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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you know when you've met 'the one', the special person who makes you complete?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you don't wanna leave them when your apart your constantly smiling and thinking about them?

Iv been with jas 24 yrs and I still get butterflies when he's due home from work

Soppy I know lol

Ps... Great feeling when you do find the 1

X

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

For me you dont members of my family find it strange when I say I will die alone I just know im for the most part fine to be with most of the time but require me time also hard to put into words but marrige is a never ever for me

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate


"When you don't wanna leave them when your apart your constantly smiling and thinking about them?

Iv been with jas 24 yrs and I still get butterflies when he's due home from work

Soppy I know lol

Ps... Great feeling when you do find the 1

X"

Awww that's nice xx

maybe, just maybe I'll find "the one" one day

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"How do you know when you've met 'the one', the special person who makes you complete? "

They turn up

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"When you don't wanna leave them when your apart your constantly smiling and thinking about them?

Iv been with jas 24 yrs and I still get butterflies when he's due home from work

Soppy I know lol

Ps... Great feeling when you do find the 1

X"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you don't wanna leave them when your apart your constantly smiling and thinking about them?

Iv been with jas 24 yrs and I still get butterflies when he's due home from work

Soppy I know lol

Ps... Great feeling when you do find the 1

X"

Wow 24 years? Good on you & nothing soppy about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know when you've met 'the one', the special person who makes you complete? "
are you talking. About forever / marriage. Or a perfect. Meet??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you don't wanna leave them when your apart your constantly smiling and thinking about them?

Iv been with jas 24 yrs and I still get butterflies when he's due home from work

Soppy I know lol

Ps... Great feeling when you do find the 1

X

Awww that's nice xx

maybe, just maybe I'll find "the one" one day"
i hope you do too

I'm a firm believer in there's someone for everyone

Even you kola lol

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some are lucky enough to find "The One" whom they will spend the rest of their life with, others will find perhaps 2 or 3 "The Ones" who are right for them at that particular point in their lives and there are some who will never find or indeed want to find "The One".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ask me am half way through my second divorce and am only 32

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you know when you've met 'the one', the special person who makes you complete? are you talking. About forever / marriage. Or a perfect. Meet??! "

Lol a partner/forever etc not a meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he is called Neo!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"When you don't wanna leave them when your apart your constantly smiling and thinking about them?

Iv been with jas 24 yrs and I still get butterflies when he's due home from work

Soppy I know lol

Ps... Great feeling when you do find the 1

X

Awww that's nice xx

maybe, just maybe I'll find "the one" one dayi hope you do too

I'm a firm believer in there's someone for everyone

Even you kola lol

X"
lol as I said hard to put into words dosnt translate well those important to me know it though conventional aint me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't ask me am half way through my second divorce and am only 32 "

Your brutal & I'd no be asking for your advice anyway lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

When You seriously start to re-evaluate what you value.

You realize that there is something about the person that means more to you than other silly things that were once important and you start adjusting your lifestyle accordingly....and when he offers you his last rollo it's time to go ring shopping

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By *ootlover456Man
over a year ago

Paisley

She smiled at him.

And then it arose and struck Vimes that, in her own special category, she was quite beautiful; this was the category of all the women, in his entire life, who had ever thought he was worth smiling at. She couldn’t do worse, but then, he couldn’t do better. So maybe it balanced out. She wasn’t getting any younger but then, who was? And she had style and money and common-sense and self-assurance and all the things that he didn’t, and she had opened her heart, and if you let her she could engulf you; the woman was a city.

And eventually, under siege, you did what Ankh-Morpork had always done – unbar the gates, let the conquerors in, and make them your own.

Terry pratchett - Guards Guards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think we all have just one person out there for us. Think there will be different people who suit us at different points in our lives.

Or at least that's what I keep telling myself because I already met The One and lost him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are lucky enough to find "The One" whom they will spend the rest of their life with, others will find perhaps 2 or 3 "The Ones" who are right for them at that particular point in their lives and there are some who will never find or indeed want to find "The One". "

Scary this I agree with you,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When You seriously start to re-evaluate what you value.

You realize that there is something about the person that means more to you than other silly things that were once important and you start adjusting your lifestyle accordingly....and when he offers you his last rollo it's time to go ring shopping "

He would be screwed because I hate rolo's lol

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate


"When you don't wanna leave them when your apart your constantly smiling and thinking about them?

Iv been with jas 24 yrs and I still get butterflies when he's due home from work

Soppy I know lol

Ps... Great feeling when you do find the 1

X

Awww that's nice xx

maybe, just maybe I'll find "the one" one dayi hope you do too

I'm a firm believer in there's someone for everyone

Even you kola lol

X"

Aye i hope so, like you i believe there is someone for everyone xx

Hey I'm enjoying the search xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my 'the one' a couple of years ago, unfortunately I wasn't his.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Never met him, and really not fussed if I never do.

I'm content with my life and don't feel I need someone else to validate myself with.

I have good friends, and a boyfriend I care for, we have fun, and its great... Love - no thanks. I don't think I am capable of it towards another adult (my son is absolutely adored by me, and in no doubt how much he is loved)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know when you've met 'the one', the special person who makes you complete? are you talking. About forever / marriage. Or a perfect. Meet??!

Lol a partner/forever etc not a meet x"
sorry hunni. That. Was a gen question lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are lucky enough to find "The One" whom they will spend the rest of their life with, others will find perhaps 2 or 3 "The Ones" who are right for them at that particular point in their lives and there are some who will never find or indeed want to find "The One". "

I like this it makes sense and is realistic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never met him, and really not fussed if I never do.

I'm content with my life and don't feel I need someone else to validate myself with.

I have good friends, and a boyfriend I care for, we have fun, and its great... Love - no thanks. I don't think I am capable of it towards another adult (my son is absolutely adored by me, and in no doubt how much he is loved)"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you know when you've met 'the one', the special person who makes you complete? are you talking. About forever / marriage. Or a perfect. Meet??!

Lol a partner/forever etc not a meet xsorry hunni. That. Was a gen question lol "

I've had a few perfect meets

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

When you fit together like a jigsaw....if you take a part away it's incomplete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are lucky enough to find "The One" whom they will spend the rest of their life with, others will find perhaps 2 or 3 "The Ones" who are right for them at that particular point in their lives and there are some who will never find or indeed want to find "The One".

I like this it makes sense and is realistic x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many different ways to answer this but gonna try lol

When that person accepts you for all you are , doesn't try to change you . When you are able to finish one anothers sentences . When you have that feeling of excitement when you know youre going to see them . But more importantly when you cannot ever imagine life without them . They make your heart skip a beat when they smile at you , when they kiss you or slip their hand into yours . When you miss them before the door is closed when they leave . When you just know deep down in your heart that they are your true soulmate and want to spend every minute with them . When they become what can only be described as your drug . When they make you laugh even when you don't want to laugh and when they put their arms around you suddenly everything is better . To me that's what happens when you've found the "one"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew when I gave her some of the red bears from my haribo. Obv I had to love her or it would of all been orange

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think it is nice seeing people who are happy together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So many different ways to answer this but gonna try lol

When that person accepts you for all you are , doesn't try to change you . When you are able to finish one anothers sentences . When you have that feeling of excitement when you know youre going to see them . But more importantly when you cannot ever imagine life without them . They make your heart skip a beat when they smile at you , when they kiss you or slip their hand into yours . When you miss them before the door is closed when they leave . When you just know deep down in your heart that they are your true soulmate and want to spend every minute with them . When they become what can only be described as your drug . When they make you laugh even when you don't want to laugh and when they put their arms around you suddenly everything is better . To me that's what happens when you've found the "one" "

Aww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this post about me Runs really really fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is nice seeing people who are happy together "
lol well apart from you _iew ...

No one else would have jas

Lol lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I think it is nice seeing people who are happy together lol well apart from you _iew ...

No one else would have jas

Lol lol "

I am great single...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this post about me Runs really really fast "

Of course.... Whoelse!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this post about me Runs really really fast

Of course.... Whoelse!?? "

just checking xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this post about me Runs really really fast

Of course.... Whoelse!??

just checking xx

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Haha big head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the one whose hand you're holding

Is the one one who holds your heart

When the one whose eyes you gaze into

Gives your hopes and dreams their start,

When the one you think of first and last

Is the one who holds you tight,

And the things you plan together

Make the whole world seem just right,

When the one whom you believe in

puts their faith and trust in you,

You've found the one and only love

You'll share your whole life through

A wee poem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When the one whose hand you're holding

Is the one one who holds your heart

When the one whose eyes you gaze into

Gives your hopes and dreams their start,

When the one you think of first and last

Is the one who holds you tight,

And the things you plan together

Make the whole world seem just right,

When the one whom you believe in

puts their faith and trust in you,

You've found the one and only love

You'll share your whole life through

A wee poem "

Aww that's sweet lol who did you steal that from??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are lucky enough to find "The One" whom they will spend the rest of their life with, others will find perhaps 2 or 3 "The Ones" who are right for them at that particular point in their lives and there are some who will never find or indeed want to find "The One". "

wise wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the one whose hand you're holding

Is the one one who holds your heart

When the one whose eyes you gaze into

Gives your hopes and dreams their start,

When the one you think of first and last

Is the one who holds you tight,

And the things you plan together

Make the whole world seem just right,

When the one whom you believe in

puts their faith and trust in you,

You've found the one and only love

You'll share your whole life through

A wee poem

Aww that's sweet lol who did you steal that from??"

My last wedding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When the one whose hand you're holding

Is the one one who holds your heart

When the one whose eyes you gaze into

Gives your hopes and dreams their start,

When the one you think of first and last

Is the one who holds you tight,

And the things you plan together

Make the whole world seem just right,

When the one whom you believe in

puts their faith and trust in you,

You've found the one and only love

You'll share your whole life through

A wee poem

Aww that's sweet lol who did you steal that from??

My last wedding "

Nice.... Can see these words were heartfelt haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the one whose hand you're holding

Is the one one who holds your heart

When the one whose eyes you gaze into

Gives your hopes and dreams their start,

When the one you think of first and last

Is the one who holds you tight,

And the things you plan together

Make the whole world seem just right,

When the one whom you believe in

puts their faith and trust in you,

You've found the one and only love

You'll share your whole life through

A wee poem

Aww that's sweet lol who did you steal that from??

My last wedding

Nice.... Can see these words were heartfelt haha "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I found one, then realised it was for the wrong reason so that's gone the way of the dodo.

I'm trucking along nicely atm and someone has a big smile on my face every few weeks. I haven't settled for long in 1 location since 1996! though my nomadic days seem to be drawing to a close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some are lucky enough to find "The One" whom they will spend the rest of their life with, others will find perhaps 2 or 3 "The Ones" who are right for them at that particular point in their lives and there are some who will never find or indeed want to find "The One". "

This is quite applicable to a few of my close friends and family and also myself.... there has been twice in my life that I have thought there was 'the one' ....once when I was very young and then the second time before I realised it would have been a life of misery ..... now I find that im quite settled and take each day as it comes.....I dont look to the future with wedding bells.... I dont think I would get married....I certainly know that there would never be any more children for me .... the future may change with regards to 'the one' ....but everyone certainly has their own _iews and opinions as this thread has shown xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think some are lucky enough to find "The One" whom they will spend the rest of their life with, others will find perhaps 2 or 3 "The Ones" who are right for them at that particular point in their lives and there are some who will never find or indeed want to find "The One".

This is quite applicable to a few of my close friends and family and also myself.... there has been twice in my life that I have thought there was 'the one' ....once when I was very young and then the second time before I realised it would have been a life of misery ..... now I find that im quite settled and take each day as it comes.....I dont look to the future with wedding bells.... I dont think I would get married....I certainly know that there would never be any more children for me .... the future may change with regards to 'the one' ....but everyone certainly has their own _iews and opinions as this thread has shown xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many different ways to answer this but gonna try lol

When that person accepts you for all you are , doesn't try to change you . When you are able to finish one anothers sentences . When you have that feeling of excitement when you know youre going to see them . But more importantly when you cannot ever imagine life without them . They make your heart skip a beat when they smile at you , when they kiss you or slip their hand into yours . When you miss them before the door is closed when they leave . When you just know deep down in your heart that they are your true soulmate and want to spend every minute with them . When they become what can only be described as your drug . When they make you laugh even when you don't want to laugh and when they put their arms around you suddenly everything is better . To me that's what happens when you've found the "one" "

I agree to this entirely - u just know when you've met the one

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By *lasgowkisserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Wish I could meet miss dynamite

Is she the one??.............,

Over to u miss dynaboobs............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes its right person wrong time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes its right person wrong time"

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Sometimes its right person wrong time

"

I agree too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes its right person wrong time

I agree too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree three

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