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"What problems can and cannot be solved by turning it off and on again. " And if that fail give it a kick | |||
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"What problems can and cannot be solved by turning it off and on again. " Everything | |||
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"Thonk the forum's already a pretty eclectic mix. If there's something you're bored with or not interested in, just move on to the next item." peoples spelling,its reel bad wen u carnt speel making it hrad for other peepel to reed | |||
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"Thonk the forum's already a pretty eclectic mix. If there's something you're bored with or not interested in, just move on to the next item." what happens if it's the same posters repeating the same topics tho? | |||
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"Thonk the forum's already a pretty eclectic mix. If there's something you're bored with or not interested in, just move on to the next item." there is precisly zero ecclectic about the forums thats the problem its the same few posters posting the same things no matter what the subject | |||
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"I'd like to see some new topics from some of the people who aren't happy with what's on offer currently. I mean, there's not much point in complaining if you don't have an alternative to suggest. My old headteacher used to say that to us when we were having a good old moan....." for reasons its impossible for those "complaining" to post anything just where the forums have went due to behaviours as long as what is errrrrr apparently the masses are happy alls well | |||
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"Thonk the forum's already a pretty eclectic mix. If there's something you're bored with or not interested in, just move on to the next item.there is precisly zero ecclectic about the forums thats the problem its the same few posters posting the same things no matter what the subject " well maybe you could post something of interest to you? but remember what's interesting to you ain't always intresting to others and vice versa. | |||
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"Let's stay on topic then.... What we need is a random forum topic google.... " Perhaps the next 3 posters suggest one word each and the next topic combines all 3 random words | |||
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"Done it.......next? " You get to post a forum topic on it and confuse the heck out of anyone who hasn't read this | |||
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"Done it.......next? You get to post a forum topic on it and confuse the heck out of anyone who hasn't read this " Yep | |||
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"Let's stay on topic then.... What we need is a random forum topic google.... " You will find all mines are random bit like me | |||
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"Thonk the forum's already a pretty eclectic mix. If there's something you're bored with or not interested in, just move on to the next item.there is precisly zero ecclectic about the forums thats the problem its the same few posters posting the same things no matter what the subject " Well surely Kola, you can come up with the obvious solution. Presumably you don't include yourself among "the same few posters", so do something about it. Instead of just sitting back and complaining, why not start an original thread yourself? You have the solution in your own hands! Simple. | |||
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"As was said before It getting like anyone bar the usual handful that post get closed Maybe it's just me tho ? " Auds if you feel that then why not take it up with admin ? Everyone breaking the rules should be treated the same and to be honest i think they are i know if i have in the past then ive been delt with the same way as others have . | |||
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"Some adult topics regarding swinging wouldn't go a miss " im sure if you done the topics your on about many would contribute to it. | |||
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"As was said before It getting like anyone bar the usual handful that post get closed Maybe it's just me tho ? " Are you suggesting there's been wholesale closing of threads? I'm sorry, but I find that hard to believe. The threads that have been closed, which I'm aware of, have had one common issue; abuse. That obviously contravenes forum rules, so the perpetrators can have no complaints. | |||
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"I only pop on the forums occasionally and will have a quick look to see if anything interests me and if not I just leave. One thing I do find annoying though in some of the threads I read is where a subject is being discussed and then just descends into 2 or 3 posters flirting with each other and basically killing the post. Wouldn't it be easier to just message the person they're flirting with and maybe even.......try to arrange a meet?" Totally agree and it's thread after thread | |||
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"As was said before It getting like anyone bar the usual handful that post get closed Maybe it's just me tho ? " I would agree some people seem to get off with things more than other or perhaps they are more sleekit | |||
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" One thing I do find annoying though in some of the threads I read is where a subject is being discussed and then just descends into 2 or 3 posters flirting with each other and basically killing the post. Wouldn't it be easier to just message the person they're flirting with and maybe even.......try to arrange a meet?" I think the topics are the best mix I have seen for a while, I think the angst that is being shown is from the above. Sometimes The Lounge is a bit like that. | |||
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"As was said before It getting like anyone bar the usual handful that post get closed Maybe it's just me tho ? Auds if you feel that then why not take it up with admin ? Everyone breaking the rules should be treated the same and to be honest i think they are i know if i have in the past then ive been delt with the same way as others have . " oh I have jacs on many occasion but as per no reply???? Some posts have been closed for no apparent reason ... No name calling no shaming nothing but it got closed ?? I asked admin and as per no reply? Iv seen seen far in depth discussions in other forum rooms stay open but got some reason the Scottish forum you can't say boo to a goose?? | |||
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"I only pop on the forums occasionally and will have a quick look to see if anything interests me and if not I just leave. One thing I do find annoying though in some of the threads I read is where a subject is being discussed and then just descends into 2 or 3 posters flirting with each other and basically killing the post. Wouldn't it be easier to just message the person they're flirting with and maybe even.......try to arrange a meet? Totally agree and it's thread after thread " | |||
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"As was said before It getting like anyone bar the usual handful that post get closed Maybe it's just me tho ? Auds if you feel that then why not take it up with admin ? Everyone breaking the rules should be treated the same and to be honest i think they are i know if i have in the past then ive been delt with the same way as others have . oh I have jacs on many occasion but as per no reply???? Some posts have been closed for no apparent reason ... No name calling no shaming nothing but it got closed ?? I asked admin and as per no reply? Iv seen seen far in depth discussions in other forum rooms stay open but got some reason the Scottish forum you can't say boo to a goose?? " But everyone knows admin dont reply to every email they get but im sure things will be getting monitored hence the need for forum mods . with regards to many of the closed threads its pretty clear for all reading some post that they aint going to go well so mods probably close them down before they get too out of hand and to be honest i think its the right thing to do with some posts. | |||
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"So it's obviously 1 rule for the Scottish forum and 1 rule for the rest? Surely that's not right? And it always seems to the same forum mod ? What's the point in letting you ask admin a question if they don't reply yes I know the must receive thousands blah blah blah but surely they can answer some?" I cant answer that because i dont know the answer | |||
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"Thoughts on the line between art and porn. The first thing you would do if you were the opposite sex. Most embarrassing date " I might steal on off these | |||
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"I only pop on the forums occasionally and will have a quick look to see if anything interests me and if not I just leave. One thing I do find annoying though in some of the threads I read is where a subject is being discussed and then just descends into 2 or 3 posters flirting with each other and basically killing the post. Wouldn't it be easier to just message the person they're flirting with and maybe even.......try to arrange a meet?" Very much agree, this is why in the last year I hardly post on the forums. It seems if your not kissing someone and in the love fest that the forum seems to have become then your posts are ignored. Eclectic posting is a distant memory on the Scotland forum. | |||
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"As was said before It getting like anyone bar the usual handful that post get closed Maybe it's just me tho ? Are you suggesting there's been wholesale closing of threads? I'm sorry, but I find that hard to believe. The threads that have been closed, which I'm aware of, have had one common issue; abuse. That obviously contravenes forum rules, so the perpetrators can have no complaints. " to answer these points and others that have been raised involves breaking forum rules and for a long time now this has been the stalwart of the many ................apparently lets not forget it takes more than one to argue a point | |||
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"I think a few people have missed the point of this post its was not to debate the merits of each others post but to try and encourage others to post there own topics i feel that all the bickering over the last week would have put people off posting and would like to start the fun again.If you are a bit shy and don't feel comfortable starting a topic and have one that you fancy sharing inbox me and i will put it up for you " | |||
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"I think a few people have missed the point of this post its was not to debate the merits of each others post but to try and encourage others to post there own topics i feel that all the bickering over the last week would have put people off posting and would like to start the fun again.If you are a bit shy and don't feel comfortable starting a topic and have one that you fancy sharing inbox me and i will put it up for you " oh jesus help us lmao | |||
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"I think a few people have missed the point of this post its was not to debate the merits of each others post but to try and encourage others to post there own topics i feel that all the bickering over the last week would have put people off posting and would like to start the fun again.If you are a bit shy and don't feel comfortable starting a topic and have one that you fancy sharing inbox me and i will put it up for you oh jesus help us lmao " What you trying to say | |||
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"Getting new users to inbox you regarding forum topics isnt really going to introduce them to the forums....... cmon people get over your shyness and get typing lol " Totally agree if people ain't happy with what's being posted then get your fingers typing and do your own posts of intrest | |||
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"Getting new users to inbox you regarding forum topics isnt really going to introduce them to the forums....... cmon people get over your shyness and get typing lol " Was thinking if they see there topic doing well they will join in and start posting | |||
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"Getting new users to inbox you regarding forum topics isnt really going to introduce them to the forums....... cmon people get over your shyness and get typing lol Was thinking if they see there topic doing well they will join in and start posting " Personally I would get the feeling of contentment knowing that my forum post was doing well if I had introduced it and seeing people posting on it and joining in on the conversation And I also think or would hope that it would bring new users to forums seeing new names being introduced | |||
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"Some adult topics regarding swinging wouldn't go a miss im sure if you done the topics your on about many would contribute to it." Been there done that before - i meant others | |||
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"Thoughts on the line between art and porn. The first thing you would do if you were the opposite sex. Most embarrassing date I might steal on off these " Feel free because this thread had turned into a meeting of the peoples front of judea from monty python where the subject goes out the window and the debate centres on the rules of the debate! See you on another thread peeps | |||
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"I think a few people have missed the point of this post its was not to debate the merits of each others post but to try and encourage others to post there own topics i feel that all the bickering over the last week would have put people off posting and would like to start the fun again.If you are a bit shy and don't feel comfortable starting a topic and have one that you fancy sharing inbox me and i will put it up for you " It's not missing the point, it's looking at possible reasons people don't start their own forum topics. There are obviously different reasons for this, given the replies we have seen, that go beyond people being shy. If these other issues aren't taken on board then it'll just continue as usual and we could have a post every other week asking why lurkers aren't posting, why people aren't starting topics etc. | |||
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"I think the point is as I've said it's nothing to do with the topics being posted and more to do with who is posting ie the so called clique. So what is the souloution? We are all adults, we all joined here for fun and to use this site as it suits us. Some like the forums some dont, some like chat rooms some don't some are only here for socials, some to keep in touch with friends and some for fun. The bottom line is we're all adults and are capable of doing our own thing as and when we please and we don't need people telling us what we're doing is wrong. As I've said before the difference between here and chat is what's said here stays here for all to see,but disappears in Chat and forgotten about so quickly. So come everyone who's Complaining about the shit topics,the people posting the cliques and whatever else your not happy about what is your souloution to it since its your issues?" Is this in response to my post? I've already provided an answer. | |||
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"New forum post should be to find Batman a batgirl lol " no need i think i might have someone interested | |||
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"Think it's just about basic respect, you don't have to like or agree with anyone or anything , you can rant & moan all you want. It's just keeping it so it's general and not personal. I think that's what puts as lot of people & neewbies off posting. Certainly did in my case you don't want to get caught in the firing line so to speak. So you just don't post for fear of offending anyone." And that is wrong the forums are there to be used by all the same as the rest of the site xx | |||
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"I think the point is as I've said it's nothing to do with the topics being posted and more to do with who is posting ie the so called clique. So what is the souloution? We are all adults, we all joined here for fun and to use this site as it suits us. Some like the forums some dont, some like chat rooms some don't some are only here for socials, some to keep in touch with friends and some for fun. The bottom line is we're all adults and are capable of doing our own thing as and when we please and we don't need people telling us what we're doing is wrong. As I've said before the difference between here and chat is what's said here stays here for all to see,but disappears in Chat and forgotten about so quickly. So come everyone who's Complaining about the shit topics,the people posting the cliques and whatever else your not happy about what is your souloution to it since its your issues? Is this in response to my post? I've already provided an answer." No it wasn't it's a general reply to all. | |||
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"New forum post should be to find Batman a batgirl lol no need i think i might have someone interested " | |||
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"in summary.... the people bored with the same old, same old threads post some of your own that add the interest you seek. the people loving the fun and bantering with their pals, continue but be respectful of other and don't take over every bloody thread.... the end have fun " noted lol | |||
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"Some like the limelight more than others " Wouldn't say I like the limelight but I do enjoy a good debate & a giggle x | |||
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"That's my point !!!! You cannot have a debate in the Scottish forum! It gets highjacked with folk taking things too personal or folk taking the post in their direction Surely folk on here can see that Some folk on here always plead the oh it's getting personal card and bang! It gets took off If something is directed at me I'm big enough and ugly enough to hold my own without running to the mod?" Let's have a good debate then lol? I can see your point totally but you can notice at times when it is a personal dig at someone which I'm sure you would agree isn't on or required with an audience & personal matters should be on a 1-1 level. Anyway fancy a good debate abt something lol | |||
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"To me there are two group or cliques on the forums and every thread turning into debate is killing it " There are more than 2 groups......perhaps look outwith the 2 groups and that's the audience that stay away because the 2 groups......perhaps if the 2 groups as you call it quit the stupidness then the audience would post...... Just a thought | |||
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"That's my point !!!! You cannot have a debate in the Scottish forum! It gets highjacked with folk taking things too personal or folk taking the post in their direction Surely folk on here can see that Some folk on here always plead the oh it's getting personal card and bang! It gets took off If something is directed at me I'm big enough and ugly enough to hold my own without running to the mod? Let's have a good debate then lol? I can see your point totally but you can notice at times when it is a personal dig at someone which I'm sure you would agree isn't on or required with an audience & personal matters should be on a 1-1 level. Anyway fancy a good debate abt something lol " And perhaps the people who have the issues should meet one day and have it out .... | |||
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"If a post is turning into a personal vandetta then I believe the person responsible should simply be removed without SOME posts being pulled. We're here for fun not to be torn apart by spiteful people who can't deal with a situation because that person as chosen to block them and the only way they can do it is in the forums. " i can honestly say iv never seem a post where anyone has ripped anyone to shreads? If a post is getting personal why not remove whoever is involved rather that close the whole thread? | |||
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"That's my point !!!! You cannot have a debate in the Scottish forum! It gets highjacked with folk taking things too personal or folk taking the post in their direction Surely folk on here can see that Some folk on here always plead the oh it's getting personal card and bang! It gets took off If something is directed at me I'm big enough and ugly enough to hold my own without running to the mod? Let's have a good debate then lol? I can see your point totally but you can notice at times when it is a personal dig at someone which I'm sure you would agree isn't on or required with an audience & personal matters should be on a 1-1 level. Anyway fancy a good debate abt something lol And perhaps the people who have the issues should meet one day and have it out .... " Good idea lol. | |||
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"To me there are two group or cliques on the forums and every thread turning into debate is killing it " oops sorry are we boring you? Ok then ... Wanna know what I had for dinner? Fav biscuit or colour? | |||
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"I was in the debate club at college last year someone put a topic up and let it commence " On you go then lol | |||
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"If a post is turning into a personal vandetta then I believe the person responsible should simply be removed without SOME posts being pulled. We're here for fun not to be torn apart by spiteful people who can't deal with a situation because that person as chosen to block them and the only way they can do it is in the forums. i can honestly say iv never seem a post where anyone has ripped anyone to shreads? If a post is getting personal why not remove whoever is involved rather that close the whole thread? " it happens on an almost daily basis lol And yes as I said earlier some posts that get out of hand should have the offending people removed but other posts I agree with the mods decisions on removing the full post to stop things from getting out of hand in the first place. I'm sure you an intelligent lady and know when a post has been set up just to instigate conflict...I know I can spot them a mile off. | |||
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"Some like the limelight more than others " I'm sorry, but this 'limelight' stuff is getting really boring!! Is that all you can say? If people are concerned that the same folk are posting all the time, well for goodness sake is the solution not obvious? The lurkers should stop lurking and post. It's not exactly rocket science!! Actually, as I type this, it's not just the same people that might be posting all the time, it's the same people spouting the same old moans all the time. Give us all a break, and again it's not rocket science, if you're fed up with the same people posting, then stop moaning and post!! | |||
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"If a post is turning into a personal vandetta then I believe the person responsible should simply be removed without SOME posts being pulled. We're here for fun not to be torn apart by spiteful people who can't deal with a situation because that person as chosen to block them and the only way they can do it is in the forums. i can honestly say iv never seem a post where anyone has ripped anyone to shreads? If a post is getting personal why not remove whoever is involved rather that close the whole thread? it happens on an almost daily basis lol And yes as I said earlier some posts that get out of hand should have the offending people removed but other posts I agree with the mods decisions on removing the full post to stop things from getting out of hand in the first place. I'm sure you an intelligent lady and know when a post has been set up just to instigate conflict...I know I can spot them a mile off. " i must be blind jacs? A daily basis ? How can what's your fav colour or any of the other 10 posts that are currently on here now be a personal dig at someone? Honestly I'm not having a go at any certain post hell il even post to some nonsense posts too but it would be great for just a few serious post to be able to stay on without it going the same way most do And obviously I'm not the only 1 that thinks this by some of the comments above? | |||
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"This forum in itself says a million words " yes it does..for the first time in a long time people are debating | |||
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"This forum in itself says a million words yes it does..for the first time in a long time people are debating " | |||
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"This forum in itself says a million words yes it does..for the first time in a long time people are debating " | |||
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"Jesus. Took me ages. To read through. This been off sick. With a bug last. 24 hrs ( who hoo I hear some cry) Seriously. Tho what a great. Thread actual. Debate an discussion. And I think everyone. On this thread. Had some great. Things to say. In my opinion. I think we can only. Hope the shy and lurkers. The pissed off people. On the peripherals come out and post. Me personally. I suppose. Some will say I post too much. And are in the lovefest crowd. Fair enough. Fact tho and it is a,fact cos I wrote. It on a thread I will never if I'm on let a zero. Thread go bye Always. Answer a op,s post so Mabes. We all just need a better balance. For those interested. The tablets. Are working. And should be up to full power tomorrow. Happy fabbing. God bless " | |||
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"in summary.... the people bored with the same old, same old threads post some of your own that add the interest you seek. the people loving the fun and bantering with their pals, continue but be respectful of other and don't take over every bloody thread.... the end have fun " Amen! | |||
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