd probably be flattered

Talk about double standards eh?

I've never. Been. Able. To deduce. You mate "

Shut it cheeky

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could be interesting if he chose to reply

Oh no...now I want to know what he said if he did reply hahaha

Lol - curiosity is getting the better of you now

I'm such a nosey cow as it is lol

I should have just pushed it to the back of my mind.

If the person is reading this, please get in touch with me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having. Perved. Your pics I can see. Why he wants to seduce. You hubba. Hubba

However. I would. Take. It as a compliment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I wouldn't be at all impressed. I'd rather they messaged me than ask others about me...and I would expect any true friend to tell them that.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Imho, totally out of order!

And if I was the veri contacted, I'd tell him where to go!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Having. Perved. Your pics I can see. Why he wants to seduce. You hubba. Hubba

However. I would. Take. It as a compliment!

Aw that's lovely thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had girls message me about people I've verified. I don't like it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't think any harm was meant..but you're right Jinty I should be the one he contacted.

I am flattered as I do see it as a compliment too. It's one of those situations where it could be both positive and negative and that's why I want the person to get in touch so I can find out what they were hoping to gain from it.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I've had this happen in the past too,but don't know why people just make contact in the first place rather than asking your meets because at the end of the day what they might think of you someone else might not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know how to take this

One of my verifications got in touch to let me know he has received a message from someone asking for tips on how to seduce me lol

I don't know whether to take it as a compliment or whether to be annoyed.

How would you feel and what would you do?"
So if some wanted to how would they go about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree totally that its flattering to think someone is so keen....but I'd definitely be put off by the fact that some kind of tactics were involved to gain advantage. I'd prefer someone to be themself with me rather than be a character they thought I might go for....and although I know its human nature to discuss others I HATE being the subject so I wouldn't be at all comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree totally that its flattering to think someone is so keen....but I'd definitely be put off by the fact that some kind of tactics were involved to gain advantage. I'd prefer someone to be themself with me rather than be a character they thought I might go for....and although I know its human nature to discuss others I HATE being the subject so I wouldn't be at all comfortable.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Captain Jack....Bothy will tell you nothing! He's ex KGB.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Captain Jack....Bothy will tell you nothing! He's ex KGB.....

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shhhh I told you not to name me some secret. Agent you are

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By *lba The ScotMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"I don't know how to take this

One of my verifications got in touch to let me know he has received a message from someone asking for tips on how to seduce me lol

I don't know whether to take it as a compliment or whether to be annoyed.

How would you feel and what would you do?"

Maybe the person in question can't message you because his/your search terms don't permit it....outwith age range, for example.

#JustThinking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I doubt that's the case because in order to seduce me you'd have to meet my criteria lol

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Maybe the person in question can't message you because his/your search terms don't permit it....outwith age range, for example.

#JustThinking"

Well if that was the case, the person would be even more out of order, after all filters are set for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe the person in question can't message you because his/your search terms don't permit it....outwith age range, for example.

#JustThinking

Well if that was the case, the person would be even more out of order, after all filters are set for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt that's the case because in order to seduce me you'd have to meet my criteria lol"

Can u message me please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I doubt that's the case because in order to seduce me you'd have to meet my criteria lol

Can u message me please "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A person noticing and deciding they like who you have met and hoping you...."put in a good word" for them etc.

Commonly known as riding on the back of you.

Not nice ? Pathetic i would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rephrase - who messaged one of my verifications?? Own up I have a surprise for you

It wasnt me but if its a good surprise I'll take the blame

if its a kick in the knackers it was someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave someone a piece of my mind and blocked him for discussing me / our meet with another Fab user!

Maybe I should have been flattered as the meet was 18 months ago but still......not the done thing as - far as I'm concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I gave someone a piece of my mind and blocked him for discussing me / our meet with another Fab user!

Maybe I should have been flattered as the meet was 18 months ago but still......not the done thing as - far as I'm concerned

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By *woplustwocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

We would never discuss our meets. Discretion

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"We would never discuss our meets. Discretion"

Well, exactly. Hence why I wouldn't say anything but would tell the subject of the enquiry.

However, even when asked at socials I just smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So did you find out who it was?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nope! Which is really annoying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's flattering I think but indirect so it's cowardly.

Read the profile, and ask away! That's how I try to do it.....mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope! Which is really annoying lol"
There's a rumour going round that he has posted on this thread

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

Could be a good opportunity to get all sorts of things you might like - suggest a luxury weekend for two in the Bahamas for example or set of diamond ear-rings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they need tips they they must be not worth your time what a spanner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Shaggy's Song said

It was'nt me

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you not ask the guy who messaged you the name of the profile and message the person in question yourself?

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