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timewasters can someone. please. define the meaning. to this as relevant. to this site please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's a word that comes up on a daily, and frankly. I could. Be wrong. But I have never seen it explained, it just seems to roll of the tounge. Nowadays

Anyone. Fancy. Offering there take on it

My own thoughts. We're it someone. Or couple. Who organise meets and constantly. Cancel

Or is there. More to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who join a swingers site to collect pictures or live out some fantasies in their head without having any intentions of meeting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who join a swingers site to collect pictures or live out some fantasies in their head without having any intentions of meeting anyone."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a word that comes up on a daily, and frankly. I could. Be wrong. But I have never seen it explained, it just seems to roll of the tounge. Nowadays

Anyone. Fancy. Offering there take on it

My own thoughts. We're it someone. Or couple. Who organise meets and constantly. Cancel

Or is there. More to it "

I think you are right jack.To be fair i have never had time waster i believe that all the people who cancelled on me are genuine or am i just gullible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So basically. If haven't. Met someone. In here ( sexually, socially) in say so many months then??

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

For me it's someone who doesn't turn up when a meet has been arranged. Anything else can just mean they have changed their mind... Often I can be chatting to someone with a view to meeting but then something puts me off.... Should I still meet them for fear of being called a timewaster ?? I think not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are more than a fair few people on here for whom the fantasy of living a swinger lifestyle has more appeal than the actual reality!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there are more than a fair few people on here for whom the fantasy of living a swinger lifestyle has more appeal than the actual reality!"
ok fair comments. But hey

Swingers lifestyle # new thread

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"For me it's someone who doesn't turn up when a meet has been arranged. Anything else can just mean they have changed their mind... Often I can be chatting to someone with a view to meeting but then something puts me off.... Should I still meet them for fear of being called a timewaster ?? I think not "

I'm with you on this Cutie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class someone as a Timewaster, as someone who agrees to meet & then fails to show up

I have even had one Timewaster message me at 10pm at night, asking if I wanted to meet. How pissed was I when I told him we had arranged to meet 2 hours before he got in touch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel this phrase is used far to often!

When I read a profile that mentions it I will be honest and say it puts me off!

I really don't understand it, I think it quite often says more about the people that use it than the people that are branded it!

Life is full of times where you put effort in and nothing materialises that's just the way of the world.

We have been on this site for a few years now and have never had any reason to call people time wasters.

Some people seem to use it if you chat and then decide you don't want to meet for whatever reason, they can't accept it and feel the need to blame!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there are more than a fair few people on here for whom the fantasy of living a swinger lifestyle has more appeal than the actual reality!"
totally agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Far too often. It's dropped. On a daily. In here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lost count the times we have been accused of being timewasters because we wont meet with the person we have chatted to.our conclusion is just because you have chatted with them they think they have the divine right to meet with you but when you tell them no you are classed as a timewaster.

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

What i find is alot of the time those who use the term timewaster is its usually their own time theyre wasting. They come on and give it the "fancy a shag" and when they get no response the sites full of timewasters.

To me a timewaster is someone who constantly makes excuses not to meet or doesnt turn up for a meet though I havent had anyone fail to turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who join a swingers site to collect pictures or live out some fantasies in their head without having any intentions of meeting anyone."

Is that where I'm going wrong!? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who join a swingers site to collect pictures or live out some fantasies in their head without having any intentions of meeting anyone.

Is that where I'm going wrong!? Lol "

How do i start collecting pictures sounds like it could join my stamp collection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it really is a hard one this as so many things can crop up last minute before a meet! We could right a book on Excuses but hard to tell what ones are real and what ones are false so we tend to take people at there word.

We have been called time waster because people have not read our profile properly so we ignore them.

Or because we have said sorry your not for us! we have Never not turned up at a meet let it be social or otherwise. yes it rolls of the tongue very easily for some folks on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should see my collection of cock pictures! and they just keep coming and coming

To be fair, I think it is down to the individual when and who they choose to meet. If they continue to arrange meets and just don't show, get over it and move on to the next person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been told by a few im a timwaster coz iv said no thanks to meeting which is far from timewasting ,,, id be wasting there time by saying yes n then not showing i ageee too many throw the phrase around too often ... Id only class someone a timewaster if they repeatadly asked to meet nd cancelled without a good valid reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who join a swingers site to collect pictures or live out some fantasies in their head without having any intentions of meeting anyone.

Is that where I'm going wrong!? Lol "

LilMissNaughty you could only go "wrong" in the best possible way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been accused a few times but I have kids with disabilities also don't keep best of health at times myself but thats fine if people suspect im waisting there time or stringing them along then move on & block my kids are my first most important thing in my life also my health sex comes last in my priorities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been accused a few times but I have kids with disabilities also don't keep best of health at times myself but thats fine if people suspect im waisting there time or stringing them along then move on & block my kids are my first most important thing in my life also my health sex comes last in my priorities "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been accused a few times but I have kids with disabilities also don't keep best of health at times myself but thats fine if people suspect im waisting there time or stringing them along then move on & block my kids are my first most important thing in my life also my health sex comes last in my priorities "

Your health has to be the most important consideration in your life. Anyone who would accuse you of being a timewaster given what you've just said is an absolute fucknugget!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who join a swingers site to collect pictures or live out some fantasies in their head without having any intentions of meeting anyone.

Is that where I'm going wrong!? Lol

LilMissNaughty you could only go "wrong" in the best possible way "

I went "wrong" a long time ago lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who join a swingers site to collect pictures or live out some fantasies in their head without having any intentions of meeting anyone.

Is that where I'm going wrong!? Lol

LilMissNaughty you could only go "wrong" in the best possible way

I went "wrong" a long time ago lol "

And thank God you did!

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By *anarkshirelassCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Peeps who have been on the site for a while and purport to 'want meets' and actually advertise and state on their status 'lets meet tonight'.

All talk and no action.

We've agreed a meet with the same couple on two separate occasions, one time we were actually walking out the door.

Wont be a third time...

Still believe everyone has the right to say, sorry not for us.

As much as they are a pain in the arse, they're not as bad as the fakers...

What's your thoughts mmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Peeps who have been on the site for a while and purport to 'want meets' and actually advertise and state on their status 'lets meet tonight'.

All talk and no action.

We've agreed a meet with the same couple on two separate occasions, one time we were actually walking out the door.

Wont be a third time...

Still believe everyone has the right to say, sorry not for us.

As much as they are a pain in the arse, they're not as bad as the fakers...

What's your thoughts mmmmmmmmmmmmmm"
sorry we both had the shits (both Occasions)promise not to have a vindalo if you give us a final chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewaster: someone who got to know you well enough to know that in the end they really didn't want to meet you....

Everyone can change their minds...there is no obligation on any of us to meet. To simply not show up however, is just not acceptable behaviour. When all is said and done though, we are all taking a chance when arranging a meet. We may be let down due to circumstances beyond the other parties control. That's life. Outside fab can any off us say we haven't been let down at the last minute by friends and family? Go with the flow. I mean...one day your alarm clock may not go off and a gorgeous sexy woman may be abandoned at a railway station. She'll probably forgive you though....if you're nice......

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Timewaster: someone who got to know you well enough to know that in the end they really didn't want to meet you....

Everyone can change their minds...there is no obligation on any of us to meet. To simply not show up however, is just not acceptable behaviour. When all is said and done though, we are all taking a chance when arranging a meet. We may be let down due to circumstances beyond the other parties control. That's life. Outside fab can any off us say we haven't been let down at the last minute by friends and family? Go with the flow. I mean...one day your alarm clock may not go off and a gorgeous sexy woman may be abandoned at a railway station. She'll probably forgive you though....if you're nice...... "

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have had to cry of from a few meets.

Never wanted to. Always been due to real life situations arising outwith my control.

But always give as much notice as possible.

Just not turning up, as has also happened to me, is just plain rude!

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By *aintmikeMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I think there should be a site just for them alone ,cos thats how they exist,

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I was called a timewaster along with ither abusive words the other day as i never responded to his 4 messages in a row

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