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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have noticed a trend recently of me getting messages saying how funny i am and we chat a bit then the moment of death comes we exchange pics then it goes from red hot to cold. My question is whats more important to you personality or looks would you meet someone you were attracted to but was like talking to a plank

Don't think this is a rant because i do ok for myself on her so all is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. I wouldn't meet someone who hasn't got a good sense of humour nor would I meet someone I wasn't attracted to

Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality every time for me personally. I have got to have a click with a person and usually if i have an ayttaction to their personality the physical atttaction isnt far behind. Dnt get me wrong its not always the case but id rather keep them as friends n have a laugh n banter than have someone i cant even talk to for 5 mins hage any fun with me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personality every time for me personally. I have got to have a click with a person and usually if i have an ayttaction to their personality the physical atttaction isnt far behind. Dnt get me wrong its not always the case but id rather keep them as friends n have a laugh n banter than have someone i cant even talk to for 5 mins hage any fun with me x"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I have noticed a trend recently of me getting messages saying how funny i am and we chat a bit then the moment of death comes we exchange pics then it goes from red hot to cold. My question is whats more important to you personality or looks would you meet someone you were attracted to but was like talking to a plank

Don't think this is a rant because i do ok for myself on her so all is good "
looks are what you see first if say your in a pub situation then the personality.

It's a mixed bag really cause I've met some really good looking guys with the personality of a plank of wood,and I've met some pretty average guys who's personality have blown me away.

Give me a handsome average guy with a great personality over all the really good looking guys with zero personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don't think this is a rant because i do ok for myself on her so all is good looks are what you see first if say your in a pub situation then the personality.

It's a mixed bag really cause I've met some really good looking guys with the personality of a plank of wood,and I've met some pretty average guys who's personality have blown me away.

Give me a handsome average guy with a great personality over all the really good looking guys with zero personality "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should really have said that i need someone that i can chat to physical attraction is second wouldn't meet a plank of wood no matter how hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both. I wouldn't meet someone who hasn't got a good sense of humour nor would I meet someone I wasn't attracted to

Lx"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder if Audrey Tatou tells jokes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wonder if Audrey Tatou tells jokes. "
Google it mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Audrey Tatou: “I was making a joke and the British journalist didn’t pick up on my humour. But sometimes when I am speaking in English it is not always easy to tell when I am being ironic".So yes she does.

My answer is therefore both. Wadda gal!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Audrey Tatou: “I was making a joke and the British journalist didn’t pick up on my humour. But sometimes when I am speaking in English it is not always easy to tell when I am being ironic".So yes she does.

My answer is therefore both. Wadda gal!"
is she on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah there has to be both a physical and mental attraction for me too ..... i have met and dated guys who i didnt think were that good looking but had a good personality ....needless to say it wasnt quite enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there obviously has to be a physical attraction to some extent... but personality matters a lot to me!

I personally wouldn't go for a girl unless she has something between the ears - no matter how attractive she is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main reason I anyway am on here is for sex

So attraction I would say is 99% of the deal breaker for me if he's a good giggle even better but I'm not looking for a life partner so if he's the silent type he ho

Auds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main reason I anyway am on here is for sex

So attraction I would say is 99% of the deal breaker for me if he's a good giggle even better but I'm not looking for a life partner so if he's the silent type he ho

Auds x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The main reason I anyway am on here is for sex

So attraction I would say is 99% of the deal breaker for me if he's a good giggle even better but I'm not looking for a life partner so if he's the silent type he ho

Auds x"
Good point about the sex part but i do like a bit of pillow talk after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks for a one night session and gsoh for a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both. I wouldn't meet someone who hasn't got a good sense of humour nor would I meet someone I wasn't attracted to

Lx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both. I wouldn't meet someone who hasn't got a good sense of humour nor would I meet someone I wasn't attracted to

Lx

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So i have no chance then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both. I wouldn't meet someone who hasn't got a good sense of humour nor would I meet someone I wasn't attracted to

Lx

So i have no chance then "

Nooooooo lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both. I wouldn't meet someone who hasn't got a good sense of humour nor would I meet someone I wasn't attracted to

Lx

So i have no chance then

Nooooooo lol x"
Well you are good looking petty about your sense of humor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both. I wouldn't meet someone who hasn't got a good sense of humour nor would I meet someone I wasn't attracted to

Lx

So i have no chance then

Nooooooo lol xWell you are good looking petty about your sense of humor "

Haha what drugs you on the day?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both. I wouldn't meet someone who hasn't got a good sense of humour nor would I meet someone I wasn't attracted to

Lx

So i have no chance then

Nooooooo lol xWell you are good looking petty about your sense of humor

Haha what drugs you on the day? "

Don't know what did you put in my coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Audrey Tatou: “I was making a joke and the British journalist didn’t pick up on my humour. But sometimes when I am speaking in English it is not always easy to tell when I am being ironic".So yes she does.

My answer is therefore both. Wadda gal! is she on fab "

Haven't seen her yet. I'll ask Tom Hanks next time I see him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personality every time for me personally. I have got to have a click with a person and usually if i have an ayttaction to their personality the physical atttaction isnt far behind. Dnt get me wrong its not always the case but id rather keep them as friends n have a laugh n banter than have someone i cant even talk to for 5 mins hage any fun with me x"

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By *hybutnaughtyoneWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I need to be able to joke and engage with someone before I could have sex with anyone. If a man can make me laugh....im in......mx

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

A good mix of both for me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks because I havnt yet met or chatted with anyone funny on here. yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"looks because I havnt yet met or chatted with anyone funny on here. yet."

Aye, you come across as the life of the party too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"looks because I havnt yet met or chatted with anyone funny on here. yet.

Aye, you come across as the life of the party too."

So do you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality every time but there has to be some sort of attraction, however small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being funny is no substitute for being unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think a good funny personality can SOMETIMES make a not so good looking person, more appealing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"being funny is no substitute for being unattractive."
well it work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends if they make a good cuppa tea for me - if not c ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough one as both works for me (shelley) I've found the more I get to know someone the more their personality shines through and I maybe initially thought "hmm no" , I find myself saying "well actually maybe yes"

Met some really sexy fit guys and they have bored me to tears on a social meet and left thinking No way !!! All about the connection and sense of humour to meet is paramount .

For iain it's looks , nice smile eyed etc initially, but after that personality does come into it . So we would say a bit of both

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate


"Personality every time for me personally. I have got to have a click with a person and usually if i have an ayttaction to their personality the physical atttaction isnt far behind. Dnt get me wrong its not always the case but id rather keep them as friends n have a laugh n banter than have someone i cant even talk to for 5 mins hage any fun with me x"

Totally agree xx love a man who can make me laugh xx personality is by far more important xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Michaelangelos David I ain't but I like to think I make up for the fact I'm a munter with a good sense of humour, impeccable manners and treating people I meet with respect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Michaelangelos David I ain't but I like to think I make up for the fact I'm a munter with a good sense of humour, impeccable manners and treating people I meet with respect!"
kissing skills count too you know hehe n you ain't a munter !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Speccy geek here who try's to laugh women into bed works some times other not so much

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I get by on my sparkling wit and personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not fussy about either. I've got Bothy.

Oh...........you didn't think I meant?...... NoOoOooo, really?.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Michaelangelos David I ain't but I like to think I make up for the fact I'm a munter with a good sense of humour, impeccable manners and treating people I meet with respect! kissing skills count too you know hehe n you ain't a munter !! "

Thank you madam

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"I personally wouldn't go for a girl unless she has something between the ears - no matter how attractive she is. "

Absolutely, airheads are just a waste of space!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get by on my sparkling wit and personality "

You've got a damned sides more in addition to sparkling wit and personality!!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Im not fussy about either. I've got Bothy.

Oh...........you didn't think I meant?...... NoOoOooo, really?.....

"

Ehhhh......got bad news for you.....!!

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I get by on my sparkling wit and personality

You've got a damned sides more in addition to sparkling wit and personality!!"

Oops sorry I forgot ..... I've got boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get by on my sparkling wit and personality

You've got a damned sides more in addition to sparkling wit and personality!!

Oops sorry I forgot ..... I've got boobs "

And everything else as well

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Both.

Only play very occasionally so when we meet it's gotta be with people who check all the boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.......if i cant look at his face then i def wouldnt wanna sit on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely personality some have a fantastic body on here but Have completely 0% personality head is so far up their ass Most people I've spoken to who are bbw shall I say & they always seem courteous with a big personality to match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both have to like the look of someone first. There has to be a physical attraction. When you meet in the real world you don't look at someone you've never met before and think 'I fancy his mind'. Whether it be a sexy smile with nice teeth, or a cute arse or twinkly eyes, there has to be something to grab our attention first.

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

Hello Scotland ! Personality is very important xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known gorgeous women who have all the personality of a 3 week old corpse. If I can't connect and engage with someone on a mental level it doesn't matter how attractive they are it ain't gonna happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've known gorgeous women who have all the personality of a 3 week old corpse. If I can't connect and engage with someone on a mental level it doesn't matter how attractive they are it ain't gonna happen"

Lol!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

naturally looks pique my interest but there's a lot to be said for a wicked sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naturally looks pique my interest but there's a lot to be said for a wicked sense of humour "

A wicked sense of humour indeed, but surely also the ability to hold a conversation and one that doesn't necessarily revolve around or gravitate towards sex all the time? Maybe I'm just a bit of a weirdo in that respect! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer quiet men. unless they actualy have something worth saying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"naturally looks pique my interest but there's a lot to be said for a wicked sense of humour

A wicked sense of humour indeed, but surely also the ability to hold a conversation and one that doesn't necessarily revolve around or gravitate towards sex all the time? Maybe I'm just a bit of a weirdo in that respect! lol"
going to get you get you at t shirt with I am Ozzie I am. Weirdo on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naturally looks pique my interest but there's a lot to be said for a wicked sense of humour

A wicked sense of humour indeed, but surely also the ability to hold a conversation and one that doesn't necessarily revolve around or gravitate towards sex all the time? Maybe I'm just a bit of a weirdo in that respect! lolgoing to get you get you at t shirt with I am Ozzie I am. Weirdo on it "

And I shall wear it proudly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both.......if i cant look at his face then i def wouldnt wanna sit on it "

this has me in stitches,

Touche Mon cherie! x

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