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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had something really annoying happen today. And it was from a couple who are verified too. We got a mesage asking if we were interested in the woman joining us for some fun. Replied politely, telling her what we are looking for. Got a reply and a friends invite. Then she wanted to know when we could meet. Told her we tend to meet socially first, and sometimes meet others from the site for a social drink and chat, and would invite them along to the next one. Well, wouldn't you know it... all our messages deleted, friends invite deleted, no more replies. What a total chancer!!

Maybe he didn't want his wife to know that he's perving other women without her knowledge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was he applying on her behalf or his in drag? LOL sometimes you just gotta feel sorry for them personally we dont meet seperatley and only play as a cple. Best that way for us. I get to perv him having fun and he gets to watch me as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we get this too, always spot it when after the first message asking what we are into..we get a dirty'ish reply then signed off with the females name..then the friends request is sent. We dont accept a friends request so early into talking anyway but its fun to look on the 'looked at me' page and see how many times the pervert tries to access the private pics lol

Get revenge though by saving the message, then reply to it a few days later...catches them out done it before lol ) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So we're not the only ones this happens to. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the fact you wanted to meet them socially with others present is what put them off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That was my attempt to sus them out. Even though they were verified, something didn't seem quite right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the fact you wanted to meet them socially with others present is what put them off "

think that might put us off also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps they dont want to do a social meet thing with other people there, maybe they prefere to do the social meets in a more personal level.... i know if we were meeting up with people socially with a view to having fun at some point we would want to meet up on a more intimate social basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"perhaps they dont want to do a social meet thing with other people there, maybe they prefere to do the social meets in a more personal level.... i know if we were meeting up with people socially with a view to having fun at some point we would want to meet up on a more intimate social basis."

Totally agree, some may say "great we get to meet lots of other swinging pals of yours" some might simply be both scared at that idea or feel their privacy under threat, were they verified by a nice variety of people?

T

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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It wouldn't make them chancers to want to meet people without a load of other people there too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't say that she had to meet us with a load of other people present. Just mentioned that sometimes over the weekend we meet in town for a beer. "She" was the one who said they were happy with that. I think you're missing the point. 'It wasn't her at all!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool, it was she from a couple,chances are both read it, and said the social drink was "the next one" kinda sounded like a bit of an event.

No worrys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey we have to meet all your friends at a social meet? Will your parents be there also? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are chancers in all walks of life.fab is a free site so anyone can make up a cpls profile or change their name or have a few profile? (which i dont understand)

you can usualy tell the fakers when the female of the "cpl" asks you what colour knickers im wearing ,,,doh!! lol

just have to spot the fakers and move on

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't say that she had to meet us with a load of other people present. Just mentioned that sometimes over the weekend we meet in town for a beer. "She" was the one who said they were happy with that. I think you're missing the point. 'It wasn't her at all!' "

Im a chancer.... any chance of perving on ya wifes pics mate, lol... well at least Im honest and up front! Do you think the verifs on their account were false???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yip i think like auds .... u just have to think ok lets move on nexttttttttttttttt xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yip i think like auds .... u just have to think ok lets move on nexttttttttttttttt xx"

Gizza perve on your pics then Trace, lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yip i think like auds .... u just have to think ok lets move on nexttttttttttttttt xx

Gizza perve on your pics then Trace, lol xxx "

em let me think ............ nooooooooooooooooo lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yip i think like auds .... u just have to think ok lets move on nexttttttttttttttt xx

Gizza perve on your pics then Trace, lol xxx

em let me think ............ nooooooooooooooooo lol x"

Lol, worth a chance huh!!! Right I maway to put my head in the oven to gas myself!!!!..... Doh, forgot it's electric...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the post was more directed at the fact that it was all very quickly directed towards the person getting fast access to the private gallery then once theyd had a look, they done the bunk. the whole issue of suggesting they could tag along to the next mini social has been made a mountain out of a molehill!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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But that was the reason they gave for the people being outed as chancers? that the people shied off when they offered to meet them with a few other people? and although they have re worded that comment since , the OP is what we were all answering to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you can usualy tell the fakers when the female of the "cpl" asks you what colour knickers im wearing ,,,doh!! lol"

I get asked that all the time

Sometimes they ask Jane too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you can usualy tell the fakers when the female of the "cpl" asks you what colour knickers im wearing ,,,doh!! lol

I get asked that all the time

Sometimes they ask Jane too "

sorry bout that xix i really need to stop doing it ..... bra colour??? lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok. I think a lot of people missed the point here. (Apart from Prettyandginger) There was no female asking!!!! It was probably her man wanting a quick perv and a wank, then deleting us before she got home and found out. Or a single bloke just tagging along to get into our private gallery. The social meet is just an unimportant side issue. Just commenting on how sad and desperate some people are when it come to wanting to perv other peoples pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i thought i read in your post if im not mistaken she wanted a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometime it is difficult via the written word to get your point across. as asingle on here it can be hard and while most couples are very nice and polite some just label all us single peeps as chancers or up to no good. but really some of us are just like you but not lucky to have a partner who understand are sexual needs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i thought i read in your post if im not mistaken she wanted a meet? "

You’re not the only one, the opening post suggests she/he wanted to meet after the friends invite, at which point the OP invited them along to a social meet with other people. Sounds more like they didn't want to meet others and took the easy way out rather than just say???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think you guys may be right they may have been intimidated by the thought of others being there.. also sometimes peoples profiles are shall we say defensive or even aggresive maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There was no woman to meet! It was just a ploy to accept a friends invite. Let's just end this here. There was no woman, there was never ever going to be a meet, it was a guy posing as the fem part of a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are assuming that not neccesarily the case..sorry not looking to appear argumentative but its unfair to presume that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I give up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just saying i know where you are coming from just see it from both sides sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, this has become a bit of a laughing stock now.

Guys come on, what bloody Verified couple would get the heebie jeebies at the thought of meeting other people, to the extent of deleting all the messages and the friends link...moments after getting access to the Private pics even after it was them who sent the friends request quickly in the first place? Further more to that, who in thier right mind would go to such extremes if they didnt actually want to go to a social? The scenario would be if they did want to meet like they said but didnt want to attend a social, they would say yeah mabye, then not go but still keep in touch for the meet. To get scared away by the prospect of Drinks, whilst being interested in having Sexual intercourse with as close to a stranger just wouldnt happen.

The person, wether male or female were after a quick perv, end of. jeezo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well that is fair enough and very hard to argue.so im not going to lol We all know that there are idiots on here and evrywhere but sometimes because of a few clowns all of us are tarred with the same brush.. but i beleive you may be right

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Happily we are all different so we do things different ways.

If we had added someone to a friends list and chatted in mails and they told us that they want to meet socially first but probably with other people, then we would say no thanks, delete the friends invite and all mails, as it would be pointless carrying on any conversation.

It isn't about being scared to socialise, it is about how we like want things to happen.

On the other hand, it could well be someone wanting a quick perve of pics, but, there are plenty of those on the site without having to add friends to see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay, Okay I give up ..LOL. I'll meet you all together or a cpl at a time so long as you dont mind the other half tagging on... to hold, coats, wine, me. you (if your fem)and anything else we can think of. Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Access to private pics is pretty much a mutual thing, its a natural progression to entrusting the people messaging you with a view to meeting and a way of puting faces to the screen name.

Same way it is easy peezy to opt to reverse the decision by deleting from friends list.

50/50, could of been genuine interest, could of been a busy bee at you, i personaly never close doors on peeps untill it unravells that it is someone with farrrrr too much time on their hands and zero swinging intentions.

Verified is usually a reasurring sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a difference from being socialy verified to having being verified as actualy meeting and playing with someone maybe that put them of. Why not just mail them and ask straight out.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

anyone who just sends a friends invite after only mailing two lines or nothing at all i just wait till there off line and perv there private gallery lmao !!!.normally though generally find no pics at all on these ppls profiles lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol... someone should write a handbook on "how to get in touch" on swingers sites.. or should it not be that complicated Manners do the trick for me :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh, "Chancers" is this thread titled? lol

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